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2018.09.26 19:09 JonCreaux Oculus Quest
A place to discuss the Meta/Oculus Quest and Quest 2
2016.12.18 07:13 TheCats_Bananas People Who Ate The Onion
A subreddit for screencaps of people who failed to see The Onion's articles as satire.
2011.10.23 15:13 tali3sin r/DadJokes - the best Dad Jokes on reddit
Welcome! This is a friendly place for those cringe-worthy and (maybe) funny attempts at humour that we call dad jokes. Often (but not always) a verbal or visual pun, if it elicited a snort or face palm then our community is ready to groan along with you. To be clear, dad status is not a requirement. We're all different and excellent. Some people are born with lame jokes in their heart and so here, everyone is a dad. Some dads are wholesome, some are not. It's about how the joke is delivered.
2023.06.08 21:53 bdawg_007 Buying Condo from Parents
I'm entertaining buying my parents condo this fall. In the past they had rented it out to me and my siblings, as well as other university students. Everyone is through school now and they want to sell. They offered it to me, as I have been considering an investment property.
I would be considered a first time homebuyer, however, I plan on buying a primary residence for myself in the next 1-2 years as well, and I'm wondering if buying the rental property first will make this a headache (personal residence would not be first time home).
Any insight on this situation would be appreciated, and any advise on how to efficiently purchase this property from my parents would also be good.
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2023.06.08 21:52 Ana_rkia Adrenaline trigger, right side palpitations, humid hot weather, sitting in a car?
I was diagnosed with POTS in 2021. Since than I was able to understand most of the triggers, symptoms etc. I have adrenaline issue so I am triggered by slightest sounds like opening door, doorbell or phone ringing. But the one thing I still can not quite understand is why, in the evening, when I lay on my back or right side I have palpitations, skipping heart and I am only able to stabilize myself while on the left side for longer. Has anyone been able to figure this out? Also when I wake up in the morning while still laying I have horrible palpitations and also thoughts as I am not fully awake it islike a worst nightmare in the morning. I have read that it can be kindey related? Another thing is sitting in a car, when the speed goes above 100km/hour I feel pain and tightness in my chest and I do not feel so well. When the weather is hot and humid I have severe chest compression and sickness upon drinking water. I am just curious how many of you have some of these issues?
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2023.06.08 21:52 Last-Instruction-869 What Will I Be Missing?
I am most likely going to move over to a Garmin Quatix 7. Currently have an Apple Watch Series 4. I really do not use the AW to its full potential. I do not use it for calls, RARELY answer messages on it, do not use it for music, REALLY tired of the exercise timer stopping on its own-apparently not tight enough on my wrist and a wrist tattoo. I pretty much use it as a watch, step counter, close out my health rings everyday, have the tide widget on it, text and work slack message preview. Sometimes I play with the EKG on it. My activities are fishing, kayaking, bike riding and hiking. What advantages will I have switching to a Garmin watch? What disadvantages will I have still using an iPhone? What will I be missing from the AW and what will I gain from using a Garmin watch? Thanks.
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2023.06.08 21:52 whalesnaileatingkale A small experiment: If you currently have a working Pixel 5a, comment on this post and then update if/when it dies. I'm curious about exactly how widespread the motherboard issues are.
My Pixel 5a just succumbed to what I believe to be the classic black screen/motherboard issue, one year and seven days after purchasing it. I'm going to try sending it in under the extended repair warranty but I'm not optimistic. Based on posts I've seen here, this issue seems extremely common, perhaps nearly universal. Because people who've had the issue are much more likely to post than those who haven't, it might be interesting if people who currently have a 5a that still works comment here, and then comment again if their phone dies. My suspicion is that this happens to virtually every Pixel 5a.
