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A place to talk about making an income online. This includes random jobs, online employers, sites that pay you and ways to monetize websites. These are sites and strategies that will yield the user minimum wage or better and allow them to provide for themselves.
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Two wheels, or three, sometimes one, but never more than twenty. Interested in riding a bicycle? We welcome bicyclists of all skill levels including those who don't yet own a bike. Ask us your questions or meetup with other redditors in your area for local rides. Happy cycling!
2023.05.30 00:14 Soggy_Astronaut6886 Eagle and hole in one
I got paired up with a 3some yesterday. Was playing decent. Par 5 hole 9 I get on in 2 and proceed to 3 putt for par. Not too upset but keeping composure because I've been playing well and I knew that hole 10 was another par 5. Again I reach in 2 and drain my 10 footer for the big bird. We get to the par 3 15th over water and another guy in the group hits a hole in one. Needless to say the group was excited. We stopped in for beers and exchanged phone number. Great vibes all day in that group.
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2023.05.30 00:14 Traditional_Hunt2851 Day 6 Update
Day 6 post op today (had my surgery around 7:30am Wednesday) and woke up mostly with extreme ear pain. Any suggestions for that? I’m struggling more with the ear pain than anything at this point.
Last night I snapped and finally gave in to my cravings for some sort of solid food. I put down some Mac and cheese and although it was a little painful, was so so worth it. I think the cravings for food are slowly driving me crazy 😂
Have been taking oxycodone every 6 hours and ibuprofen every 6 in between my Oxy intake. Would I be safe to take the Oxy every four instead? My scabs are starting to fall off and oh boy I am in ow town.
Otherwise, pain aside, I feel like the worst part about this has been the mental take. I crave everything food wise, don’t want to do anything but sleep, and haven’t been at all productive. Yesterday I was able to pick up my Xbox and play some games for the first time, but otherwise I just feel drained.
That’s my quick day 6 update, I’ve been eating mostly applesauce, popsicles, and meal replacement shakes and the Naked drinks to sustain myself. Drinking tons of water, and as of yesterday started using an ice pack for my ear aches.
I know there’s lots of people of this sub that are at the same day as me, what has your experience been like??
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Last night I snapped and finally gave in to my cravings for some sort of solid food. I put down some Mac and cheese and although it was a little painful, was so so worth it. I think the cravings for food are slowly driving me crazy 😂
Have been taking oxycodone every 6 hours and ibuprofen every 6 in between my Oxy intake. Would I be safe to take the Oxy every four instead? My scabs are starting to fall off and oh boy I am in ow town.
Otherwise, pain aside, I feel like the worst part about this has been the mental take. I crave everything food wise, don’t want to do anything but sleep, and haven’t been at all productive. Yesterday I was able to pick up my Xbox and play some games for the first time, but otherwise I just feel drained.
That’s my quick day 6 update, I’ve been eating mostly applesauce, popsicles, and meal replacement shakes and the Naked drinks to sustain myself. Drinking tons of water, and as of yesterday started using an ice pack for my ear aches.
I know there’s lots of people of this sub that are at the same day as me, what has your experience been like??
2023.05.30 00:13 HungryHarambe1 Mega Altaria WEATHER BOOSTED 2741 2498 6418 Adding 10
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2023.05.30 00:13 Lower-Refrigerator-3 Took an entire day, but it was worth it. First time custom loop.
 | I had initially planned to use 2 480mm EK Quantum Radiators, but could only get one to fit without a) running into clearance issues between the two radiators or b) not being to actually fit the second one anywhere else in the case. submitted by Lower-Refrigerator-3 to watercooling [link] [comments] Ended up using one of the EK rads, and a smaller 120mm Corsair radiator mounted at the back. Basic Specs: Case: Thermaltake Core P8 CPU: Intel 13900K with a EK Velocity 2 GPU: Gigabyte 4090 Gaming OC with Alphacool waterblock As part of the break-in process after letting it idle for about an hour, I ran Furmark on the 4K preset for 30 minutes. GPU temps never got above 62C with coolant temps maxing out at 40-42 Pretty happy with the results. |
2023.05.30 00:12 Nightraid9999 It got worse after i stopped selfharming
Selfharming was a really long journey for me, i started cutting when i was 12 and then it continued till i was 18. At one point i got better in the means of life and being confident and loving myself so i realized it was enough of selfharm and stopped sh when i became 18. After that i dont know what happened, i just couldnt go to school anymore and i tought oh well its one of those depressive episodes i will just rest for a couple of days and continue my life but it never got better. I cant leave my damn house for the last 3-4 months now, highschool(last year) isnt kicking me because i used to be a top student and now all my exams are given F and 0 so my teachers are kinda surprised. I have to go to school tomorrow and do the last 10 exams but i didnt even study so i cant sleep but cry(i prob will get 0 again cuz i am so fxking afraid of going school). I just realized all my confidence came from my selfharm, i am so fuxked up and i feel like i have to get back to selfharm cuz it would make me feel much better. So do you guys have some "healthy ways" of coping?
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2023.05.30 00:12 Mother_Wolverine_A Am I overreacting?
I don’t know if what I’m going through is abuse or not. Some days it can be damaging but others it makes me feel as though I’m somehow ungrateful for everything I have. I know a lot of people have it so much worse than me, and at least my parents care about me. Maybe their methods are… sometimes not the best, but at least they give a shit.
I feel so stupid and weak and wrong because I feel hurt and in pain. My mum and dad aren’t bad people but they’re definitely not good parents, I just don’t know if they’re bad enough that it counts as abuse. I know some people with absolutely horrible parents who do horrible things to them and hearing all the horror stories on these subreddits… sometimes I can relate but other times I feel like I’m overreacting.
My parents (my dad especially) constantly berate and shout at me, I would say 50% of the conversations we have are just him berating me for something minor like forgetting to wash my dish after eating. This isn’t even him when he’s mad though, he can get 10 times worse than just the usual shouting. He threatens to hurt me sometimes when he’s really mad but they’re empty threats, I know that they are but even though it’s been years since he’s actually hit me, I think some part of me still remembers the pain and the fear of it even though I’ve repressed the memories - I’m still a teenager and I have no memories of my father in my childhood, my long term memory sucks and I struggle to remember things that are over a month ago which I think could be the result of repressed trauma? My dad can be a very scary person but my mum wouldn’t leave him because she wouldn’t be able to support herself and 2 children alone (my little brother has severe autism and needs therapies, she has also not been in the best physical health the past few years due to chronic pain). Living with my dad can be like walking on eggshells.
My mother was always the safe parent and has been there for me my entire life, but just over a year ago when i tried to tell her about how I had suspicions that I have ADHD, she just shut me down completely told me i was normal and just needed some discipline. I was struggling with symptoms my whole life without ever thinking that it might not be my fault that things that other people find easy are hard for me. When i finally came to the conclusion it might not all be due to personal flaws, I was shut down by the one person I thought I could trust. It hurt me so much, she was the only person in the world I could rely on and the way she reacted just, broke me. I now have trust issues and my mental health - which had already started deteriorating beforehand because of school pressured - dropped so far down.
