Indian roommates in tampa

I (24f) am in love with my cousin (25f) Me and my cousin grew up really close with me always in her shadow. Ever since i was little I wanted to be like her and be around her always, and about ten years ago I realized that i was in love with her. Ever since I realized life was 10x harder because we were/are roommates with us now sharing an apartment. Like i said we do everything together we got our first piecing together and our tattoos she was the first person i came out to and the person i am most comfortable with, but it doesn’t change the fact I’m madly in love with her. Now hear me out shes taller than me (about 3 inches) and has long brown hair and shes just so beautiful how could i not love her ? When she talks about boys or brings them over i get jealous and mad. I haven’t told ANYONE this at all because everyone i know she knows, shes such a people person it’s crazy. Ive had dreams about her and i getting married and adopting children and i just cant get the thought out of my head. Idk who to talk to or if i should let her go and seek my own love??? Any advice

My uncle (60+) showed up at my (27F) house at about 11 pm a month ago unannounced. I let him in and he told me that he had recently been diagnosed with stage 2 cancer. He then asked if he could just drop by whenever. I just asked that he call first. He agreed and things were fine. He also has a history of drug use and seemed to be on something.
Yesterday he showed up to our house unannounced while we weren't home and threw up on our lawn, supposedly after chemo. I have a phobia of throwing up and have ended up hospitalized due to debilitating panic attacks. He hasn't been involved enough in my life to know this. We show up to our house and he is leaning against his car in the driveway saying he feels nauseous and couldn't make it home. I didn't notice he'd thrown up, so thankfully I didn't get too anxious. My husband offered to give him a ride home, but he refused any help. I offered to call his roommate or 911, get him some medicine/crackers/etc but he refused. He insisted on waiting it out and driving himself home. I asked him to text me when he got home so I knew he was safe.
There were some things that just felt off. He said he was coming back from chemo, but had both his dogs with him (not service animals) that wouldn't have been allowed in a medical facility. He said he couldn't make it home, but my house is out of the way of his drive home. He also didn't call us when he got to our house, just waited for us to find him. If he had called to let us know he couldn't drive and had to stop by, I would've understood, but he just showed up with no communication. He also seemed to be high on something and was acting really weird.
He didn't text when he got home so I texted him to check on him. When he confirmed his safety, I kindly asked that if it happened again, to just pull over and call us or other family for help. I told him that I am happy to help in anyway I can, but that we have a general rule (even for parents) to call before showing up as we have had issues with our parents doing that. I told him I'm willing to help if I can, just to call. He said we'd never have to see his face at our house again. I told him that's not what I meant, just call first.
Now he's told my aunt about how awful I was for asking that he call first. That he felt like he was going to pass out/throw up and I shouldn't be so inconsiderate since he does have cancer. But had he could have at least called and said "hey, I feel sick and I need a breather, your house was the closest" as opposed to just waiting there until we showed up. I also have that phobia and would really prefer not to stumble on him throwing up without at least preparing myself mentally.
So, AITA for asking him to call first before showing up to my house to throw up on my lawn?

Mario ate a shit ton of fast food, spaghett and candy for breakfast again, but since he never brushes his teeth, as it was teased in the "My Roommate Mario" episode, his teeth are full of caries causing toothache, preventing him from eating.
In attempts to still continue his lifestyle he tries different things out to get rid of his pain, by taking painkillers, ripping out his teeth and consume his favorite food by blending it into a smoothie.
At the end he goes involuntary or voluntary to a dentist. After which someone lectures him about brushing his teeth regularly and caring for his dental health, but Mario completely ignores him/her, because he is too busy eating obsessively, since now he can finally eat again. It ends with the lecturer making a facepalm.
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I turned 18 on March 28th and I legitimately considered ending my life it’s not because life is hard or I’m going through something I just don’t see a point in anything I guess its my pessimistic view on life, the goal of all life is death after all I have no goals my life plan is fairly simple get into the army make as much money as possible then retire as soon as I can then live out my meaningless existence. I don’t care about other humans it’s nothing edgy if I were to describe my personality through life so far it’d go like this: I was kind and caring as a child and always wanted to help then I thought I was better than everyone else (despite what the people around me may think because I’m a high school drop out and extremely lazy I’m smart as I hate to admit it I was born with good genes naturally physically superior although I’m skinny cause I eat the bare minimum to live) then I just hated everyone and everything I thought how could humans be so pathetic and stupid I hated being apart of the same species then it gradually changed to nothingness the only things I have interest in is books I rarely play games anymore (or do anything else for that matter) I sleep read and occasionally watch hour long videos. The people around me hate my guts and my family treats me as a roommate rather than a family member I don’t blame them I think purely on logic and I’m apathetic to everything unless my life is in danger I love to watch people die it’s incredibly funny I love to watch people despair I take joy in it everyone around me thinks I’m joking or being weirdo or edgy because I never hide my opinions and feelings that includes my love for death I don’t understand why they can’t comprehend why I feel this way I can’t comprehend why people love why people care about others being killed across the world why do people care about how other countries run things honestly the only reason I haven’t become a serial killer is because I’m scared of the consequences usually I don’t care about consequences but death scares me hence why I didn’t end my life I don’t support lgbtq I won’t go outta my way to say someone’s wrong just that I don’t approve my opinion is you do you. I feel human emotions when it comes to me and me alone I only care about others deaths (or others in general) when I can use it for something or make fun of it, I was raped when I was 5 the only way it affected me in any way is that I hate pedos with a passion and a dislike for s*x other than that I’m pretty open about it,I don’t seek sympathy from others or play victim (unless I get something out of it) I don’t expect people to care about me because I don’t care about them. With everyday that passes I feel more and more apathetic I’d say I don’t care but I’m posting this so I guess I care to a certain extent I’m afraid I might I do something I’ll enjoy but regret. Well I don’t expect anyone nor do I think anyone will care or right this off as some weirdo online thanks for reading this I guess.

