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2023.05.29 23:01 Alternative-Fix5164 Yellowstone Security Guard from Hell
So, this was last year 2022, I'm a 31-year-old white man from Eastern USA was given a job as a tour guide driving visitors across Yellowstone National Park. My job is a very serious one as I have to drive buses as I give my visitors a tour of the park. It was a 6-month seasonal position. I am 31-year-old man being given a room at a dormitory in the middle of the wilderness.
I did enjoy my job and exploring the park. For the first time, I got to see wolves, grizzly bears, and bison. It was amazing to see geysers for the first time too. I made a lot of friends as I explored the park.
As a tour guide, I had to get a good amount of sleep, in order to drive a bus full of visitors. But there are employees in the park that are either housekeeper, servers, security guards, retail, and office workers. They did come to the park to party in their dorms and not take their jobs seriously.
But I did.
Anyway, back to the story,
It was 8:30pm, as I got in my bed, there were drunk people in the hallway shouting and blasting music while drinking. I was in bed trying to get some sleep because I had to do a ten-hour tour. from my bed, I shouted at them to quiet down like two times. They eventually did, left the building, and I was able to get to sleep.
30minutes later,
I suddenly woke up with loud pounding at my door. Some guy was shouting "Security!" A security was banging on my dorm door. He was banging so loud as if I committed a crime.
As a person with autism, I freakout at things relating to police or bullies. Sadly, this guy was both.
It was difficult to answer the door because I was not really dressed. I shouted to wait, but that caused him to bang even louder and scream security many times. Panicking, I rushed to get my clothes. The banging of the door and the screaming from the security guard was hurting my ears and I was very frightened.
I told him to wait and stop as I was getting my clothes on, but that made him angrier and more continued to bang on my door harder. Everything was shaking. He was screaming and then switched to a roar. I was panicking as I was trying to get dressed.
I finally got dressed and answer the door. My heart stopped. My legs became Jell-O. I couldn't breathe. All because of what was in front of me.
That security guard was a giant! We will call him Moose. His head nearly touched the ceiling of the hallway. His body was all bulky with extremely thick muscles. His head was bald, typical for a security guard I suppose. He roared that quiet time is at 7pm and roared a warning to be quiet. He even roared at me to answer the door whenever he knocks because he roared that I took too long to answer him. I couldn't speak to him as I was scared out of my mind. I just nodded and said yes sir just so he can go away. He stomped away, out of the building, and I was shaken and teared up.
Long story short, I did not sleep well at all, my tour was not a good one and needed a load of coffee to do my job. Moose was terrifying. He should never have been hired at Yellowstone if he treats people like that.
What a horrifying night.
I told this to my friends the following day. My friend Michael believed that the party goers decided to call on me as a prank because I wanted to sleep, and they did not. I was just wanting to sleep, and they wanted to make my night miserable, which they succeeded. Michael was a former security guard for a hotel before and someone complained to him about a guest being loud. When he got there, there were no loud noises, so he figured that they wanted to get an innocent person in trouble for fun. Which was what happened to me.
So, after that night, I tiptoed into my dorm and make no sound, fearing he would come back. I even make sure my clothes are on before going to bed. I didn't have a roommate yet and eventually did a week later. I just traveled to different buildings to hang out with friends, even got my own roommate who I became best friends with, eat cafeteria food, worked out as I try my best efforts to avoid another confrontation with Moose.
Eventually, he got fired and moved out of Yellowstone and I was able to spend the rest of my season exploring and working as a tour guide.
So, based on my personal experience, AITA?
submitted by Alternative-Fix5164 to EntitledPeople [link] [comments]
I did enjoy my job and exploring the park. For the first time, I got to see wolves, grizzly bears, and bison. It was amazing to see geysers for the first time too. I made a lot of friends as I explored the park.
As a tour guide, I had to get a good amount of sleep, in order to drive a bus full of visitors. But there are employees in the park that are either housekeeper, servers, security guards, retail, and office workers. They did come to the park to party in their dorms and not take their jobs seriously.
But I did.
Anyway, back to the story,
It was 8:30pm, as I got in my bed, there were drunk people in the hallway shouting and blasting music while drinking. I was in bed trying to get some sleep because I had to do a ten-hour tour. from my bed, I shouted at them to quiet down like two times. They eventually did, left the building, and I was able to get to sleep.
30minutes later,
I suddenly woke up with loud pounding at my door. Some guy was shouting "Security!" A security was banging on my dorm door. He was banging so loud as if I committed a crime.
As a person with autism, I freakout at things relating to police or bullies. Sadly, this guy was both.
It was difficult to answer the door because I was not really dressed. I shouted to wait, but that caused him to bang even louder and scream security many times. Panicking, I rushed to get my clothes. The banging of the door and the screaming from the security guard was hurting my ears and I was very frightened.
I told him to wait and stop as I was getting my clothes on, but that made him angrier and more continued to bang on my door harder. Everything was shaking. He was screaming and then switched to a roar. I was panicking as I was trying to get dressed.