On the other hand though…
My parents are wonderful sometimes, really they are, they treat me well, they buy me all the things I want, they love me and care for me so much. It’s all the little things they do like bringing me food to my bed when im tired or sick and telling me that they’re proud of me (despite their high expectations), the list goes on, so it’s so incredibly hard to believe that they could actually be responsible for hurting me this much. Maybe it’s my own fault for not meeting expectations, for being stupid and never trying hard enough. I know that no matter what I do, it doesn’t make it alright for them to abuse me but I’m still not sure if it can even be called that.
I’m posting this to as many subreddits as I can because I really need help, I’m so confused and I’m desperate
I’m conflicted and just not in a good place right now so I really hope someone can give me some advice please
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I feel so stupid and weak and wrong because I feel hurt and in pain. My mum and dad aren’t bad people but they’re definitely not good parents, I just don’t know if they’re bad enough that it counts as abuse. I know some people with absolutely horrible parents who do horrible things to them and hearing all the horror stories on these subreddits… sometimes I can relate but other times I feel like I’m overreacting.
My parents (my dad especially) constantly berate and shout at me, I would say 50% of the conversations we have are just him berating me for something minor like forgetting to wash my dish after eating. This isn’t even him when he’s mad though, he can get 10 times worse than just the usual shouting. He threatens to hurt me sometimes when he’s really mad but they’re empty threats, I know that they are but even though it’s been years since he’s actually hit me, I think some part of me still remembers the pain and the fear of it even though I’ve repressed the memories - I’m still a teenager and I have no memories of my father in my childhood, my long term memory sucks and I struggle to remember things that are over a month ago which I think could be the result of repressed trauma? My dad can be a very scary person but my mum wouldn’t leave him because she wouldn’t be able to support herself and 2 children alone (my little brother has severe autism and needs therapies, she has also not been in the best physical health the past few years due to chronic pain). Living with my dad can be like walking on eggshells.
My mother was always the safe parent and has been there for me my entire life, but just over a year ago when i tried to tell her about how I had suspicions that I have ADHD, she just shut me down completely told me i was normal and just needed some discipline. I was struggling with symptoms my whole life without ever thinking that it might not be my fault that things that other people find easy are hard for me. When i finally came to the conclusion it might not all be due to personal flaws, I was shut down by the one person I thought I could trust. It hurt me so much, she was the only person in the world I could rely on and the way she reacted just, broke me. I now have trust issues and my mental health - which had already started deteriorating beforehand because of school pressured - dropped so far down.
On the other hand though…
My parents are wonderful sometimes, really they are, they treat me well, they buy me all the things I want, they love me and care for me so much. It’s all the little things they do like bringing me food to my bed when im tired or sick and telling me that they’re proud of me (despite their high expectations), the list goes on, so it’s so incredibly hard to believe that they could actually be responsible for hurting me this much. Maybe it’s my own fault for not meeting expectations, for being stupid and never trying hard enough. I know that no matter what I do, it doesn’t make it alright for them to abuse me but I’m still not sure if it can even be called that.
I’m posting this to as many subreddits as I can because I really need help, I’m so confused and I’m desperate
I’m conflicted and just not in a good place right now so I really hope someone can give me some advice please
2023.05.30 00:12 robursiena Is my employee allowed to make me work from 10pm until midnight?
Hello,
I am from the uk and my company has asked me to work a normal working day 9-6pm and then be “on call” from 10-midnight for a few weeks. They have offered me no compensation or anything. They say they need it for a new client.
I really don’t want to do it as this type of work makes me pretty anxious and i can definitely envision this leading to burnout.
In my contract it says something about maybe being required to work over my contracted hours.
Multiple colleagues have been asked to work on call just now as well.
Any advice?
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I am from the uk and my company has asked me to work a normal working day 9-6pm and then be “on call” from 10-midnight for a few weeks. They have offered me no compensation or anything. They say they need it for a new client.
I really don’t want to do it as this type of work makes me pretty anxious and i can definitely envision this leading to burnout.
In my contract it says something about maybe being required to work over my contracted hours.
Multiple colleagues have been asked to work on call just now as well.
Any advice?
2023.05.30 00:12 BARRETTJC Job Advice.
Hello All,
I’m really hoping for a fast advice piece, fingers crossed lol. To my question.
I currently am on a vacation( did not put in at work or anything, just drove up to see family after work on Friday), and I am wanting to stay until tomorrow(Tuesday). My dilemma is that I texted my boss this afternoon giving him a notice that I went of out town this weekend, and am planning on stay one more day, which would leave me to not be back to work until Wednesday.
Now last week I asked in advance to leave early on Friday so I could get here sooner instead of getting here at 1:00am on Saturday. Now the foreman’s reasoning was that he would have to talk to the manager, and the best he could do might be 2:30 instead of 4:30. Well that didn’t happen, the manager at the last minute on Friday wanted everyone to stay and work on this assembly, so I didn’t leave until 4:40 and thus didn’t get here until early Saturday. Needless to say I was pissed because he promised me I could leave at 2:30 and never got around to asking management.
Now his response when I told him that I would be staying up here for another day, he said that they need all the workers they can get, and I can’t just text him up and say I’m not coming in. I think it’s ridiculous as part of the reason I couldn’t leave on Friday is that there was a guy that had a last minute thing or was a no call no show. I don’t have the funds to see family and my fiancé often, and this is the one weekend I had where I had enough money to come spend it with her, and friends. And I may not be able to see them again for possibly until the holidays.
It really pisses me off that I have been here for 4-5 months and have not missed a single day except for when I had a workplace injury(which was a half day). The foreman told me when I asked to leave early last week, that it shouldn’t be a problem, because I’ve literally showed up for work everyday I’ve been employed. Do I just need to go home and go to work? Or do I have a valid reason to be mad? I feel like he’s trying yo guilt trip me and make their problem of not having enough workers, my problem, when in reality it shouldn’t be my concern correct? I know it’s a small shop and they don’t have a system to have people cover for others (there’s 10 employees including me). I really don’t want work to dictate my life, and I’m aware to a point it does. I value family over everything, and work isn’t an exception. Part of me feels guilty that I eventually just told him I’d be in tomorrow, but now Im just not wanting to.
Thank you,
Justin
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I’m really hoping for a fast advice piece, fingers crossed lol. To my question.
I currently am on a vacation( did not put in at work or anything, just drove up to see family after work on Friday), and I am wanting to stay until tomorrow(Tuesday). My dilemma is that I texted my boss this afternoon giving him a notice that I went of out town this weekend, and am planning on stay one more day, which would leave me to not be back to work until Wednesday.
