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2023.05.29 03:54 most_unseemly 4:54 a.m. EEST; The Sun is Rising Over Kyiv on the 460th Day of the Full-Scale Invasion. Art You Can Own! + ART FRIDAY AWARDS + Discussion + Charities

4:54 a.m. EEST; The Sun is Rising Over Kyiv on the 460th Day of the Full-Scale Invasion. Art You Can Own! + ART FRIDAY AWARDS + Discussion + Charities

🇺🇦 SLAVA UKRAINI! 🇺🇦

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Art Friday Awards!


Art Friday Awards for the week of May 22, 2023
Art Friday Awards for the week of May 15, 2023

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But before we proceed to the awards, here's some...

Art You Can Own!


L-R: Limited edition engraved knife and painted bullet shells by Maxim Kilderov
Artist u/kilderov, whom you can read about here, was forced to leave occupied Nova Kakhovka for his own safety. He now sells his work to support the civilians in his city and the warriors from it, who are mostly fighting in and around Bakhmut. In addition to his ongoing painted shells initiative, he's currently selling a limited edition series of engraved knives signed by the artist. Also, check out his latest post and DM him if anything catches your eye! (What I wouldn't give to be able to afford one of his boomsticks boomboxes....)
So far, Ukraine, you've helped him raise over $16,000 for Humanity, which provides humanitarian aid and evacuation in Nova Kakhovka and Kherson, and for Nova Kakhovka's warriors at the front. Here's a great example of what he's doing with the funds you help him raise.

L-R: Upcycled russian materiel by 21vetal01 and treasure box by his wife
u/21vetal01, whom you can read about here, turns scraps of destroyed russian equipment into trophies and souvenirs, and his wife makes beautiful little treasures and beautiful little treasure boxes. Proceeds support every facet of the war effort, from military aid to humanitarian aid to cash assistance for families of the fallen. Here are some examples of what they make, here's their latest work, and here's a small example of what they do with the funds they raise.
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And now ...

Art Friday Awards!

The Howling Wind, Rustling Grass Award

Mother's worry is eternal (acrylic painting by me), painted and submitted by u/wolfmothar.
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The Big Damn Heroes Award

(See, "Big Damn Heroes" 'cuz they're tiny.)
I created a diorama honoring those heroes who defended Bakhmut, created and submitted by u/hooahguy.
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The Defiance Award

The price of our freedom, submitted by u/BewaeOfMemes. The artist is Even Mehl Amundsen, who did not title it. I encourage you to click that link and read what the artist has to say about this piece. An excerpt:
To be willing to recognize a dark predicament for what it is. To face such a situation with the grim pride that has spattered history with no shortage of gore. This alone would be cause for much respect. But to bring a good-humored, caring, and clever breed of stubbornness into such despair, to defy the doubts of foe and friend alike and say “Here I stand, on my convictions and on my land. I will not move. I will fight. I can do no other.” with a grin that defies the reaper and the trundling Russian dreadnought alike, this inspires awe in mere mortals such as I.
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The Punny Guy Award

Saw the new name for orcish "dragon teeth" and decided to do a thing, done and submitted by u/Alternate_Ending1984.
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The Kitty! Award

Omitting the kitty from Art Friday Awards would be sacrilege. I love this little guy's little fangie.
Cats for Ukraine, created and submitted by u/hellenmist.
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The People's Choice Award

I have to admit that I'm pleasantly surprised at you, Ukraine. I thought that Tom Lehrer's classic Poisoning Pigeons in the Park was niche enough that this masterpiece of a parody would go mostly, and sadly, unnoticed. Instead, you gave it the love it deserves!
The ZSU Present: Taking out the Trash, masterfully adapted and submitted by u/rhubarbjin.
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For Your Listening Pleasure

New Song: TARAS KEEN - Спалахуй, submitted by u/I_Saw_A_Bear.

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Thank you to all the thoughtful, creative, talented people who created and/or submitted art this week!

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The 460th day of a nine-year invasion that has been going on for centuries.
One day closer to victory.