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2023.06.08 21:52 ebudd08 [US][H] Back-Compatible PS3, PS2 Slim, Modded Game Boys, Loose Cases, Wii(U), Xbox 360, PS2, PS3, GBA, NDS, Wavebird, GBA(SP) Housings [W] PayPal
Selling stuff for money. Bundle deals are absolutely welcome and appreciated. Prices were pulled from pricecharting & verified with recent, like-condition sold eBay listings. Game Boys
PlayStation Games & Consoles Take all the PS2 games for
- Game Boy Color: Full mod treatment: New aftermarket atomic purple shell, purple membranes, transparent green buttons, slider and IR sensor. Q5 IPS v2 with brightness/screen controls via touch pad at the top of the console. Pics $175
- Game Boy Color: Full mod treatment: New aftermarket white shell, black buttons, Q5 IPS screen. Pics $170
- Game Boy Advance SP: Aftermarket screen (I honestly don't remember which one I put in here), shell, buttons, and battery. Pics $175
- Game Boy Advance: Indigo, dropped in an AGS-101 screen and used the original housing, but replaced the lens. Pics $175
$180$130, take all the PS3 games for $58$40
Nintendo Games & Consoles
|Title ||Console & Notes ||Price |
|Console PlayStation 2 Slim SCPH-90001 ||Loose ||Comes with OEM A/V, OEM black controller & a power cord. Tested & works great. Feel free to include any 5 of the $4 & less games for this purchase price. $90 |
|Console PlayStation 3 CECHE01 ||Mostly complete in box in quite nice condition 80GB backwards-compatible console, never been opened (original thermal paste, so take that as you will), reset to factory default at software 4.81. Comes with original box (matching serial number to console in decent condition, some wear, tear on the bottom corner), instructional inserts, cardboard inserts, Sixaxis OEM wireless controller (no mini USB cable unfortunately), power cord (no HDMI). Pics ||$400 |
|American Chopper ||PS2 ||$5 |
|Arctic Thunder ||PS2 ||$5 |
|Cabelas Big Game Hunter 2005 Adventures ||PS2 ||$3 |
|Call of Duty: Finest Hour ||PS2 ||$4 |
|Call of Duty: Finest Hour (Greatest Hits) ||PS2 ||$4 |
|Conflict Desert Storm 2 ||PS2 ||$7 |
|Crash n' Burn ||PS2 ||$5 |
|Eragone ||PS2 ||$4 |
|Flatout ||PS2 (loose) ||$4 |
|Flatout ||PS2 ||$7 |
|The Getaway ||PS2 ||$5 |
|The Getaway (loose) ||PS2 ||$3 |
|Guitar Hero 2 ||PS2 ||$10 |
|Hitman 2 (Greatest Hits) ||PS2 ||$8 |
|IHRA Drag Racing 2 ||PS2 ||$3 |
|Jet Li Rise to Honor ||PS2 ||$4 |
|Lord of the Rings: The Two Towers (Greatest Hits) ||PS2 ||$4 |
|Madden 07 ||PS2 ||$4 |
|Metal Gear Solid 3: Snake Eater ||PS2 (loose) ||$8 |
|MX Unleashed ||PS2 ||$5 |
|MX vs ATV Unleashed ||PS2 (loose) ||$5 |
|NBA 2K9 ||PS2 ||$3 |
|Pop Cap Hits Vol 1 Bejeweled & Astro Pop ||PS2 ||$4 |
|Ratchet & Clank: Going Commando (Greatest Hits) ||PS2 ||$8 |
|Ratchet & Clank: Up Your Arsenal ||PS2 ||$10 |
|Smackdown! vs. Raw ||PS2 ||$10 |
|Smuggler's Run ||PS2 ||$5 |
|SRS Street Racing Syndicate ||PS2 ||$5 |
|Starsky & Hutch ||PS2 ||$5 |
|Strike Force Bowling ||PS2 ||$4 |
|Tetris Worlds ||PS2 ||$5 |
|Tiger Woods PGA Tour 02 ||PS2 ||$3 |
|Tiger Woods PGA Tour 05 ||PS2 (loose) ||$3 |
|Tiger Woods PGA Tour 06 ||PS2 ||$3 |
|TOCA Race Driver 2 ||PS2 ||$5 |
|Tom Clancy Ghost Recon ||PS2 ||$4 |
|Tom Clancy Splinter Cell ||PS2 ||$4 |
|Trigger Man ||PS2 ||$3 |
|World Championship Poker ||PS2 ||$5 |
|Call of Duty: Modern Warfare 3 ||PS3 ||$5 |
|Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim (Base game with map) ||PS3 ||$10 |
|Grand Theft Auto IV ||PS3 ||$8 |
|Killzone 3 ||PS3 CIB ||$5 |
|Little Big Planet Greatest Hits ||PS3 ||$5 |
|Mortal Kombat vs DC Universe Greatest Hits ||PS3 ||$8 |
|Rocksmith ||PS3 ||$5 |
|Rock Band 2 ||PS3 ||$8 |
|Sports Champions ||PS3 ||$4 |
|Rock Band 4: Rivals ||PS4 - Includes unredeemed Rivals code ||$65 |
Xbox Games Take all for
|Title ||Console & Notes ||Price |
|Skylanders Trap Team/Swap Force/Lego Dimensions ||Wii U Bundle - CIB ||$10 |
|Hip Hop Dance Experience ||Wii (loose) ||$25 Yeah, I know |
|LEGO Star Wars The Complete Saga ||Wii ||$5 |
|Price is Right ||Wii (loose) ||$3 |
|Spongebob Squarepants: Creature from the Krusty Krab ||Wii - CIB ||$10 |
|Super Smash Bros Brawl ||Wii Pics ||$10 |
|Wii Play ||Wii ||$5 |
|Wii Sports ||Wii ||$15 |
|Horsez ||NDS CIB ||$4 |
|Imagine Fashion Designer ||NDS CIB ||$4 |
|MahJong Quest ||NDS CIB ||$4 |
|My Farm: Around the World ||NDS CIB ||$4 |
|Mario Kart 7 ||3DS (loose) ||$10 |
|Quad Desert Fury ||GBA CIB ||$5 |
|Lion King ||SNES ||$8 |
|Tiny Toons Adventures: Buster Busts Loose ||SNES ||$10 |
|Accessory Wavebird DOL-004 ||NGC - No receiver, no battery back cover, tested & works well ||$20 |
|Accessory Lot of GBA(SP) Parts ||As is - no motherboards. Tons of buttons, OEM shells, etc. See photos for details. ||$100 |$18$10
|Title ||Console & Notes ||Price |
|Grand Theft Auto IV ||X360 - Platinum Hits ||$10 |
|MLB 2K9 ||X360 - CIB ||$3 |
|NBA 2K12 ||X360 - CIB ||$5 |
*No games, just cases & inserts on games that originally had them.