Now last week I asked in advance to leave early on Friday so I could get here sooner instead of getting here at 1:00am on Saturday. Now the foreman’s reasoning was that he would have to talk to the manager, and the best he could do might be 2:30 instead of 4:30. Well that didn’t happen, the manager at the last minute on Friday wanted everyone to stay and work on this assembly, so I didn’t leave until 4:40 and thus didn’t get here until early Saturday. Needless to say I was pissed because he promised me I could leave at 2:30 and never got around to asking management.
Now his response when I told him that I would be staying up here for another day, he said that they need all the workers they can get, and I can’t just text him up and say I’m not coming in. I think it’s ridiculous as part of the reason I couldn’t leave on Friday is that there was a guy that had a last minute thing or was a no call no show. I don’t have the funds to see family and my fiancé often, and this is the one weekend I had where I had enough money to come spend it with her, and friends. And I may not be able to see them again for possibly until the holidays.
It really pisses me off that I have been here for 4-5 months and have not missed a single day except for when I had a workplace injury(which was a half day). The foreman told me when I asked to leave early last week, that it shouldn’t be a problem, because I’ve literally showed up for work everyday I’ve been employed. Do I just need to go home and go to work? Or do I have a valid reason to be mad? I feel like he’s trying yo guilt trip me and make their problem of not having enough workers, my problem, when in reality it shouldn’t be my concern correct? I know it’s a small shop and they don’t have a system to have people cover for others (there’s 10 employees including me). I really don’t want work to dictate my life, and I’m aware to a point it does. I value family over everything, and work isn’t an exception. Part of me feels guilty that I eventually just told him I’d be in tomorrow, but now Im just not wanting to.
Thank you,
Justin
2023.05.30 00:12 CynderMizuki Hired and then they immediately rescinded the offer my first day because I have a BA
I was hired by the hiring manager and today was my first day, the property manager sat me down, asked about my degree and when I’m going to sideline them, left for like 10 minutes then came back to tell me they “made a mistake” and “don’t actually have any positions available”. This is such bullshit.
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2023.05.30 00:11 Ok_Information_6136 Can asians see when they get really high? (I’m not racist read for context)
So me and some of my friends were out smoking the other day when one of them brought their Asian friend, let’s just call him Dave. After about 8-10 gs smoked between the 5 of us, Dave starts to say he can’t really see, us being obliterated, we thought it was a funny haha racist joke he was saying.
After about another 30 min Dave turns to us and tells us in a concerning tone, “bro I really can’t fucking see, like I’m looking thru a pinhole”. Of course we all laugh hysterically as he continues to freak out about not being able to see, we all thought he was just REALLY high and fucking with us. (Btw we were all at my one friends house ,AJ let’s say). We start to pack up our stuff to leave AJs house, meanwhile Dave is now passed out on the couch with his bag of Doritos in hand, and I’m getting his stuff ready for him.
Anyways, me, Dave, and the friend that originally brought Dave eventually got to my place. Now Dave finally being out of his 4 hour long weed coma tells us, that his vision is coming back. We both comfort him telling him he was just tripping out, but instead of him being clueless now he tells us that’s a side effect of getting high as an Asian; his eyes get so droopy that you can’t see past your own eyelids.
And that’s my story, at first I thought it was a funny comment he through out. But now I’m really sitting here thinking “Can asians really not see when they get THAT high”
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After about another 30 min Dave turns to us and tells us in a concerning tone, “bro I really can’t fucking see, like I’m looking thru a pinhole”. Of course we all laugh hysterically as he continues to freak out about not being able to see, we all thought he was just REALLY high and fucking with us. (Btw we were all at my one friends house ,AJ let’s say). We start to pack up our stuff to leave AJs house, meanwhile Dave is now passed out on the couch with his bag of Doritos in hand, and I’m getting his stuff ready for him.
Anyways, me, Dave, and the friend that originally brought Dave eventually got to my place. Now Dave finally being out of his 4 hour long weed coma tells us, that his vision is coming back. We both comfort him telling him he was just tripping out, but instead of him being clueless now he tells us that’s a side effect of getting high as an Asian; his eyes get so droopy that you can’t see past your own eyelids.
And that’s my story, at first I thought it was a funny comment he through out. But now I’m really sitting here thinking “Can asians really not see when they get THAT high”
2023.05.30 00:11 ndef896 Free dedicated PvE server for use
Hey everyone. I recently played through Gloomrot on a dedicated PvE server with a few friends. A couple days ago we finished all we wanted to do in the game and have since stopped. There's still (at the time of writing this) 17 days of playtime left on the server, so I wiped it, removed the password, and figured I'd post the info here if anyone wants to use it.
It's set to the standard PvE settings, but because there's only 17 days left, I slightly increased the drop rates and reduced the crafting times. Additionally, the clan size goes up to 10.
Info: Host: GPortal
Region: US-east
Server Name: Ends June 15
IP: 194.140.197.44:30900
Password: None
As the title implies, the server will expire June 15th. Have fun!
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It's set to the standard PvE settings, but because there's only 17 days left, I slightly increased the drop rates and reduced the crafting times. Additionally, the clan size goes up to 10.
Info: Host: GPortal
Region: US-east
Server Name: Ends June 15
IP: 194.140.197.44:30900
Password: None
As the title implies, the server will expire June 15th. Have fun!
2023.05.30 00:11 ShinigamiTSG Am I dumb or is Madden dumb?
 | I’ve scouted this QB from Louisville all year. He’s 6’3 214lbs, runs a 4.5 40 yard dash, has good throw power and accuracy. He has great awareness, juke move, spin move, and stiff arm as well. This should be a generational talent right? submitted by ShinigamiTSG to Madden [link] [comments] |
2023.05.30 00:11 WildWestCollectibles How to cook a delicious meal that you can have for breakfast lunch and dinner for only $1.44
Shakshuka! This recipe serves 4 with less than $6 worth of ingredients, and best of all it doesn’t taste like cardboard, it’s SO good and full of flavor! I have this multiple times a week and can’t get enough.
YouTube recipe to follow along
Ingredients (with SoCal prices from Costco and Walmart as of 5/29/2023)
Olive oil ($0.40)
1 yellow onion ($0.85)
1 green bell pepper ($0.72)
1 serrano pepper ($0.15)
Paprika (<$0.05)
Cumin (<$0.05)
Minced Garlic ($0.10)
1 - 28oz can of whole peeled tomatoes ($1.43)
Salt (<$0.05)
4 eggs ($0.66)
Black Pepper (<$0.05)
Cilantro ($0.50)
Feta cheese ($0.40)
Toasted bread ($0.36 can be any carb of your choice)
Total cost for 4 servings: $5.77 ($1.44 per serving!)
Cooking instructions:
1) chop the onions, bell pepper, and hot pepper and sauté with paprika and cumin in olive oil for around 5 minutes in medium-high heat.
2) once sautéed, add some garlic and after about 2 minutes, add the whole can of tomatoes. You can crush them while they cook with a wooden spoon. Keep stirring and taste it to add salt and seasoning to taste.