🇺🇦 HEROYAM SLAVA! 🇺🇦

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Verified Charities

  • u/Jesterboyd is a mod for ukraine and local to Kyiv. His current project is to fund some very interesting drones. Link to donation
  • United24: This site was launched by President Zelenskyy as the main venue for collecting charitable donations in support of Ukraine. Funds will be allocated to cover the most pressing needs facing Ukraine.
  • Come Back Alive: This NGO crowdfunds non-lethal military equipment, such as thermal vision scopes & supplies it to the front lines. It also provides training for Ukrainian soldiers, as well as researching troops’ needs and social reintegration of veterans.
  • Trident Defense Initiative: This initiative run by former NATO and UA servicemen has trained and equipped thousands of Ukrainian soldiers.
  • Ukraine Front Line US-based and registered 501(c)(3), this NGO fulfills front line soldiers' direct defense and humanitarian aid requests through their man on the ground, Ukraine's own u/jesterboyd.
  • Ukraine Aid Ops: Volunteers around the world who are helping to find and deliver equipment directly to those who need it most in Ukraine.
  • Hospitallers: This is a medical battalion that unites volunteer paramedics and doctors to save the lives of soldiers on the frontline. They crowdfund their vehicle repairs, fuel, and medical equipment.
  • Humanity: Co-founded by u/kilderov, Humanity is a small team of volunteers securing and distributing humanitarian aid to the most vulnerable populations in temporarily occupied Kherson Oblast. Kilderov and his friends were under occupation in Nova Kakhovka in 2022.
You can find many more charities with diverse areas of focus in our vetted charities article HERE.
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2023.05.29 03:54 DiamondDixxybottom I just hate how selfish alcoholism is

I’m dating my Q, for now. Both late 20s. My Q works in a retail environment, with a bunch of other alcoholics, right next to a liquor store.
He has a breathalyser on his vehicle, and something happened with the unit, it is not operating correctly and we have to jump his car everytime to use it. This started Thursday. The breathalyser people have confirmed it’s the breathalyser unit itself but had none in stock, so he will have to wait until Tuesday to get a new one installed. In the meantime, I’ve been giving him rides to/from work.
He has been taking advantage of the opportunity to drink at work and then have me pick him up, thinking he is getting away with something.
Nearly anybody that has had a Q like this knows their dead giveaways and knows when they’ve even had even a little alcohol, so I don’t know why he thinks he is so slick. It’s irritating. And then I pick him up and have to drive with him acting belligerent while I’m literally having a full on panic attack next to him (I literally have a weird panic/anxiety attack like feeling any time I am around him drunk)
It’s not like it’s any better than what he normally does; buys 2-3 shooters on the way home from work and then when he gets home and parks, drinks them in his car and comes inside. It’s makes me think he can’t stand to be around me unless he is drunk. I have given him every opportunity to leave and have really made it clear I cannot keep doing this, but every time he goes to new lengths to convince me he is changing and it will never happen again. And then it happens again…
I read this thing on here I think one time actually, and it was this girl going through her alcoholic s/o phone while they were drunk and found them txting with others about how making her mad and messing up things in her life turned the s/o on, and the s/o would get off to it and joke about making her miserable to their friends. And the s/o family never really did much to incorporate her into their family because they knew the s/o didn’t really care for her based on the things the s/o said about her to them. She described how they treated her, not rude but just didn’t really invest in their relationship, and it nearly mimics mine. I have been dating my Q 12 years and he has been an alcoholic for 6 or 7. I’m scared he’s doing the same thing
I just think there is something to be said about addiction and selfishness. Does addiction attack already selfish people and make them more selfish, or does it drain away your charity over time?
Who did I fall in love with and why am I unable to leave? My therapist thinks it’s because I don’t want my Q to think I gave up on him because I don’t want to make people feel the way I’ve felt, and also says I have only ever received love in my life through acts of service, and I was taught taking care of addicts is an act of service I can receive love from and it’s true; with all of my parents (whom are addicts) this is the only way I ever got positive attention or reinforcement, when they were withdrawing and I was taking care of them. Otherwise the only other attention I got was negative
I need book recs if you got em folks. I can only talk to my therapist so much before she files a protection order 😂 jk she’s making bank off me
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2023.05.29 03:54 chatgirlz98 Paintless Dent Removal

Hey all!
My car sustained some hail damage last week and I’m looking to pursue a claim with my insurance company.
I’ve done a bit of ringing around and most places are wanting to book in for a paintless dent removal assessment, rather than traditional repair methods. I’m told it’s a “better” method but when I ask why that is I’m told about efficiency and cost. However, with my Insurer footing the bill - those things aren’t real important to me.
At the same time, I’m hoping to get a pre-existing front bumper dent quoted. It’s quite large (hit a large boulderock edging in a gravel car park) and has shredded part of the bumper.
Any tips or advice on what I should be looking/asking for?
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2023.05.29 03:53 McDonald_Trumpet G18 Pistol with m4 mag adapter but non HPA?