|Title ||Console ||Notes/Price |
|Kirby Star Allies ||NS ||$4 |
|Mario Kart 8 Deluxe ||NS ||$4 |
|Splatoon 2 ||NS ||$4 |
|Super Mario Party ||NS ||$4 |
|Mario & Luigi: Superstar Saga + Bowser's Minions ||3DS ||(Red case, some liquid marking on the artwork) $10 |
Shipping costs are not included in prices and will be calculated based upon location. Thanks for looking!
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2023.06.08 21:51 Significant-Cut-8495 3KG PACKAGE REVIEW
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Overall quality of both pairs are amazing my GF loves the dunks and both pairs are true to size. Only imperfection I feel there is, is the back tab on the Jordan 4 is a little smaller but I’m not to sure. Overall it was $70NZD to ship and took 2-3 weeks submitted by Significant-Cut-8495 to u/Significant-Cut-8495 [link] [comments]
2023.06.08 21:51 PAPA_STACHIO Wages and confidentiality
work at a restaurant in NYC with a tip pool and everyone has different scores that determines what percent they take from the pool based on performance/ seniority ect.. . Our percentages are typically not known to us unless we ask but we haven’t had any reviews l or anything so we figured they stayed the same as usual. Our manager left a laptop open the other day with a Square report where I noticed I was one of the lowest paid servers, despite being the most senior server (3years vs some as recent as 2 months). I haven’t had any complaints or issues, and have been doing my job without any problems.
I want to bring this up to management and ask how/ why that’s the case. The problem is that I wasn’t supposed to see the report, as it was for the store manager, and it included tipped and untipped employees wages, is it ok for me to reference this in my complaint?
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2023.06.08 21:50 Griefyguts Termination with cause - severence
I was informed today that I was terminated with cause. This is in Alberta, Canada. 8 years of service.
The rundown. I organized the crew in the morning and handed out work orders and job hazard assessments. I instructed the crew on the work and told them to review the map "asset map located in the office, the laydown and a pdf on their phones". This map provides the information required to isolate and repair fire hydrants and associated assets. The workers left with their paperwork and permit to go perform the work. I was notified around 12:20 that the hydrant blew out as the workers did not isolate or notify that they were at the stage of removal (I was limited to office duties to a non work related injury that was cleared by supervision but I was instructed to stay in my office). I responded to a phone call from one of the workers in question stating that they had full flow from the hydrant. I told them to close down on their isolation more (I was unaware at this point it wasn't isolated at all) and that I would be out shortly. I arrived at the jobsite to a completely isolated asset. Called my client representative and was instructed that it was a non-incident and to get it repaired immediately (verbal). We did not proceed with lock out tag out due to the fact that safety critical assets where down during an oil site turn-around/shut down (fires and evacuations happen all the time) and those hydrants and monitors are important to the safety of the site and workers. It took approximately 30 minutes to an hour to get the hydrant back to a safe working state.
I was terminated with cause due to the repair completed after the blow-out of the hydrant. - things to note: - redacted or inaccessible Loto/receiver Safing procedure. I wasn't aware it even existed as I didn't have access to a document from 2018. - receiver Safing leaves the ones in the field to be the judge of LOTO as they are considered the experts. - I have been petitioning the company I was terminated with for training and competency documents as they've had the contract for 9 years and no documentation was ever in place. (Since December, this is documented in email and written in the superintendents log book). - I also started I would write them for them on my days off if they provided me with a Microsoft office package as I wasn't taking money out of my own pocket to do free work. - I discussed training and competency with my director the morning of this incident. - I was instructed by the client to repair the asset (verbal).