3) after around 10-15 minutes, check to see if you can move the sauce and see the bottom of the pan without it being too watery. Once ready, drop heat to low
4) Create four pockets in the sauce where you will carefully crack the 4 eggs. Add salt and pepper on the eggs and cover with a lid for 5-7 minutes
5) once egg whites are cooked and yolk is still runny, add feta cheese, cilantro and it’s ready to eat! If it’s too spicy, you can drizzle a bit of honey.
I hope you guys like it! Please reach out if you have any questions.
submitted by WildWestCollectibles to povertyfinance [link] [comments]
YouTube recipe to follow along
Ingredients (with SoCal prices from Costco and Walmart as of 5/29/2023)
Olive oil ($0.40)
1 yellow onion ($0.85)
1 green bell pepper ($0.72)
1 serrano pepper ($0.15)
Paprika (<$0.05)
Cumin (<$0.05)
Minced Garlic ($0.10)
1 - 28oz can of whole peeled tomatoes ($1.43)
Salt (<$0.05)
4 eggs ($0.66)
Black Pepper (<$0.05)
Cilantro ($0.50)
Feta cheese ($0.40)
Toasted bread ($0.36 can be any carb of your choice)
Total cost for 4 servings: $5.77 ($1.44 per serving!)
Cooking instructions:
1) chop the onions, bell pepper, and hot pepper and sauté with paprika and cumin in olive oil for around 5 minutes in medium-high heat.
2) once sautéed, add some garlic and after about 2 minutes, add the whole can of tomatoes. You can crush them while they cook with a wooden spoon. Keep stirring and taste it to add salt and seasoning to taste.
3) after around 10-15 minutes, check to see if you can move the sauce and see the bottom of the pan without it being too watery. Once ready, drop heat to low
4) Create four pockets in the sauce where you will carefully crack the 4 eggs. Add salt and pepper on the eggs and cover with a lid for 5-7 minutes
5) once egg whites are cooked and yolk is still runny, add feta cheese, cilantro and it’s ready to eat! If it’s too spicy, you can drizzle a bit of honey.
I hope you guys like it! Please reach out if you have any questions.
2023.05.30 00:11 Mother_Wolverine_A Am I overreacting?
I don’t know if what I’m going through is abuse or not. Some days it can be damaging but others it makes me feel as though I’m somehow ungrateful for everything I have. I know a lot of people have it so much worse than me, and at least my parents care about me. Maybe their methods are… sometimes not the best, but at least they give a shit.
I feel so stupid and weak and wrong because I feel hurt and in pain. My mum and dad aren’t bad people but they’re definitely not good parents, I just don’t know if they’re bad enough that it counts as abuse. I know some people with absolutely horrible parents who do horrible things to them and hearing all the horror stories on these subreddits… sometimes I can relate but other times I feel like I’m overreacting.
My parents (my dad especially) constantly berate and shout at me, I would say 50% of the conversations we have are just him berating me for something minor like forgetting to wash my dish after eating. This isn’t even him when he’s mad though, he can get 10 times worse than just the usual shouting. He threatens to hurt me sometimes when he’s really mad but they’re empty threats, I know that they are but even though it’s been years since he’s actually hit me, I think some part of me still remembers the pain and the fear of it even though I’ve repressed the memories - I’m still a teenager and I have no memories of my father in my childhood, my long term memory sucks and I struggle to remember things that are over a month ago which I think could be the result of repressed trauma? My dad can be a very scary person but my mum wouldn’t leave him because she wouldn’t be able to support herself and 2 children alone (my little brother has severe autism and needs therapies, she has also not been in the best physical health the past few years due to chronic pain). Living with my dad can be like walking on eggshells.
My mother was always the safe parent and has been there for me my entire life, but just over a year ago when i tried to tell her about how I had suspicions that I have ADHD, she just shut me down completely told me i was normal and just needed some discipline. I was struggling with symptoms my whole life without ever thinking that it might not be my fault that things that other people find easy are hard for me. When i finally came to the conclusion it might not all be due to personal flaws, I was shut down by the one person I thought I could trust. It hurt me so much, she was the only person in the world I could rely on and the way she reacted just, broke me. I now have trust issues and my mental health - which had already started deteriorating beforehand because of school pressured - dropped so far down.
On the other hand though…
My parents are wonderful sometimes, really they are, they treat me well, they buy me all the things I want, they love me and care for me so much. It’s all the little things they do like bringing me food to my bed when im tired or sick and telling me that they’re proud of me (despite their high expectations), the list goes on, so it’s so incredibly hard to believe that they could actually be responsible for hurting me this much. Maybe it’s my own fault for not meeting expectations, for being stupid and never trying hard enough. I know that no matter what I do, it doesn’t make it alright for them to abuse me but I’m still not sure if it can even be called that.
I’m posting this to as many subreddits as I can because I really need help, I’m so confused and I’m desperate
I’m conflicted and just not in a good place right now so I really hope someone can give me some advice please
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I feel so stupid and weak and wrong because I feel hurt and in pain. My mum and dad aren’t bad people but they’re definitely not good parents, I just don’t know if they’re bad enough that it counts as abuse. I know some people with absolutely horrible parents who do horrible things to them and hearing all the horror stories on these subreddits… sometimes I can relate but other times I feel like I’m overreacting.
My parents (my dad especially) constantly berate and shout at me, I would say 50% of the conversations we have are just him berating me for something minor like forgetting to wash my dish after eating. This isn’t even him when he’s mad though, he can get 10 times worse than just the usual shouting. He threatens to hurt me sometimes when he’s really mad but they’re empty threats, I know that they are but even though it’s been years since he’s actually hit me, I think some part of me still remembers the pain and the fear of it even though I’ve repressed the memories - I’m still a teenager and I have no memories of my father in my childhood, my long term memory sucks and I struggle to remember things that are over a month ago which I think could be the result of repressed trauma? My dad can be a very scary person but my mum wouldn’t leave him because she wouldn’t be able to support herself and 2 children alone (my little brother has severe autism and needs therapies, she has also not been in the best physical health the past few years due to chronic pain). Living with my dad can be like walking on eggshells.
My mother was always the safe parent and has been there for me my entire life, but just over a year ago when i tried to tell her about how I had suspicions that I have ADHD, she just shut me down completely told me i was normal and just needed some discipline. I was struggling with symptoms my whole life without ever thinking that it might not be my fault that things that other people find easy are hard for me. When i finally came to the conclusion it might not all be due to personal flaws, I was shut down by the one person I thought I could trust. It hurt me so much, she was the only person in the world I could rely on and the way she reacted just, broke me. I now have trust issues and my mental health - which had already started deteriorating beforehand because of school pressured - dropped so far down.