This may be a dumb question, but I was talking to one of my buddies today while we were at an outdoor park and an idea came to my mind about full auto pistols. We all know that the standard 50 round extended mag gets dumped pretty quickly out of a G18 but in theory, could you run a glock to m4 hpa adapter and then have a full auto pistol with m4 mag capacity but without HPA hooked up? Is that already a thing and no one I have seen does it? Or does the adapter use the space needed for the battery?
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2023.05.29 03:52 diamonds-inthesky The OOTP gods were shining on me for this playoff run!

The OOTP gods were shining on me for this playoff run!
This all began yesterday when I was sat in my garden playing OOTP at the trade deadline. I have a low budget and with 2 of my main stars having opt-outs after this season, I thought it might be wise to move at least one of them before the deadline in order to speed up a rebuild. Before I made a decision, a bird took a mighty crap on my leg that made a disgusting mess. Now, I don't believe in luck but as this is supposed to be "good luck", I used that sign as justification to keep my roster together for a potential run. I added a couple of cheap right handed bats for almost nothing and went on my way.
This turned out to be a good decision as I would end up going 46-13 post deadline including a 19 game winning streak that was the best I've achieved in my 41 years in charge of the D-Backs. I was now full of confidence and managed to advance to the NLCS after beating the Dodgers in 5, which was a little unnerving at times.
The next round is where things really started to pick up. Facing the A's (recent expansion moved them to the NL, they won the WS 3 years ago for the first time since 1989).I would blow a 5-3 lead in game 2, losing in 13 (7-6) to split my first 2 in Arizona. In game 3, I blew a 6-1 lead in the bottom of the 9th culminating in a walk-off 3-run HR. After 40 seasons, this isn't unfamiliar but it never gets less painful and it was hard to not feel like the game had decided this just wasn't my year!