All the people here, i need guidance/ help from you, if you are indian origin doctors/ know anybody who is one, practicing in Germany currently. Though I know a few from other states, i m trying to find someone who did his initial visa prep and language certification from Pune. Need a reliable source and insight from someone who has gone through the process successfully. Please help if you can. Thanks a tonne in advance!

Recently my girlfriend (27F) had bought some sweets for my roomies(2 brothers) for their birthday and had wished them. They responded very positively and accepted her sweets with all smiles. yesterday my other roommate(let us call him ‘1’) came to my room with them (i have multiple roommates btw) and 1 showed me the sweets that my gf bought them untouched 15 days later and as a joke said ‘they don't value friendship at all.. look they had thrown this into some corner of their room’.And they said they had just forgotten about the sweets and had not thrown them in some corner of the room but kept them with their books. I would have believed all this and given them benefit of the doubt..but then they started throwing the sweets at each other (it was in a plastic cover) and playing catch with each other, 1 was also involved in this and so were the roommates. I felt extremely hurt by this. imo, this was extremely disrespectful. you can hate/dislike a person that is closely associated with me I can't change that, but at the very least be respectful in front of me. They kept throwing the sweets and playing catch with each other multiple times. cheery on top of this shit pile, instead of throwing it away when they left the room they left it on the refrigerator in the kitchen which is a common commuting area for all of us. My girlfriend comes sometimes to surprise me, what if she had seen the sweets that she had bought all crumbled and gone rancid with nobody even touching it. maybe tomorrow i will let them know that I felt extremely hurt by the incident. Am I over reacting or am I just in feeling disrespected? Appreciate your time.
TL;DR : gf got a gift for roommates and they treated it with at most disrespect (imo).

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Thanks for reading. I'll try to keep this brief.
People in this issue:

1. My ex brother in law of 15 years who runs the family Discord
2. My ex boyfriend of 4 years
3. My client
4. My current boyfriend

About a year ago, my ex and I broke up. We had a lot of issues, one big one being distance, but we had many others. One major issue we had, was that my ex exhibited a lot of stalker like red flags. He would add, speak to and get to know every friend or acquaintance I had. He'd message them to ask questions about me while pretending he cared about them. This extended to spaces like Discord, where he'd find ways to join every server.
A few months before my ex and I broke up, we were playing Fortnite with my real life ex brother in law and a friend. I invited my ex to play with us for a few so he wouldn't feel left out. During the session, he took it upon himself to ask my ex brother in law if he could join our private Discord server. My ex brother in law agreed. I immediately went into my ex brother in law's DMs to express to him that I was concerned about him joining because he usually would only do this to keep tabs on me.
So now my ex is in the family server, and we break up. A whole year passes by. I try to keep my distance, but he keeps inserting himself into everything. He befriends everyone, gets on their good sides and pretends to care. I try to navigate our awkward friendship as best I can. I try to establish boundaries, but slowly he begins to whittle them down. He's in my family server, he's in the family vent session channel, he knows everyone I do.
I express, again, to my ex brother in law, how his behavior is stifling me. He's everywhere I am, I can't do anything without him. He's on my twitter, in my livestreams, my DMs, he knows every single person I do, he constantly talks to me, I can't even use the vent channel because he's in it. Twice I do this, this time, and a bit later with my new boyfriend, warning him that he's keeping tabs on me and is only there to watch me.
The other day, I met my final straw. I was playing Fortnite again and he joined my new boyfriend and I. He is with new boyfriend and another friend. He asks me in DMs, "are you 3 in a voice call?" to which I respond, "no, my tonsilitis is too bad. Using my Fortnite friend's name, he google searches her, finds her Twitch, joins her Discord, and starts introducing himself to everyone.
I message my ex brother in law and tell him I'm going to be leaving the server, I messaged him and said:

I can't take him knowing every person I know, being everywhere I am, joining places I never gave him.
I can't even vent about him because he's befriended every person I know
I'm very sorry for this, truly. I wanted to help out, but last night he popped into a server from a friend I never gave him. he'd have had to google search her thoroughly to find it. it made me ridiculously uncomfortable.

My brother in law then responds by saying:

"It sounds like he was just meeting a new person. I think this is just a misunderstanding."

I messaged him, and him alone. The next day, my art client and mutual friend in the server messages me and cancels a $300 art commission I've been working on for months and eventually blocks me. Then, my ex messages me and has been told everything I said in private. We argue, I lay everything out on the table, he then tries to pin the entire thing on my new boyfriend. Eventually, I tell him everything and tell him again how awful his behavior has been, how uncomfortable he's made me, and we delete each other from Discord.
My roommate and best friend, begins to ask what his brother (the server over and family member of 15 years) is thinking, and they begin to fight. My ex brother in law starts to argue with his own brother defending my ex boyfriend. Saying I have no proof, that I should have "spoke to them sooner" even though I did. Their relationship is now in shambles over this.
My mom then goes into the hospital. While she's being taken by ambulance, my ex boyfriend messages me and begins to ask me questions about my relationship, not about the fact that my mom is being rushed to the hospital in an ambulance, which he was aware of.
Today, I am yet again incredibly saddened. My best friend and his brother, the server own, got in another fight today. My ex brother in law said verbatim, "She caused a lot of problems for all of us. She involved people that didn't need to be involved."
So, in closing, I've lost my ex brother in law, my friend, and an entire server of friends I thought were family. Nobody has reached out to me, and I'm now getting told I "caused problems for everyone" when all I wanted to do was leave the server so I didn't have to be around him anymore. I couldn't vent, I couldn't talk to anyone. He was in the vent channel, he knew/knows every person I do.
I am so heartbroken and hurt by all of this. He hurt me and fucked with me for so long. He pressured me for nudes, he put me down, he ignored me, he stalked every single thing I did, from friends to videogames. I put up with this for a whole year because I didn't want to stir the pot.
And now, I've lost everything... and honestly, I don't know if I should even try to get it back. I know my ex brother in law was diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder, but I didn't realize he was this cold and unfeeling.
What should I do?
tl;dr I left a family discord behind because my ex was there and making me uncomfortable. they sided with him over me.

Lots of spoilers here. Consider yourself warned.
I just watched Bone Tomahawk (yes, I know, I’m late to the party.) I loved the movie, but it’s been discussed at length here, so I won’t go into everything that makes the movie shine.
Here’s my problem. Most movies require some level of suspension of disbelief. That guy really walked home on his broken, infected, and possibly gangrenous leg? Okay, cool. The cave dwellers evolved (or installed) strange whistling devices in their throats? Sure, fine. I have no problem with that. Suspension of disbelief is not, by default, a plot failure.
But this movie missed a MAJOR opportunity. Midway through the movie, Brooder is recounting the number of Indians he’s killed, and mentions that the total includes women and children. Chicory says that he doesn’t believe he could ever bring himself to kill a woman or child.
The movie ends with the survivors, including Chicory, passing the mutilated, tortured, limbless, pregnant women the tribe uses to procreate. This would have been the perfect opportunity for Chicory to revise his views. Those women (and the children they carry) could not possibly survive without the male members of the tribe. Leaving them alive to suffer and starve to death is cruel. Chicory, who was the kindest of them, could have realized in that moment that death is sometimes a mercy. It seems like a wasted opportunity to return to that prior conversation and bring it full circle.
Thoughts?