On the other hand though…
My parents are wonderful sometimes, really they are, they treat me well, they buy me all the things I want, they love me and care for me so much. It’s all the little things they do like bringing me food to my bed when im tired or sick and telling me that they’re proud of me (despite their high expectations), the list goes on, so it’s so incredibly hard to believe that they could actually be responsible for hurting me this much. Maybe it’s my own fault for not meeting expectations, for being stupid and never trying hard enough. I know that no matter what I do, it doesn’t make it alright for them to abuse me but I’m still not sure if it can even be called that.
I’m posting this to as many subreddits as I can because I really need help, I’m so confused and I’m desperate
I’m conflicted and just not in a good place right now so I really hope someone can give me some advice please
2023.05.30 00:10 Mother_Wolverine_A Am I overreacting?
I don’t know if what I’m going through is abuse or not. Some days it can be damaging but others it makes me feel as though I’m somehow ungrateful for everything I have. I know a lot of people have it so much worse than me, and at least my parents care about me. Maybe their methods are… sometimes not the best, but at least they give a shit.
I feel so stupid and weak and wrong because I feel hurt and in pain. My mum and dad aren’t bad people but they’re definitely not good parents, I just don’t know if they’re bad enough that it counts as abuse. I know some people with absolutely horrible parents who do horrible things to them and hearing all the horror stories on these subreddits… sometimes I can relate but other times I feel like I’m overreacting.
My parents (my dad especially) constantly berate and shout at me, I would say 50% of the conversations we have are just him berating me for something minor like forgetting to wash my dish after eating. This isn’t even him when he’s mad though, he can get 10 times worse than just the usual shouting. He threatens to hurt me sometimes when he’s really mad but they’re empty threats, I know that they are but even though it’s been years since he’s actually hit me, I think some part of me still remembers the pain and the fear of it even though I’ve repressed the memories - I’m still a teenager and I have no memories of my father in my childhood, my long term memory sucks and I struggle to remember things that are over a month ago which I think could be the result of repressed trauma? My dad can be a very scary person but my mum wouldn’t leave him because she wouldn’t be able to support herself and 2 children alone (my little brother has severe autism and needs therapies, she has also not been in the best physical health the past few years due to chronic pain). Living with my dad can be like walking on eggshells.
My mother was always the safe parent and has been there for me my entire life, but just over a year ago when i tried to tell her about how I had suspicions that I have ADHD, she just shut me down completely told me i was normal and just needed some discipline. I was struggling with symptoms my whole life without ever thinking that it might not be my fault that things that other people find easy are hard for me. When i finally came to the conclusion it might not all be due to personal flaws, I was shut down by the one person I thought I could trust. It hurt me so much, she was the only person in the world I could rely on and the way she reacted just, broke me. I now have trust issues and my mental health - which had already started deteriorating beforehand because of school pressured - dropped so far down.
On the other hand though…
My parents are wonderful sometimes, really they are, they treat me well, they buy me all the things I want, they love me and care for me so much. It’s all the little things they do like bringing me food to my bed when im tired or sick and telling me that they’re proud of me (despite their high expectations), the list goes on, so it’s so incredibly hard to believe that they could actually be responsible for hurting me this much. Maybe it’s my own fault for not meeting expectations, for being stupid and never trying hard enough. I know that no matter what I do, it doesn’t make it alright for them to abuse me but I’m still not sure if it can even be called that.
I’m posting this to as many subreddits as I can because I really need help, I’m so confused and I’m desperate
I’m conflicted and just not in a good place right now so I really hope someone can give me some advice please
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I feel so stupid and weak and wrong because I feel hurt and in pain. My mum and dad aren’t bad people but they’re definitely not good parents, I just don’t know if they’re bad enough that it counts as abuse. I know some people with absolutely horrible parents who do horrible things to them and hearing all the horror stories on these subreddits… sometimes I can relate but other times I feel like I’m overreacting.
My parents (my dad especially) constantly berate and shout at me, I would say 50% of the conversations we have are just him berating me for something minor like forgetting to wash my dish after eating. This isn’t even him when he’s mad though, he can get 10 times worse than just the usual shouting. He threatens to hurt me sometimes when he’s really mad but they’re empty threats, I know that they are but even though it’s been years since he’s actually hit me, I think some part of me still remembers the pain and the fear of it even though I’ve repressed the memories - I’m still a teenager and I have no memories of my father in my childhood, my long term memory sucks and I struggle to remember things that are over a month ago which I think could be the result of repressed trauma? My dad can be a very scary person but my mum wouldn’t leave him because she wouldn’t be able to support herself and 2 children alone (my little brother has severe autism and needs therapies, she has also not been in the best physical health the past few years due to chronic pain). Living with my dad can be like walking on eggshells.
My mother was always the safe parent and has been there for me my entire life, but just over a year ago when i tried to tell her about how I had suspicions that I have ADHD, she just shut me down completely told me i was normal and just needed some discipline. I was struggling with symptoms my whole life without ever thinking that it might not be my fault that things that other people find easy are hard for me. When i finally came to the conclusion it might not all be due to personal flaws, I was shut down by the one person I thought I could trust. It hurt me so much, she was the only person in the world I could rely on and the way she reacted just, broke me. I now have trust issues and my mental health - which had already started deteriorating beforehand because of school pressured - dropped so far down.
On the other hand though…
My parents are wonderful sometimes, really they are, they treat me well, they buy me all the things I want, they love me and care for me so much. It’s all the little things they do like bringing me food to my bed when im tired or sick and telling me that they’re proud of me (despite their high expectations), the list goes on, so it’s so incredibly hard to believe that they could actually be responsible for hurting me this much. Maybe it’s my own fault for not meeting expectations, for being stupid and never trying hard enough. I know that no matter what I do, it doesn’t make it alright for them to abuse me but I’m still not sure if it can even be called that.
I’m posting this to as many subreddits as I can because I really need help, I’m so confused and I’m desperate
I’m conflicted and just not in a good place right now so I really hope someone can give me some advice please
2023.05.30 00:10 Few_Particular_6139 AITAH for locking my uncle and kids outside after my family invited guest and left me with them alone?
so my parents have this habit of inviting people over to the house without telling anyone until literally 10 minutes before the guest get here and then expect the house to be clean by the time the guest arrive. they also have a habit of being gone while the guest come over and leave me and my siblings to entertain guest we didn’t even know were coming. Not even considering if we had plans. so yesterday was sunday aka the day my bf is off of work and able to take care of the baby so i can get some rest as i was so tired i’d been falling asleep while holding the baby. So my parents ended up taking the baby to breakfast and right when they left i went to go lay down and get some rest while i’m baby free. Well within a matter of 5 minutes i get a phone call that my mom needs me to go pick up my little cousins and drop them off at their house (which my aunt asked HER to do in the morning) but she never communicated that with me until right when she needed me to do it. i told her im too tired to drive as i’m fighting to keep my eyes open and she says well she has my baby and is doing me a favor so i should do her one too. I end up going about a 15 minute drive to pick them up and then 20 minutes towards their house but one of them was hungry and now they wanted me to take them to eat. At this point i’m irritated but not as tired so i was like fine. They finish eating and when i get to their house my little cousin is refusing to get out of the car and go home. Now if the kid was being abused i would understand but he’s really just a brat and anyone that knows him knows he thinks he can do whatever he wants since his mom is rich and let’s him. after 15 minutes of trying to talk him out of the car I start yelling at him to get out. He locks the door from the inside and stays. so i give in and take him home with me. he’s loud and dirty. the type you can’t let in the house without watching everything he’s doing. So now i’m stuck babysitting on my kid free day. So i got no rest and his mom never came for him so i was there watching him from the morning until about 8pm.