I was a model employee, no blemishes on my record. Worked my way up from a labourer to a dual ticketed foreman in 8 years.
What can I do?
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2023.06.08 21:50 acbrown28 Considering a dog - need advice!
Hi all! I’ve been a lurker here for a while and I’d love some input from y’all as I’m trying to decide if I’m ready to adopt a dog.
For context, I’m a 23F recent college graduate about to start my first 9-5. I just moved into a place that seems perfect for a dog. It’s 3 beds, 1.5 baths, fenced in yard, minutes from two dog parks (even though if I do adopt, I’m going to avoid off leash dog parks). Tons of space (~1200 sf) and I’m the only one living here. There’s no breed restrictions or pet limit either! I have two cats who are both dog friendly, and more than enough room so that every pet can have their own space. It seems like every single one of my neighbors has at least one dog too, so I’d have some community support!
I’ll have more than enough money to be able to afford all the vet bills/supplies/etc. I have also been fostering for a local shelter on and off for years, so I have an accumulation of supplies already. While I have never owned my own dog, I grew up with them and have been an avid volunteer for a few different shelters and even a vet clinic.
I also have family close by, so if I needed someone to watch him/her for a weekend I have that covered.
My concern is that I’m still very young and I don’t want to adopt a dog and give it an awful quality of life. Realistically, I’ll be working 9-5 and living on my own for at least the next few years. I’d be able to come home during lunch and let him/her out for potty breaks, but that’s a lot of time to be home alone. Not to mention there may be nights that I’d want to go out for dinner or drinks (not often as I’m pretty introverted, maybe 3-4 times a month?). I’m hoping for any advice from single dog owners who have full time jobs!!
If I were to adopt, I’d definitely go for an older (above 2 years) shelter dog who is cat tested. I’m leaning towards a pitty/pit mix because they are everywhere in shelters around me. I have always loved dogs and have wanted one for as long as I can remember, but I’m very concerned that I’m doing this selfishly. I’m also aware of the overpopulation crisis in my area, and the fact that dogs near me are being put down every day because there aren’t enough adopters.
TLDR: Is it more selfish to adopt a dog while working a 9-5 and living alone, or not adopt and let one more dog be put down in a shelter?
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2023.06.08 21:50 PC-Was-Bricked Dumb question about water and splash resistance
I have a new Redmi 10c and I've been reading a lot about its specs and I just now noticed that it doesn't list either splash or water resistance.
This kind of freaked me out because I'm a very clumsy person who gets liquids on my phone constantly. After doing some googling, I came across a couple of YouTube videos doing a submersion test, where the phone was submerged for minutes and seemingly was fine.
I'm not planning to ever submerge the phone nor use it in circumstances where it would get very wet, but I wanted to ask if "water resistance" not being an official feature is something I should worry about. Will I break it if I accidentally spill some water on it multiple times for a couple of years?
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2023.06.08 21:50 alyss_in_genderland So I finally got a skirt...
I've been rather hesitant about doing this because I've never felt like one would look all that good on me and skirts/dresses aren't really the aesthetic I crave. Plus I hate wearing shorts so I never really figured a skirt would be up my alley.
WOW was I wrong.
I finally decided to get one just to try it and then return if I didn't like it. Turns out though I really, really like how it looks on me. Like. Wow. I'm shocked. So. Gonna ride this euphoria high for a bit. This was an excellent decision.
The only downside is that I just don't have the confidence to wear this anywhere. I've come out to literally 2 people so far and that's not about to change any time soon. So. Unfortunately this is going to have to be something I enjoy kinda privately for a while. But at least I know I have something to look forward to once I do build my confidence up.
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2023.06.08 21:50 Derextreme [H] Cheap games [W] Steam trading cards. Each game priced in amount of cards wanted
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2023.06.08 21:50 Dfarni Laptop for 10y old
Hello, my 10y old is asking for a laptop for his birthday. He doesn’t do any PC gaming, and really doesn’t have a lot of desire to outside Roblox, Minecraft, etc…
I’m looking for a laptop that will not frustrate him with those games, have the ability to grow with him into some more advanced (though not top of the line) games over the next 2-3 years or so.
I’m looking to keep my budget ~$500 or cheaper. I’m not sure if this is realistic, or if I need adjustments. Can anybody make some recommendations or help me— I’ve only ever really played on consoles.