I finally got dressed and answer the door. My heart stopped. My legs became Jell-O. I couldn't breathe. All because of what was in front of me.
That security guard was a giant! We will call him Moose. His head nearly touched the ceiling of the hallway. His body was all bulky with extremely thick muscles. His head was bald, typical for a security guard I suppose. He roared that quiet time is at 7pm and roared a warning to be quiet. He even roared at me to answer the door whenever he knocks because he roared that I took too long to answer him. I couldn't speak to him as I was scared out of my mind. I just nodded and said yes sir just so he can go away. He stomped away, out of the building, and I was shaken and teared up.
Long story short, I did not sleep well at all, my tour was not a good one and needed a load of coffee to do my job. Moose was terrifying. He should never have been hired at Yellowstone if he treats people like that.
What a horrifying night.
I told this to my friends the following day. My friend Michael believed that the party goers decided to call on me as a prank because I wanted to sleep, and they did not. I was just wanting to sleep, and they wanted to make my night miserable, which they succeeded. Michael was a former security guard for a hotel before and someone complained to him about a guest being loud. When he got there, there were no loud noises, so he figured that they wanted to get an innocent person in trouble for fun. Which was what happened to me.
So, after that night, I tiptoed into my dorm and make no sound, fearing he would come back. I even make sure my clothes are on before going to bed. I didn't have a roommate yet and eventually did a week later. I just traveled to different buildings to hang out with friends, even got my own roommate who I became best friends with, eat cafeteria food, worked out as I try my best efforts to avoid another confrontation with Moose.
Eventually, he got fired and moved out of Yellowstone and I was able to spend the rest of my season exploring and working as a tour guide.
So, based on my personal experience, AITA?
2023.05.29 23:01 Frosty6700 Exotic ciphers are not common enough to warrant use in exotic focusing
Ignoring how expensive it is with the other components and the relatively low stats people have seen, exotic ciphers are nowhere near close enough to being found enough to be needed in the focusing.
You get however many in the season pass, which is every 3 months, rahool having like 1 a season if you have the year’s season pass, and then you can get an arduous quest from Xur each week that takes too long.
This is all keeping in mind that all newer players will want to use them on weapons in the exotic kiosk. While veterans can use them on the exotic focusing (like me), after you use up the ones in the season pass, you have to wait till Xur comes around and do a long quest for just 1.
There needs to be other ways to earn these, such as nightfalls having a rare chance to drop them and so on, just like ascendent shards and prisms do now.
Hell, ascendent shards are so common in a lot of places I feel like some of those could be replaced with the ciphers as I personally find myself deleting one out of my inventory every time I need to first rank up in the respective ritual vendor l, but I guess that’s more a problem of there being caps on materials.
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You get however many in the season pass, which is every 3 months, rahool having like 1 a season if you have the year’s season pass, and then you can get an arduous quest from Xur each week that takes too long.
This is all keeping in mind that all newer players will want to use them on weapons in the exotic kiosk. While veterans can use them on the exotic focusing (like me), after you use up the ones in the season pass, you have to wait till Xur comes around and do a long quest for just 1.
There needs to be other ways to earn these, such as nightfalls having a rare chance to drop them and so on, just like ascendent shards and prisms do now.
Hell, ascendent shards are so common in a lot of places I feel like some of those could be replaced with the ciphers as I personally find myself deleting one out of my inventory every time I need to first rank up in the respective ritual vendor l, but I guess that’s more a problem of there being caps on materials.
2023.05.29 23:00 hypervigilante7 Home renovations
Somewhat venting, somewhat seeking advice. Husband (28M) and I (27F) bought a semi-fixer—nothing foundational, utilities are ok, but wall and floor coverings, faucets, fixtures all need updating. We have been doing it all ourselves, since my husband has been working in construction for a few years now. Tensions run high sometimes mid-project, and unequal workloads for certain projects have caused a few fights, but nothing that has carried over into the next day. Until now 😅
My husband was really pushing replacing our trim, I was firm on wanting to refinish the original trim. We couldn’t agree, so we tabled the conversation, to be revisited after some more progress had been made with other things. About a month ago, my husband and his cousin had an unexpected materials delay for a framing job, so they replaced ~400 sq ft of flooring in our living room and hallway to bedrooms/bathroom while I was at work. Awesome! But I came home to the finished product and there was no trim. It had all been thrown away. Husband said there were concerns about salvageability during removal, but mostly, going from high pile carpet to LVP made it not feasible to keep the old stuff, that it just wouldn’t work well. I accepted this, said we’d figure it out, being without trim for a while wouldn’t kill me. I thought I had communicated fairly clearly that I did NOT want to move forward with buying/installing new trim yet, while I figured out how to recalibrate my ~vision~. Came home the next day to 75% of the new trim installed and I HATE it. I hate the shape, I hate the size, I hate the amount of overhang the top piece above our doorways has. I have cried over it multiple times. Tried to drop it after expressing my feelings as calmly as I could, and move on and find ways to work it into my plans, since it’s paid for and installed.