Fast forward today is memorial day and my bf is off again so i thought i could take advantage of it and get some rest. Well my baby fell asleep and my bf ended up leaving with my 2 brothers to go play basketball while me and the baby nap together. Right before leaving my little brother mentioned to me that my parents had company on the way which is my cousins aunt and uncle. (which they didn’t communicate with me F23) Well my parents are no where to be found and i’m tired so this really irritates me. My uncle and aunt got here with the kids and i locked all the doors went in the room and laid down with the baby. am i the ass for doing this? they’re outside waiting and i feel guilty but also feel like my parents are being inconsiderate and expecting me to entertain their guest which i have no intention on doing. i’m currently battling depression and am restless from being with my son everyday with little to no help.
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Fast forward today is memorial day and my bf is off again so i thought i could take advantage of it and get some rest. Well my baby fell asleep and my bf ended up leaving with my 2 brothers to go play basketball while me and the baby nap together. Right before leaving my little brother mentioned to me that my parents had company on the way which is my cousins aunt and uncle. (which they didn’t communicate with me F23) Well my parents are no where to be found and i’m tired so this really irritates me. My uncle and aunt got here with the kids and i locked all the doors went in the room and laid down with the baby. am i the ass for doing this? they’re outside waiting and i feel guilty but also feel like my parents are being inconsiderate and expecting me to entertain their guest which i have no intention on doing. i’m currently battling depression and am restless from being with my son everyday with little to no help.
2023.05.30 00:10 CommanderAuri Searching for a longterm partner! Prompts listed below
Hi there! Name’s Auri and I’m a 28F. I’ve been rping for roughly 10+ years now and am searching around for another partner for a thread or two. I'm not replacing anyone!
General overview:
*Halo/Horizon: Forbidden West: I've recently started my second playthrough of HFW and would love to try out a crossover thread where my Spartan IV and her AI companion get tossed into Horizon's universe to bump into Aloy on her quest to save the world. My initial idea would be to have my OC run into the Tenakth Sky Clan after disturbing a group of nearby machines with her sudden appearance.
Obviously the Sky Clan don't know what to make of this new arrival. Thinking she may be a Zenith, Kotallo would contact Aloy who would definitely like to speak with this humanoid creature before the Sky Clan tear into her.
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General overview:
- All characters are 18+
- I’m not into doing smut or adult content. If we ever do get to that point in a thread, I would like for us to fade to black if at all possible. It's just a personal preference of mine.
- I would like for my partner to be at least 23+ or close to my age. No minors please
- I don't mind doubling!
- I can forward over whatever character info necessary on my OC(s)
- As far as posting frequency goes, I'm pretty okay with it being every other day, every few days or, if necessary, once or twice a week. Just let me know! I do have a full time weekday job so replies during the week may be a bit slow!
- I do write at least two or three paragraphs minimum and write third person past tense and at least 2k words plus. I'm more of a novella writer! Not all of my responses will be novella length, however
- I prefer to use Discord if at all possible
- I don't expect you to match my post length every response but please do not send out one word or one sentence replies
- I definitely don't mind if romance is involved as long as our characters have chemistry (MxF and FxF ships are okay with me for our OCs!)
- Please be knowledgeable of any of the games listed below
- I will not respond to messages like "Wanna Rp?" or ask me to DM you. Please either interact with this post with the required info or DM me
- Let me know if you are within the age range specified above as well as a little about yourself. Specify which prompt(s) interest you in your message as well!
- Thank you for reading!
- Halo/Gears of War crossover: My Spartan-IV OC and her AI companion interact with Delta squad, having been thrown haphazardly into the Gears universe. Delta could either be out on a scavenging run or if they detected the energy spike from my OC’s arrival, they could be sent out to investigate that anomaly. Since there’s an 18 month gap between the second and third games, I’d like for the thread to start possibly 6-9 months into the gap. I would like for you to write as Baird, as I plan for this to be an OCxCanon ship. We can assign who’ll play other canon characters as well!
*Halo/Horizon: Forbidden West: I've recently started my second playthrough of HFW and would love to try out a crossover thread where my Spartan IV and her AI companion get tossed into Horizon's universe to bump into Aloy on her quest to save the world. My initial idea would be to have my OC run into the Tenakth Sky Clan after disturbing a group of nearby machines with her sudden appearance.
Obviously the Sky Clan don't know what to make of this new arrival. Thinking she may be a Zenith, Kotallo would contact Aloy who would definitely like to speak with this humanoid creature before the Sky Clan tear into her.
2023.05.30 00:10 717LIL717lifeislove Check out my numerology/gematria and bottom of this poem I wrote
Poem I write about twin flame.
Know no city of gold could ever be as beautiful as the emeralds that shine in her eyes.
I’d cross the oceans of eternity just to get a glimpse just like the sun and moons infinite dance.
this old gold road I walked alone brick by brick and stone by stone the webs we weave the path we chose all meet in the middle.
Hope someday to see you meet me at the crossroads.
Day by day, brick by brick,stone by stone to build this home.
The green sun those emerald eyes oh how they shine.
Levana shamash I love Hannah so much the sun and the moon. the green and the blue. The wolf and the lion.
11:11 717
Staring at the star of Sirius.
Look into my eyes and see.
I am blue you are green.
1992 1+9+9+2=(22)/3\ [2+2=4] 1-9-9-2=1 19+92=111?
?1+9=10+9=19+2=<21> ?19+92=111?
7.17 7+1+7=<15>1+5=(6) 7-1-7=1 ?7+17=24? ?2+5=6?
25.111.24.111. ‘111+111=222 7. 4. 6. 4 11. 10 —-4+2+1+7+1+7=22——7+4=11 2+1 +1+7=3+8=11 <1111>
1+9+9+2=22
19+92=111
9+1=10 1+0=1 9+2=11 :1.11
9+9+9=27 2+7=9
1992 1+9+9+2=(22)/3\ [2+2=4] 1-9-9-2=1
{76= Michael in gematria}~7=G~6)=FGreenflame?