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2023.06.08 21:50 Sweet_Spinach_5015 I passed!!! 💃💃💃
Issa pass for the INBDE ya'all💃💃💃..I'm so happy. I am a foreign trained dentist, I have not opened a book since six years ago when I left school. Study period 🤔 was about 6weeks. 6 weeks of no work, no going out, just indoors studying all day. Actually that's my study style, so do what works for you.
I subscribed to both Booster and Bootcamp, but Bootcamp was my main study resource. I did the videos in Bootcamp and the questions. I also tried to go through the booster questions, as booster had some extra questions that was not on bootcamp. I don't think it was that important tho, because bootcamp gives you the general understanding of the concepts. Bootcamp mock questions also really helped. My most helpful resource was recent RQ file, as I had all my exam questions from there, both Day 1 and Day 2. All the resources I used were;
- Bootcamp study app-very important
- Booster questions
- Recent RQ file (most helpful)
These are all the things I did, I didn't use too many resources as I didn't want to be overwhelmed. I was soo afraid before the exams, I almost rescheduled. I'm glad I didn't reschedule. The exams is not hard guys, it's very doable 👍
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2023.06.08 21:50 RateChemical4705 Reminder that the staff of Southern Tier aren't the ones who chose to cancel the drag brunch!!
Fuck their regional. But please don't harrass the staff at the restaurant for a decision that is completely out of their control. I'm all about not giving them business after this sort of decision, but there are people calling the restaurant to yell at whoever answers the phone.
I don't work there, but I know people who do and they don't deserve the abuse.
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2023.06.08 21:50 MyuFoxy How to use M/S and MPH to compare high velocity dryers
I couldn't find very much information on this, which is frustrating because the name brand dryers use CFM and the budget models use M/S or MPH. How do they even come up with these numbers? CFM seems the most clear, but the others, not so much. With numbers like 60 M/S and 134 MPH sounds amazing if not terrifying coming out of a 2 inch hose. That's 1030 CFM! Wow! Obviously not what's going on. To figure this out and maybe this will help someone else out, I did some work with an air flow calculator, because who is going to pull out formulas?
First, I established a baseline. The spec from the Flying Pig pro version would work for this. The advertised CFM is 240, the hose is 2 inches in diameter. Plug these into an air flow calculator. The one I used is here
. Results are 13.97 M/S and 31.3 MPH. What! that is so much weaker than the budget models, how's is this possible? Hold on we know how much faster the cone nozzle speeds up drying over every other nozzle. The Flying Pig's nozzle reduces the diameter to 5/8 of an inch. What numbers do we get then? 143.06 M/S and 320 MPH Wow! Now it is so much stronger than the budget models, this must be wrong too. Well if we take the budget model and assume it is using the Flying Pig nozzle, what CFM does it have? 100.65 CFM, It's weak, but for a sub 100$ it is believable. Without the nozzle it would be 5.86 M/S out the hose, which is slow enough to be measured by an Anemometer. I have one coming in today because my curiosity is too much and I want to validate if this is right. Start here if you just want to know how:
If the above it right, to get M/S and MPH into CFM roughly. Find the diameter of the cone nozzle small end for the model you are looking at, or just assume 5/8 of an inch or 1.5 CM. Then plug the velocity number you have and the diameter selecting the round shape in this calculator
and get some rough numbers to compare with.
For anyone who has used budget models around the 60 M/S 134 MPH power range and the Flying Pig. Does the Flying Pig feel like it has double the power or more? I currently don't have a Flying Pig to see for myself if the feel matches what the numbers say.
Last thought, finding a cone with a smaller opening might increase the performance of a weaker dryer noticeably. Going from a 1.5 cm to 1 cm opening brings the velocity of the budget model numbers above near the Flying Pig's numbers, assuming the fan can handle the static pressure. Something someone could try if they feel their current dryer doesn't have the velocity they need, but can't get a new system right now. Also, might be something to measure when comparing high-end models before investing.
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2023.06.08 21:49 everysaturday- Mahal ko 'yong mga magulang ko pero ayoko maging kagaya nila.
I've been a working student since I was seventeen. Imagine seventeen (now I'm 23). Before iniisip ko na 'yong iba nga mas bata pa pero nagwowork na pero naisip ko na I should not invalidate my feelings. My feelings are valid.
Seventeen. Habang 'yong mga kaklase ko nagpapaka-seventeen lang. Ako puyat. Nagtatrabaho. Binubuhay 'yong sarili ko. Lagi kong sinasabi na hindi ako pinilit ng magulang ko magtrabaho pero naisip ko na kahit 'di nila ako pilitin kung 'di ako magsisikap ako lang din magdudusa. Ako lang rin 'yong maiiwan.