Nearly rage quit!
The series remained back and forth, going all the way to 7 games. Game 7 was an incredibly tense game, entering the 9th locked in a scoreless tie. I gave up a solo HR and then an insurance, ticky-tac run and accepted my season was probably done but with 2 out and a man on 3rd (who would score on a wild pitch), my #4 would dig in, fouling of 5 pitches before blooping a single. Up to bat in the most crucial spot, Chris Prutsman, a second year left fielder who I'd acquired in the summer who's hitting attributes are 50 across the board except for 70 power. He'd been very mediocre all season but after hitting 15 of his 36 HR in the last month of the season, he'd been in my line-ups for the playoffs, even winning MVP in the NLDS vs LAD with 5 solo HR in 4 games. However, against Oakland going into this final at-bat he'd only garnered 3 hits, all singles and no walks in 5 starts. The regression seemed fair and I was happy with the fight until he delivered a 2-run, walk off, series clinching BOMB.
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This set-up an even more epic showdown in the World Series with the evil New York Yankess, 59 years after Arizona beat them to win their first ever WS and 17 years since their 2nd WS meeting in 2043, also won by Arizona. I won another title 4 years later in 2047 for my 3rd but had since lost in the WS 4 times (3 to CWS).
To add another layer of juiciness to this, Jacome Escobedo, the Yankees star LF had played his first 7 seasons with me before leaving in FA due to an unaffordable price tag for the D-Backs. He has been a superstar since 21, somehow not winning MVP yet, finishing 2nd 6 out of his 9 seasons.
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Game 1 was close but an early grand slam from Chris Daniels (Likely to be 1st to Escobedo's 2nd in MVP this year) was too much to overcome. Yankees win 7-5
Game 2 was a tighter game, entering extras tied 5-5. A 3-run HR in the top of the 11th for Yankees #6 hitter (his 2nd of the game) proved to be the decider. Yankees win 8-5
Game 3, I came out with a lot more fight early, taking 3-1 and 5-3 leads but ultimately the Yankees are gonna Yank, hitting 5 HR, this was just horrible. Yankees win 7-6
Game 4, the player I had contemplated trading at the deadline, 2B Ken Steinbring, shows up big time in this elimination game, 3 HR & 7 RBI. D-Backs win 10-3
Game 5 was the turning points of the series. Going into the bottom of the 8th, I was down 5-2 and had long accepted all my magic was over. Steinbring delivers another solo HR in the 8th to make it 5-3 going to the bottom of the 9th
My #6 & #7 hitters come up first, they strikeout and groundout respectively. I nearly gave up here with my defensive SS who's hitting .140 in the playoffs coming up followed by my back-up C who had been subbed in earlier after my starter ruptured his Achilles. I pinch hit for my SS bringing in Mike Willis, one of the bats I acquired at the deadline, a slightly above average back-up RF who's mostly on the roster for chemistry purposes. Anyway, he strokes a double. Nice!
Now I have to decide whether to roll the dice with my awful C with 2 outs or sub him out knowing that I have no other replacement and will almost certainly lose if I don't win the game in this inning. I pinch hit using the other bat I acquired at the deadline, again, an extremely mediocre bat that hadn't cracked my line-up since joining the team. He blasts a triple, scoring 1 to put me within 1. Glorious!! It immediately seems bittersweet though as I anticipate a quick groundout next followed by the Yankees celebrating on my field but no, Tony Penaloza (LF) steps up and cranks his 8th HR of the season (35 power) to give me the most unexpected comeback win! D-Backs win 6-5
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Game 6 is a slugfest, despite my ace being on the mound. I manage to withstand multiple rallies from NYY with very careful pitching moves. D-Backs win 11-7
GAME 7 BABY!
After taking a 1-0 lead early on, my all or nothing starting pitcher delivers one of the strangest games ever (5.1 IP, 3 H, 4 ER, 9 BB, 9 K, 118 P) That is a team record for walks by a player in any game by the way! So yet again, just like game 5. The score is 5-2 going into the bottom of the 8th. And yet again, Steinbring comes up in the 8th and hits a 2-run HR to cut it to 5-4. After a clean top half, the bottom of the 9th opens up with my #6 hitter who delivers a single after fouling off 4 in a row. My #7 steps up and bunts him to 2nd.
I know I'm going to use my 2 pinch hitters again for my SS & C (again, this will leave me without a catcher if we go to extras). My only decision is in which order to use them. I elect to use my 1B who tripled in game 5 first as I have most faith in him but he sadly grounds out to SS, keeping the runner at 2B.
So here it is. Mike Willis, he's started 38 games for me, it would've been much less too if it weren't for injuries and how strong my record was down the stretch that allowed me to rest some regulars.
On a 2-0 count, he connects and just gets one OUT OF THE PARK (see what I did there). I can't lie, I went crazy and have now spent the next 2 hours documenting it as this is by far the greatest season of OOTP I've ever played and trust me, I've played a lot!!
https://preview.redd.it/qt5drub2fo2b1.png?width=1366&format=png&auto=webp&s=eaa41893ddef7b4696a0ec3dd7c4656c769777a5
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If anybody made it this far, I hope you enjoyed it!
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2023.05.29 03:51 televisiondeciever Went out on friday!

Hi! I am not quite homebound but anywhere but home or school are massive triggers. I especially have a difficulty being in nature or exercising which often causes me to have panic attacks. On friday I went out with my family to a state park and stayed there for 2 hours and 15 minutes which is pretty impressive to me. I walked around and tried to keep pace with my family, I had at least one panic attack but I'm ok, like I didn't feel like I had gone through something traumatic after. I cried all the way through the forest and had to sit down a few times, but considering I went out of my house at all let alone to somewhere and hour away makes me really proud. I encourage you to try a little excursion and get a treat afterwards, that always helps me get through it.
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2023.05.29 03:51 Bikehead90 Off road for the first time

I just wanted to make a post commemorating my first real(ish) off road experience in my ZR2. My wife and I are in the U.P., and I took a pretty fun seasonal road;nothing too technical, but damn was it a blast. Has any Michiganders gone to Holly Oaks park with their truck?
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2023.05.29 03:51 MrJustolo Did I almost get scammed? Left a $15 tip and he was in the parking lot across from the restaurant on the other side of a main road for a while…

Did I almost get scammed? Left a $15 tip and he was in the parking lot across from the restaurant on the other side of a main road for a while…
When he sent me the picture too it looked like it was in his car meaning that he seemed to have had it the whole time
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2023.05.29 03:49 fuzzybunny216 Purchasing in a *resident-owned* mobile home park?