{Last name is 303}. 7+6=13 13=M {69=cancer zodiac}. 1=A 3=C 1+3=4=D
{98=Hannah in gematria } 8=H~9=I 8+6=14=NAH
{last name is 101}. 8+9=17 12=ABL 7+8=15= AEJ
(7)(6)7+6=<13>1+3=(4) 7-6=1
22 =22 [2+2=4]. 2-2=1
22=22 [2+2=4] 2-2-0
4+4+4”=<12> 1+2=(3) 1-2=1
<13+22+22+12=69>
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Know no city of gold could ever be as beautiful as the emeralds that shine in her eyes.
I’d cross the oceans of eternity just to get a glimpse just like the sun and moons infinite dance.
this old gold road I walked alone brick by brick and stone by stone the webs we weave the path we chose all meet in the middle.
Hope someday to see you meet me at the crossroads.
Day by day, brick by brick,stone by stone to build this home.
The green sun those emerald eyes oh how they shine.
Levana shamash I love Hannah so much the sun and the moon. the green and the blue. The wolf and the lion.
11:11 717
Staring at the star of Sirius.
Look into my eyes and see.
I am blue you are green.
—11:11—4.21 -4+2+1=(7) 4-2-1=1 ?4+21=25?
1992 1+9+9+2=(22)/3\ [2+2=4] 1-9-9-2=1 19+92=111?
?1+9=10+9=19+2=<21> ?19+92=111?
7.17 7+1+7=<15>1+5=(6) 7-1-7=1 ?7+17=24? ?2+5=6?
25.111.24.111. ‘111+111=222 7. 4. 6. 4 11. 10 —-4+2+1+7+1+7=22——7+4=11 2+1 +1+7=3+8=11 <1111>
1+9+9+2=22
19+92=111
9+1=10 1+0=1 9+2=11 :1.11
9+9+9=27 2+7=9
1992 1+9+9+2=(22)/3\ [2+2=4] 1-9-9-2=1
{76= Michael in gematria}~7=G~6)=F
{Last name is 303}. 7+6=13 13=M {69=cancer zodiac}. 1=A 3=C 1+3=4=D
{98=Hannah in gematria } 8=H~9=I
{last name is 101}. 8+9=17 12=ABL 7+8=15= AEJ
MGFACDIHLABAEJNAH MICHAEL HANAH4+4=[8]. —111—
(7)(6)7+6=<13>1+3=(4) 7-6=1
22 =22 [2+2=4]. 2-2=1
22=22 [2+2=4] 2-2-0
4+4+4”=<12> 1+2=(3) 1-2=1
<13+22+22+12=69>
2023.05.30 00:09 Artistic-Channel5546 Braindead
Hi, my name is Colton, live in FL, and I’m visually impaired and autistic. I guess I’m making this just to put my thoughts and emotions out there so I can calm myself down. I go to FSU and major in Commercial Entrepreneurship and work part time at a local Publix and HVAC company for penny’s on the dollar. (Not trying to complain about that, Ik everyone starts out only making $11-$12 an hour these days, although I’ve been working for 3 years now) I’m just disappointed in myself as a person and I’m also very concerned for my future. I was always the odd ball, never really socialized with many people up until the last 2-3 years, I always find people looking at me strange when I talk to them or just ignoring me flat out whether it be in real life or texting/phone calls. My eyesight never really helped me out much either, couldn’t ever really play sports or learn about computers, I have night time restraints on my drivers license, etc, but it’s honestly the least of my worries these days. I suppose if there’s one thing I could be thankful for it’s my family, they always try their best to help me out in any ways the can and have kind of spoiled me in recent years, but they never really could come to understand how my mind works no matter how hard they tried (which I honestly can’t blame them, I can’t even understand myself half of the time). All the friends I had in high school are either gone or don’t really want much to do with me anymore. I was never mean to them or anything, but I guess i was just too awkward and clumsy for them to be associated with anymore. They all just say their too busy whenever I try and talk to them or just never get around to responding. I will say that I’m not exactly an ideal person, I’ve said some crazy things to people I shouldn’t have and made some very irrational decisions in the past, (gambling thousands away in stock options, being way to assertive towards women on dating apps, snorting adderall and focalin to just feel happier while I was at school, cussing profusely at a professor over the phone) so I guess I’m a degenerate in that regard. And now I’m here, a senior in college about to earn a nearly worthless degree, gonna have to live with my parents for another 10 years like a freeloader because even if I worked 80-90 hour a week I still wouldn’t be able to afford rent for a one bedroom infested with roaches and rats in my city. It’s funny because when I was younger I looked so promising when I was younger. I made straight A’s in school up until my junior year in highschool and now I’m lucky to make a 90 in one of my classes in college. I’ve cried so much that I cant even tear up anymore. And idk if I wanna just end it all because it would hurt my family so much. I’m just going insane, I talk to myself alone for over an hour sometimes, I get angry so easily even over the most irritational ordeals, i feel so pathetic, I can’t even control what comes out of my mouth half of the time and I always come to regret it. I’ve thought about leaving college but my parents said they’d kick me out of the house if I did that, but I find it so unproductive and degrees are so much less valuable than they were when my parents were my age. But of course no one will ever think what I have to say is important because I’ve proven in the past to be such a problem. Even though they’re the ones that watch the news all day and make such big deals about the federal government and trans this, and racism that even though it has nothing to do with them and solves nothing and just makes everyone depressed with the world. Idk what the point of living is anymore. I can’t imagine life is much worse than hell. Every time there is even the smallest glimmer of hope, it just immediately gets crushed by reality, and life just continues on. Anyways, sorry you had to read all of that, hope y’all have a good day and live good lives. God bless you all
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2023.05.30 00:09 sky_hii In laws and hospital help
TLDR; in-laws refuse to help watch out toddler at our house while I’m in the hospital claiming it’s an inconvenience to them, I just want my toddler somewhere I know she’s safe and comfortable while I get through this.
I posted a few weeks ago about Mother’s Day drama. Well, now I’m back and in the hospital for a few weeks with pregnancy complications. I’m 35 weeks tomorrow and got here 4 days ago on Thursday due to high blood pressure readings. Could be here until 38 weeks or until I’m induced. I have a toddler at home and the birth plan has always been that the in-laws would switch out with my parents every other day or one do days and one cover nights at our house. Main problem- our house. I want her in an environment I know is toddler proof, free of large animals, she’s comfortable and familiar with ( especially with how long I could be in here for). We discussed this with each set of grandparents weeks ago and everyone said they’d definitely help us and to just let us know when and where we needed them. I took that as staying at our house with her was no problem, how else would I have taken it?
Well here we are weeks earlier than expected in a semi emergency situation. We had to call my mom to grab our toddler Thursday afternoon to rush to the hospital, which happened to also be my sisters birthday and the next day was the last day of school. Meaning, situationally, toddler stayed with my mom at her house that night and the next night just due to school and short notice ( they have dogs and I have multiple younger siblings so packing up to stay at our house needed time to work out so short notice).