Service Crew. Hosting raket. Barista. Hanggang BPO. Napasok ko. Mula Grade 12 hanggang ngayon 4th year college and candidate for graduation na ako. Kahit emotional support wala akong nakuha sa parents ko lalong lalo na financially. Both sa pagwowork and pag-aaral wala akong narinig na kinamusta nila 'yong pagwo-work ko or pag-aaral I don't even know kung alam ba nila 'yong program ko sa college.
Meron akong mga ate na mababait. Nagpapakaate. Pinapautang nila ako kapag kapos ako pero binabalik ko. Kasi kapag inagaw ko pa 'yong tira sa sahod nila. Paano na 'yong sarili nilang pangarap?
Ngayon sobrang lala ng trigger ko. Nag-resign ako sa work. 2 years akong nagwowork as call center agent for telco. Gy. Tiniis ko 'yong ugali ng coach ko na sobrang walang boundaries. Kasi if 'di ko tiniis wala akong pang-raos. I did resign dahil 1) power tripping na yung coach ko and 2) fl blown na ang final defense ko and wala ng natitirang kapal pa 'yong mukha ko sa mga ka-group ka na laging nag-aadjust sa oras ko.
Nagresign ako and wala akong work. Meron naman akong ipon pero syempre binayad ko na sa bills and nagbigay narin ako sa kanila sa mayat maya hingi nila.
Kanina gusto ko na lang umiyak at mamatay saglit kasi habang kumakain ako kinausap ako ng mama ko and sabi "kapag graduate mo kaya mo na ba pag-aralin 'yong dalawa?" like tangina? ni hindi ko naman kapatid yun mga inampon nila mula pagkabata kasi 'di na kaya buhayin nung mga kamag-anak namin as if kaya rin nilang buhayin (don't get me wrong mahal ko yung dalawang pinsan ko sobra and binibigyan ko rin sila ng baon mula sa sahod ko pero HINDI-KO-SILA-RESPONSIBILIDAD). Imagine kinaladkad mo yung sarili mo palabas ng hirap tas biglang ganun sasabihin sayo? Anw, hindi ako sumagot and nilagay ko na lang yung plato ko sa lababo tas nandun naman lola ko at sinabing "[Name ko], bakit ka nag-resign paano na 'yong grad fee ni [pinsan ko?]" ---
and dito na ako nag-breakdown kasi putangina graduating din ako pero wala silang narinig nanghingi ako ng tulong sa kanila or mas lalo na nag-offer sila tulungan ako sa grad fee ko! sabi ko "La, pano ako? Sino magbabayad ng graduation ko?"
tapos umakyat na lang ako at umiyak magdamag.
ang malala pa gumimik ako one time at umuwi ng madaling araw sinabihan ako ng tatay ko na "magtrabaho ka na lang kesa puyat ka nang puyat sa walang kwenta" wow?? 4 years straight akong kuba at walang social dahil sa sobrang hirap ng college (polsci course ko) at telco (account o sa bpo) IMAGINE THE STRESS! and 'yong pagod noong biglang face to face na ulit na halos wala na akong tulog.
Stress ko na pinaguusapan ako ng thesis mate ko na lagi akong late sa part ko and ginagago pa ako ng coach ko kapag 'di siya nasususunod.