I am from a super expensive area and I'm looking to buy. I want to stay near my hometown and stay close to friends/family and even though I make good money and have been saving for a down payment for a good while (I have about $65k), that won't get me anywhere close to a small, shabby 1BR condo.
However, there are a couple all age, resident owned mobile home parks in the area so *no\* space rent. I would pay the $350k or whatever and then I own the unit and the land that's under it (all 200 square feet or whatever 😆).
This park has an HOA and the monthly dues are about $200/month (for pool, club house, maintenance of common areas etc) but that's way less than most condo HOAs in the area (usually $300-$500/month).
Has anyone done one of these? I'm curious what the financing looks like compared to a condo. I would figure interest rates would be higher, right?

Also, just to save the comments:
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2023.05.29 03:49 aqualoon_ Need a book rec - wlw something light and fluffy

I just binge read all three of S.C. Wilson's books, the Devil series and while they were really good (read all three within two days, couldn't put them down) I need something light and fluffy that is stupidly happy and maybe some humor.
If you want a really good story that will hit you right in the feels, I recommend the Devil series. Just it's a hard read sometimes. Not giving any spoilers, just that it's a really good series, and for me, enticed strong emotions. From reading the reviews, I'm not alone in this.
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2023.05.29 03:49 J_g_19 How do you find the starting house on a park and loop ?

Do you look at the block number and then identify wether it corresponds with the mail (odd or even) ?
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2023.05.29 03:48 -Wobblier FDOT would rather separate traffic on 95 than save someone's life

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2023.05.29 03:47 steeze206 What Hip Pack (Bum Bag/Fanny Pack) Do You Ride With? Also, What Do You Store In It On An Average Ride?

In the market for a hip pack. I get pretty hot while riding so having the increased airflow of a hip pack vs a backpack during the summer has my interest. I've spent most of my time riding at the local bike park where you're never more than 2 miles from the car. So I've just been carrying a multi tool in my pocket and a water bottle on my frame. But I'm looking to do some proper exploring and obviously you want to be prepared out in the mountains.
Anyways, there are so many great options out there. Most lists seem to say that Evoc Hip Pack Pro 3L is the best of the best. I really like the modularity of it, being able to carry no water, 1 bottle, 2 bottles, a bladder or all 3. It seems to be incredibly well constructed and thought out. But I'm trying to envision if I wouldn't benefit more from something smaller on most rides with something like the Bontrager Rapid Pack (or the version with a bladder I've just discovered.)
I love to jump and am always looking to jump little side hits or roots on the sides of trails when there aren't many actual jumps or drops. Having never tried a hip pack, I like the idea of something that doesn't move around a lot and throw off my balance. Afterall, mountain biking is a huge sport. People riding 20 mile mostly flat XC trails and people who are hitting 20 foot doubles are both mountain biking. But both have vastly different use cases for gear so it's hard to know what reviews are relevant to how I'd like to ride. A gigantic backpack would be fine if you're just sitting down and pedaling for most of the ride. But that same pack would be really cumbersome on a jumpline.
Anyways, got a bit sidetracked. What hip pack works best for you? Once you found that perfect pack, what do you normally store in it? Trying to get a feel for what size would work best for me. I did find an amazing comparison by Enduro Magazine. But I'd like to hear personal accounts from other riders experiences.
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2023.05.29 03:47 ExitInternational804 Game jam suggestions

I’m an aspiring narrative designer with a background in comedy writing and live theater, curious if anyone has recs on game jams that have been helpful to them or might help me ingratiate myself more into the indie dev community
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2023.05.29 03:47 ExitInternational804 Game jam suggestions

I’m an aspiring narrative designer with a background in comedy writing and live theater, curious if anyone has recs on game jams that have been helpful to them or might help me ingratiate myself more into the indie dev community
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2023.05.29 03:47 DiegoGalaviz Top 5 Cases you would like to see solved?

Top 5 Cases that you would like to see solved?
For me, mine are:
  1. Jennifer Kesse: how she disappeared with no trace and no leads presumably in the daytime from a busy apartment astounds me. I really wanna know who the POI was that parked her car on camera but got so lucky, his face was blocked in each frame.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Disappearance_of_Jennifer_Kesse
  1. Mekayla Bali: the surveillance video of her sitting inside the restaurant on her phone and making phone calls (which were never tracked because they didn’t show up on her call logs) right before she went missing is creepy.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Disappearance_of_Mekayla_Bali
  1. Brianna Matland: the pictures of her car stuck in the side of the shed/house like that is creepy. How did it even end up like that?) Just looking at the picture of her car stuck like that makes me feel uncomfortable.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Disappearance_of_Brianna_Maitland
  1. Maura Murray: she was pretty much in the middle of nowhere on the side of the road in her car, a truck driver saw her, asked her if she needed help, she said no, then 5 minutes later she was gone. Where did she go?
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Disappearance_of_Maura_Murray
  1. Andrew Gosden: a seemingly normal kid who one day decided to just leave and was never seen again.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Disappearance_of_Andrew_Gosden
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2023.05.29 03:45 dumpcake999 It's your time to shine

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2023.05.29 03:45 DoubleOScarn Outside of the main cast. Dr. Harris is definitely my favorite.