Now, because she stayed at my moms house for a few nights my in-laws are refusing to come to our house. They said we’re (meaning me) ungrateful of their help. That I’m manipulating my fiancé because they know he’d trust them. That my request to keep her at our house is one sided and ridiculous and no one would ever do that. It’s an inconvenience and I should be happy they spoil her and love her and let them have her. Leading to them telling my fiancé that he should just lie to me about where she is. There are a few reason I don’t want her at their house- the above mentioned along with the fact that they want to take her swimming in a pool with no shallow end, only a ladder to get out (she has no swim training and they like to drink at the pool and have displayed unsafe pool play infront of us before), they vape and leave the vapes out everywhere, they refuse to baby proof the house, and have a large dog that nips at her. My mothers house isn’t perfect either, but that’s why I said everyone had to go to our house. Just so it’s one last thing to worry about.
Now I don’t even want them involved. Telling him to lie to me really hit a nerve and makes me more convinced if we did involve them, they’d just lie about where she is probably even to him. I don’t know if I should say something to them or if I should just continue to ignore the situation and let my family come to the house to watch her without in laws help. I knew their love for me wasn’t real years ago, but for it to come out while I’m struggling and for them to make it like a personal attack is insane. My mom and grandmother are driving 30 minutes out leaving their homes and pets and my siblings to help us, and yet in-laws claim they can’t go 10 minutes from their house to stay with her because they “have a house to maintain”. Should I be saying something?
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I posted a few weeks ago about Mother’s Day drama. Well, now I’m back and in the hospital for a few weeks with pregnancy complications. I’m 35 weeks tomorrow and got here 4 days ago on Thursday due to high blood pressure readings. Could be here until 38 weeks or until I’m induced. I have a toddler at home and the birth plan has always been that the in-laws would switch out with my parents every other day or one do days and one cover nights at our house. Main problem- our house. I want her in an environment I know is toddler proof, free of large animals, she’s comfortable and familiar with ( especially with how long I could be in here for). We discussed this with each set of grandparents weeks ago and everyone said they’d definitely help us and to just let us know when and where we needed them. I took that as staying at our house with her was no problem, how else would I have taken it?
Well here we are weeks earlier than expected in a semi emergency situation. We had to call my mom to grab our toddler Thursday afternoon to rush to the hospital, which happened to also be my sisters birthday and the next day was the last day of school. Meaning, situationally, toddler stayed with my mom at her house that night and the next night just due to school and short notice ( they have dogs and I have multiple younger siblings so packing up to stay at our house needed time to work out so short notice).
Now, because she stayed at my moms house for a few nights my in-laws are refusing to come to our house. They said we’re (meaning me) ungrateful of their help. That I’m manipulating my fiancé because they know he’d trust them. That my request to keep her at our house is one sided and ridiculous and no one would ever do that. It’s an inconvenience and I should be happy they spoil her and love her and let them have her. Leading to them telling my fiancé that he should just lie to me about where she is. There are a few reason I don’t want her at their house- the above mentioned along with the fact that they want to take her swimming in a pool with no shallow end, only a ladder to get out (she has no swim training and they like to drink at the pool and have displayed unsafe pool play infront of us before), they vape and leave the vapes out everywhere, they refuse to baby proof the house, and have a large dog that nips at her. My mothers house isn’t perfect either, but that’s why I said everyone had to go to our house. Just so it’s one last thing to worry about.
Now I don’t even want them involved. Telling him to lie to me really hit a nerve and makes me more convinced if we did involve them, they’d just lie about where she is probably even to him. I don’t know if I should say something to them or if I should just continue to ignore the situation and let my family come to the house to watch her without in laws help. I knew their love for me wasn’t real years ago, but for it to come out while I’m struggling and for them to make it like a personal attack is insane. My mom and grandmother are driving 30 minutes out leaving their homes and pets and my siblings to help us, and yet in-laws claim they can’t go 10 minutes from their house to stay with her because they “have a house to maintain”. Should I be saying something?
2023.05.30 00:09 CommanderAuri Searching for a longterm partner! Prompts listed below
Hi there! Name’s Auri and I’m a 28F. I’ve been rping for roughly 10+ years now and am searching around for another partner for a thread or two. I'm not replacing anyone!
General overview:
*Halo/Horizon: Forbidden West: I've recently started my second playthrough of HFW and would love to try out a crossover thread where my Spartan IV and her AI companion get tossed into Horizon's universe to bump into Aloy on her quest to save the world. My initial idea would be to have my OC run into the Tenakth Sky Clan after disturbing a group of nearby machines with her sudden appearance.
Obviously the Sky Clan don't know what to make of this new arrival. Thinking she may be a Zenith, Kotallo would contact Aloy who would definitely like to speak with this humanoid creature before the Sky Clan tear into her.
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General overview:
- All characters are 18+
- I’m not into doing smut or adult content. If we ever do get to that point in a thread, I would like for us to fade to black if at all possible. It's just a personal preference of mine.
- I would like for my partner to be at least 23+ or close to my age. No minors please
- I don't mind doubling!
- I can forward over whatever character info necessary on my OC(s)
- As far as posting frequency goes, I'm pretty okay with it being every other day, every few days or, if necessary, once or twice a week. Just let me know! I do have a full time weekday job so replies during the week may be a bit slow!
- I do write at least two or three paragraphs minimum and write third person past tense and at least 2k words plus. I'm more of a novella writer! Not all of my responses will be novella length, however
- I prefer to use Discord if at all possible
- I don't expect you to match my post length every response but please do not send out one word or one sentence replies
- I definitely don't mind if romance is involved as long as our characters have chemistry (MxF and FxF ships are okay with me for our OCs!)
- Please be knowledgeable of any of the games listed below
- I will not respond to messages like "Wanna Rp?" or ask me to DM you. Please either interact with this post with the required info or DM me
- Let me know if you are within the age range specified above as well as a little about yourself. Specify which prompt(s) interest you in your message as well!
- Thank you for reading!
- Halo/Gears of War crossover: My Spartan-IV OC and her AI companion interact with Delta squad, having been thrown haphazardly into the Gears universe. Delta could either be out on a scavenging run or if they detected the energy spike from my OC’s arrival, they could be sent out to investigate that anomaly. Since there’s an 18 month gap between the second and third games, I’d like for the thread to start possibly 6-9 months into the gap. I would like for you to write as Baird, as I plan for this to be an OCxCanon ship. We can assign who’ll play other canon characters as well!
*Halo/Horizon: Forbidden West: I've recently started my second playthrough of HFW and would love to try out a crossover thread where my Spartan IV and her AI companion get tossed into Horizon's universe to bump into Aloy on her quest to save the world. My initial idea would be to have my OC run into the Tenakth Sky Clan after disturbing a group of nearby machines with her sudden appearance.
Obviously the Sky Clan don't know what to make of this new arrival. Thinking she may be a Zenith, Kotallo would contact Aloy who would definitely like to speak with this humanoid creature before the Sky Clan tear into her.
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