Gusto kong umiyak at gusto ko ng lumaya sa sitwasyon na 'to!' Tangina'
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2023.06.08 21:49 Libra_lady_88 Made to feel bad about asking for an autism evaluation
So this is literally my first post on Reddit. I'm always on here reading things in various subs that I'm interested in and recently found this one during my journey. This might be long winded and I apologize ahead of time for that. I'm a 34 year old black mother of 5 kids. My kids are aged 13 years to 2months old. My two oldest children from my first marriage have ADHD and my younger one is currently being evaluated for autism. I have 3 younger kids with my current partner and our oldest is autistic with motor delays. All my kids that have had evaluations thus far are very smart and if my third child didn't have any motor delays his diagnosis might've been delayed like his older brothers. With that background, I have been experiencing a kind of awakening to myself after learning of my 3 year old's diagnosis. See, the questions on the parent forms for his checkups would always ask if I had concerns or things and for me I always thought what my children did or experienced were normal. I don't like certain loud sounds. I don't like a lot of touch. I have only so far actually liked one person's hug and I force myself to hug anyone else. I remind myself that children need hugs so I try to initiate that with my kids but it's not something I naturally do and it takes a lot for my internally to do it. I do love my kids I just have always been sensitive to touch and I recently learned as a kid I didn't like hugs and would often go to my room pretty early in the day. I force myself to maintain eye contact (I've now realized this is a trauma response from the number of times I would get slapped, hit, or yelled at for not being respectful and looking at my parent while they talked to me). I have to keep us on a very strict schedule because I start to feel very tense or anxious when the day runs longer than it should and it changes when my "quiet time" will start. I also have this thing where if I like the texture or feel of a particle clothing item, I will buy multiple of that. I have one brand of socks that I like and I have to wear socks inside. I can't stand feeling a crumb or dog hair on my foot. I went to an indoor water park and every barefoot step I took felt like I would explode from my stomach because I didn't like how the concrete felt on my bare feet. I have a very crazy photographic memory. I would go to class and couldn't learn well when I would realize the teacher would make mistakes or didn't know an answer or was wrong (things I realize now are human but it just would really bug me). I would then read the textbooks and materials myself instead of going to lecture and I graduated nursing school with As and Bs and that was with my 2 kids. In elementary school I was tested for Gifted and Talented and I enjoyed being challenged. When we moved to a different area, I was in honors and AP courses in high school but that area didn't challenge me so I gave minimal effort and focused on band and being involved in activities like cheerleading or tennis. I preferred band over the other activities but I knew it was expected of me to be involved and so I think I tried to do things that ultimately made me uncomfortable. I hated cheer and dance but with such a great photographic memory I pick up routines fairly easy and same for music with band. I can still feel the stomach queasiness I would get any time I had to perform in front of other people but I would push through and go home and retreat immediately to my room. My freshman year in college I was 17 then 18 and it was atrocious. I couldn't cope and would stop going to class halfway through. I was such a people pleaser I would not go to class because I thought if I say no then the one friend I was able to make wouldn't be my friend anymore. After the first semester I actually told my parents that I needed to come home and I wasn't doing alright I needed structure and routine. They made me go back and do the second semester. I did horrible and flunked both semesters. I also have a tendency to practice conversations prior to appointments or visits and I am usually able to stick to most of those talking points unless I'm cut off. If you've read this far, thank you. With all this information, I thought that maybe since the two kids that have and are suspected of being on the spectrum have different dads and I have an uncle with autism that maybe I might have been on the spectrum too and that's why I've always struggled with some things. I took a lot of online assessments and they all were very similar that it was highly likely I could be autistic. I found a place locally that evaluates adults for autism and took the self questionnaires and even asked my parents about my development as a child. Turns out I had delayed speech and walking but when I turned 3 I could finally talk a lot and was an early reader. Fast forward to the appointment and the psychologist was an older white male. The time with him was maybe 25 minutes at most. He asked my demographics and then stopped me at I have 5 kids and I work as a nurse. I said yes I understand that can be a lot for some people and it is a lot but that isn't what has been an issue even before having them. I told him what little bit I could get out before he just focused on the current life stressors and he never asked about my light, sound, and touch sensitivities (which I later kicked myself for not bringing up while I replayed the conversation in my head when I got home). He also made comments that were discouraging about how he worked in California back in the 80s with colleagues and was instrumental in autism diagnoses back then (which is the only reason race was mentioned by me). He also said I'm "competent" and it's very unlikely I am autistic and to "be glad [I] don't have to deal with that diagnosis." Again, I have (sometimes unfortunately) a very vivid photographic memory and things play out as a movie in my head often. We never touched on the repeated random phrases or songs I fit into conversations when I'm not actively masking at work. I didn't even know other people don't do that until my son's doctor mentioned echolalia and I thought "but I do that all the time. How would I have known that wasn't typical." I got my results and he gave a diagnosis of depression and anxiety. He said my SRS scores were very high but it didn't match with my presentation and life history. He also didn't include my results from the photograph testing I did that I struggled with. I researched the test immediately when I left because I struggled so badly and didn't understand what was wanted from me. When presented with the pictures I was supposed to tell a story. I struggled with each photograph trying to understand what a person in a picture could be feeling. How would I know? I'm not there. I don't know their story or what was going on prior. I resorted to "There's a man and a woman and I guess maybe he is trying to leave and so he leaves." Things like that. He didn't include it at all in the report and that was the one I was most curious about. He also told me he wasn't going to put me through an ADOS because again I'm "competent." Never mind the fact that I had a full burnout last year when I had major life changes to my regular schedule and the only other times I have had those have been similar to that. I'm just at a loss. I feel like I should get a second opinion but I'm not sure how to go about vetting an appropriate provider. Thank you for reading.