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2023.05.29 03:45 Here4theComments91 AITA for snapping at my husband when he wakes me up?

I think sleep is sacrosanct and do my best to make sure everyone in my family (Husband“J” 31 and 3 daughters: 3.5yo, 2yo, newborn) get how much they need.
J is a retired military, satisfied with 6hrs of sleep, gets up at 5:30 on weekends VOLUNTARILY, kind of man. My children take after him. I DEFINITELY do not. Night owl all the way. I need 8hrs to function and I’d sleep past noon if given the chance.
The biggest hindrance to my sleep is my EDS (overly loose joints.) Staying in ANY position for long makes me go numb in random places. It is IMPOSSIBLE for me to only partially wake up and go immediately back to sleep. If I wake even slightly I have to readjust and wait for the pins and needles to subside before falling back to sleep. 20 to 30min minimum. (Now imagine sleeping by a newborn whose every cough or sigh makes you snap awake to check their breathing.) … (i may have a little anxiety as well. Moving on)
J works from about 2am to early afternoon Mon-Fri. Sometimes he’s home for naptime and joins us. But never lays the kids down by himself. If he tries he falls asleep immediately and they go wild with no supervision until I take over. He can sleep through anything. I don’t usually get to sleep during naptime.
J goes to bed early so he can get up early, leaving bedtime routine to me.
Occasionally (2x a month-ish) J will watch the kids in the morning so I can “sleep in.” But they all sneak back in throughout the morning. (Have you ever heard a toddler “sneak”?) And by 9am he’s asking how long I plan to sleep the day away, even though I haven’t slept since the first kid woke up at 6:30
The thing is I NEVER wake him up. If he comes home from work and passes out from exhaustion (usually with no warning, no checking in with me, or even telling me he’s going to lay down first, he just disappears and I find him asleep in bed ten minutes later,) I let him sleep, keep the kids quiet, and put a baby gate up so they can’t get to his door. Sometimes he sleeps for an hour, sometimes for 5, but no matter which it is I let him because he works hard and needs it.
He never extends me the same courtesy. Many times I’ve asked my husband to plan a weekly outing. Take our children to the park, a walk, a movie, lunch, grocery shopping, or even an I-DON'T-CARE-JUST-GET-OUT-OF-THE-HOUSE for a few hours so I can TRY to get a solid block of sleep without interruptions. He says he will but he doesn’t.
Whenever I push the issue and try to explain how desperately I need this he gets defensive. If I push TOO hard, he gets mean.
Lately I’ve just been taking naps when I’m tired, inconvenient or not. I’m not asking for help or permission, nor tiptoeing around his sleep schedule. He keeps getting annoyed and trying to wake me to take over with the kids. I tell him as a parent he can handle them by himself for a few hours a week, even if he’s tired, just like I do, and let me go back to sleep. Does that make me TA?
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2023.05.29 03:44 KAIZENCLUB IF YOU ARE NYC MAY 29TH. Big meet at LES Coman Skate Park

We are having a meet! There will also be live music from producers in NYC.
Pull up with your scooter and lets get crazy
May 29th
3pm-6pm
LES COLMAN SKATE PARK
New York, NY
62 Monroe St &, Pike Street, New York, NY
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2023.05.29 03:44 araminaa I used to run in a small parking lot (13 laps = 1 mile) during COVID and I liked it

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2023.05.29 03:44 downthestreet4 You are beautiful, Oregon!

Had the privilege to spend last week in Oregon, mostly in Portland and the NE part of the coast. The scenery, the people, and the culture were all gorgeous and welcoming to this Alabama boy.
Highlights - $1 oyster happy hour at Jacqueline’s in Portland, Washington Park, and strolling Nw 23rd St(did I read a sign that this was known as the Alphabet District?), Cannon Beach, and Astoria.
Hope to make it out again and take in more of your state - Willamette Valley wine, Hood River, Columbia River Gorge, Crater Lake, and so much more.
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