Many point to be made may ramble may not to wait for four season of the hit show YOU that I do love. 1. The jar of pee 2. To Kill love he get to it by end we see Kate pay yes but what how explain that his toes are there??? 3. Is purpose to the growth hair he have of it down to beard he realize it he of evil clown now and decide to shave? 4. You big killer man but also lunatic looney toon but cohesion enough to do it all to clean the crevices between no blood in sight?? 5. He walk perfect okay fine to not have the toe 6. We forget Ellie hve to eat????? 7. Who give him the right?? To build the cage glass cage of torture in Indian food basement 8. He gay now or what? Why he like Reese so much????? 9. Sherry and Carrie must see the crazy new to the tune on the television screens or social media app like TikTok or something mr goldberg alive! They can simply not to stay silent???
Just some thing I notice to see agin practice suspenson of this-belief but they pushing it please no hate just some things observed still love this show

I'm sorry I might keep this very vague but long story short I got into an argument with someone very close to me about a few days ago. I asked them to do a simple task and well this happened for the first time they started cursing at me under their breath and then threw stuff everywhere it scared the heck out of me. They didn't even apologize about the situation and then kept bringing up things I did in the past and they even said like it's only going to get worse they never said they were going to fix themselves and it saddened and frightened me. Anyways this was the first time they ever did this to me and we have had arguments before and I'm starting to realize other stuff too. There is other stress in the house hold too and well reason why I mention it out is because I've been holding on it for awhile and yes this is someone in my household and I'm moving out soon and they asked me if they could possibly move in with me but truth be told I don't know I'm scared I don't want them too but I don't even know how to say no in this situation but I want too I'm tempted to make an excuse I'm only here still because of work and am not done with my time yet. They're not a bad person they've done a lot for me but I'm scared of this behavior escalating as it's behavior I've seen before in my past. They also don't want to even talk about it and just want to change the subject. They even talked about suicide and I know I feel I should be there for them as they have for me as they have for me but like I feel this is not my doing. I'm no professional. I haven't even told my own mother about this or friends because I don't want to worry them. The household has also become very toxic. But I also feel like they're just using me as a scape goat because they don't want to move back in with their parents and yes we're all roommates. Because before they told me I had to move out so that they could have space but suddenly change their mind? I don't know this is the first time I'm noticing this and I could really use some help. They also won't stop asking if it's possible for them to move in with me.

Hello all,
I am currently depressed in college and am having the worst semester. I started out college as a loser in high school but I got a 1480 on my SAT. My parents were supportive of me and let me study in a smaller less reputable school because they wanted me to get a good education along with college experience.
My first semester I didn’t do well but I at least had the drive to move forward. My last 2 semesters (year 2022) I lived it up. I weighted 125 pounds, won a scholarship, got a 4.0 for spring and fall and worked an internship at a Fortune 500 company being only 19 years old. As far as my personal life went I dated a man from my neighboring country (I’m Indian) and had a blast with him. He helped me with my coursework as well but then fall 2022 semester ended and he graduated.
Now I am currently almost done with the spring 2023 semester. I am failing 3/5 classes and I have attendance problems. Whenever I try to study I can’t concentrate and I struggle with the material. I sleep in and I have gained 15 pounds weighing 140 lbs now. My parents are supportive and think I’m smart and hardworking. They are paying for my expenses. However, I am doing terrible in my classes and nothing seems to help. I constantly feel depressed and don’t have the drive to be excited about anything. I haven’t gotten my period in 2 weeks and feel shooting pain in my pelvic area. I try to exercise but I feel tired and weak to be able to move. If I were to fail my classes I would have to wait a year to retake them. I don’t understand any material in any of my classes. If I want to learn I feel like I have to start from scratch in each subject and I don’t have enough time to do so. I have a 3.7 cumulative gpa in electrical engineering just to watch it drop to 2.9. I have a job offer lined up for summer but I’m not excited at all because I still have a year left to graduate and I feel like school is going to kill me before I start.
I feel like giving up everything all together. I mean I lived my good days what’s gonna happen now.

‘Thug’ has always been a loaded word simply because it evokes a plethora of unpleasant emotions within us. This four-letter word paints of picture of brutal malevolence, an utter lack of empathy, and violence and destruction going beyond the limits of barbarism. And the word has been liberally splashed across the media occasionally.
However, thug is not an American word. In fact, it is not even an English word. The word has a twisted saga of barbarism based on religious practices associated with it that goes back to 13th century India. ‘Thug’ originates in the Hindi word ‘thag,’ which translates into ‘thief’, and the Sanskrit word ‘sthagati’, which means to conceal. And the Thugs or Thuggees were history’s most notorious and deadly criminal cult, who preyed upon travelers along the highways until the end of 19th century India.
Constant pursing, the strangling of their supply networks, arrest, and punishment by the British resulted in the collapse of the entire Thuggee system. Eventually, the Thuggee movement was extinguished forever by the late 1800s.
But questions are still asked about their actual motive. Did they kill for money or religious beliefs? Can a simply monetary reason drive them to kill scores of people when killing is not really required? Either way, the Thuggees made an infamous mark for themselves as history’s deadliest murderers.
Read more about these cult killers.....
https://owlcation.com/humanities/The-Most-Notorious-Cult-Killers-in-History