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2023.06.08 21:49 Careless_Parsnip_850 The truth
I started reading this manga 2 years ago and at first i liked it but overtime it's getting worse and worse you got people in here trashing other series like rent a girlfriend for not having development (in part it's true)but what really gets on my nerve is that people have the audacity to call this manga a masterpiece when basically nothing has happened ,yes there's some development but there's literally 129 fucking chapters and nagatoro and senpai still not togheter .People calling senpai a chad but in reality the men is still a fucking bland piece of shit bro said he was gonna confess and here we are 129 chapters and still nothing they're introducing new characters just to drag the story even more this series has been on going since 2017 i repeat 2017 and they're not even a couple yet i think is time to people to wake up and stop putting this series on a pedestal
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2023.06.08 21:49 Secure_Programmer_41 Tretinoin ruined my skin
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Aftermath of tretinoin. Used for about 2 1/2 months before I came to the conclusion this is not a purge. I haven’t been able to get my skin under control for 5 months now. submitted by Secure_Programmer_41 to tretinoin [link] [comments]
2023.06.08 21:48 eternal_sunshine8 I’m so tired of people telling moms they’re “resilient”
My severe anxiety is literally breaking my body down and I just need somewhere to vent and let this all out. In the past six years I have been diagnosed with three different stress related injuries, 2x I tore a muscle in my heart from panic attacks and now I have completely fucked up my teeth and jaw from clenching my jaw.
For background I’ve had generalized anxiety&depression ever since childhood so I’ve been medicated throughout the years, gone to therapy, and was even put into an inpatient hospital when I was 20. Since mental health is something I’ve struggled with for years (I’m 25 now) I have found ways to cope but obviously becoming a mom and getting married, three years ago now, adds much more and new anxieties you never dreamed of. To make matter worse my DH is in military gone pretty much all the time with no phone service etc etc. I can’t list every thing that’s happening in my life right now to cause the extreme stress but just know life has been very seriously hard for me since about 2016 and pretty much my whole childhood.
Two months ago I started getting this horrible pain in the back right side of my mouth I thought maybe it was a wisdom tooth or a bad tooth. I wasn’t able to get it checked until today because you know how it is being a mom your always last somehow getting medical attention when it’s needed :/. Today I went and the dentist took pictures of my teeth so I could see just how bad I have been clenching my jaw/grinding my teeth from stress. And listen I feel the pain I feel it’s 8/10 so I have an idea of just how serious this can be but nothing I mean nothing could’ve prepared me for the pictures he showed of my teeth. I have managed to grind down all of my canine teeth they no longer have tips, about three of my teeth have giant stress cracks going down them, I gave myself TMJ, and the enamel is exposed on a few teeth because there are literal holes.
My teeth were fine two years ago and I’m still SO young I just broke down crying because you spend so much time pushing your issues aside to care for others and then one moment someone’s showing you pictures of your destroyed mouth caused by who?? YOU. The feelings I’m feeling, I’m so tired of people telling moms they’re “strong” or “resilient” nah fuck that FUCK THAT. I am a human being I feel pain, I get stressed, I need taken care of and deserve it just as much as any other person. Those pictures that dentist showed me switched something in my brain today and I just wanted to share this because maybe it’ll wake up someone else who’s been living in the dark, like me, laying their whole life and comfort down to care for their family or a spouse. You deserve to put yourself first just as much as anyone else do not be like me do not give yourself literal injuries and create thousands of dollars in medical bills due to stress alone.
My husband is deploying for six months starting in the fall. As soon as we found out last august I got my daughter into a super nice preschool (it took months there was a waitlist) this whole time I’ve had plans to stay here at our house and she’d go to school while he’s gone. My mom paid the deposit because she really wants my daughter to go, it would be the “right” thing for me to do if I stayed and let her go to this school since she’s lucky to have the opportunity and I know this. But something about those pictures of my teeth made me realize maybe I should call the school explain sorry this won’t work, and move in with my amazing supportive brother and sister in law so I don’t lose my mind during the deployment. I just want to spend six months with my family and my kid being a FAMILY. I don’t know I just wish I could do something for myself for once without feeling like I’m messing up everyone else’s idea of life. Does that even make sense?
Edit to add: I am on two different anxiety meds and see a doctor just know I’m trying but there’s only so much that I can do ya know so yeah. Thanks for reading if you did <3
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2023.06.08 21:48 metulburr I want an s22 ultra, but I need an SD card slot. What other high end options are there?
I need expandable storage on my phone. I have 1tb of movies and music that I use for work and I am not paying for the 1tb internal hard drive.
I'm perfectly content with keeping my current model if I can't have an SD card slot. It seems like a dumb idea to not even include it in the newer high end tier models.
I have the a53 5g now. I only want the s22 ultra for the camera.
Will the s series ever get back to ad card slots?
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