Fast-forward to today. My husband’s cousin damaged a piece of our wood paneling that we are going to paint while removing the old trim. I was told it would be repaired or replaced. Today I was told that’s not an option, that it will have to be covered with trim. This is a floor-to-ceiling opening affected, not an actual doorway. So the trim will run floor-to-ceiling in this one spot in the entire room. This huge, chunky, flat, boring, pseudo-modern trim that I hate, now cutting off our nice, open entryway into our kitchen on one side (cabinets on the other). And it looks SO. FUCKING. STUPID.
So I had the blow-up I managed to hold back a month ago, told him with all the drama I could muster how much I hate the trim and how I feel about decisions being made about our home, funded by our finances, without my involvement… He twisted it into an attack on him, his tastes, his skills and abilities. I told him I need to be alone for a few hours and stop talking about it. I’m sitting in the bedroom crying over the trim again, while I listen to him install this last piece from floor to ceiling that we just fought over.
I feel like the trim itself is a lost cause at this point, which makes me feel really shitty because this is my home, too, and not only do I hate it visually, but it’s a physical reminder of the way I was steamrolled here. I just don’t really know where to go from here. I feel like he doesn’t understand how I’m feeling at ALL, or why this was so upsetting, and I’m out of ways to try to communicate it. Or maybe it’s a “forgiveness is better than permission” strategy to get what he wants? I am still just gobsmacked that everything played out like this despite my attempts to get him to hit the brakes and allow me to be involved.
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My husband was really pushing replacing our trim, I was firm on wanting to refinish the original trim. We couldn’t agree, so we tabled the conversation, to be revisited after some more progress had been made with other things. About a month ago, my husband and his cousin had an unexpected materials delay for a framing job, so they replaced ~400 sq ft of flooring in our living room and hallway to bedrooms/bathroom while I was at work. Awesome! But I came home to the finished product and there was no trim. It had all been thrown away. Husband said there were concerns about salvageability during removal, but mostly, going from high pile carpet to LVP made it not feasible to keep the old stuff, that it just wouldn’t work well. I accepted this, said we’d figure it out, being without trim for a while wouldn’t kill me. I thought I had communicated fairly clearly that I did NOT want to move forward with buying/installing new trim yet, while I figured out how to recalibrate my ~vision~. Came home the next day to 75% of the new trim installed and I HATE it. I hate the shape, I hate the size, I hate the amount of overhang the top piece above our doorways has. I have cried over it multiple times. Tried to drop it after expressing my feelings as calmly as I could, and move on and find ways to work it into my plans, since it’s paid for and installed.
Fast-forward to today. My husband’s cousin damaged a piece of our wood paneling that we are going to paint while removing the old trim. I was told it would be repaired or replaced. Today I was told that’s not an option, that it will have to be covered with trim. This is a floor-to-ceiling opening affected, not an actual doorway. So the trim will run floor-to-ceiling in this one spot in the entire room. This huge, chunky, flat, boring, pseudo-modern trim that I hate, now cutting off our nice, open entryway into our kitchen on one side (cabinets on the other). And it looks SO. FUCKING. STUPID.
So I had the blow-up I managed to hold back a month ago, told him with all the drama I could muster how much I hate the trim and how I feel about decisions being made about our home, funded by our finances, without my involvement… He twisted it into an attack on him, his tastes, his skills and abilities. I told him I need to be alone for a few hours and stop talking about it. I’m sitting in the bedroom crying over the trim again, while I listen to him install this last piece from floor to ceiling that we just fought over.
I feel like the trim itself is a lost cause at this point, which makes me feel really shitty because this is my home, too, and not only do I hate it visually, but it’s a physical reminder of the way I was steamrolled here. I just don’t really know where to go from here. I feel like he doesn’t understand how I’m feeling at ALL, or why this was so upsetting, and I’m out of ways to try to communicate it. Or maybe it’s a “forgiveness is better than permission” strategy to get what he wants? I am still just gobsmacked that everything played out like this despite my attempts to get him to hit the brakes and allow me to be involved.
2023.05.29 23:00 screwyoushadowban Question about the preference between accuracy & convenience for game purposes: experimental build 2023-05-28-0119 / PR 2896
When it comes to real life objects is keeping their in-game names consistent (and therefore more legible and convenient for players/devs) or is keeping their in-game names accurate to real-life more important?
The PR mentioned in the title changes the names of the HK416/417 rifles to the H&K416, H&K417, etc. The PR says this is for consistency and to correct "typos".
There's a bit of a problem here: the original names (HK416, HK417) weren't typos. Those were their actual model names. The full name of the 416 is "Heckler & Koch HK416", or if you prefer "H & K HK416". Silly, I know, but I'm not a German marketing guy.
So if the goal is accuracy to real-life objects PR 2896 doesn't do that, it actually does the exact opposite. But if the goal is consistency for gamey purposes or dev purposes it works quite well: for my own curiosity purposes digging through the code or through debug item lists I've certainly noticed the mild annoyance of having to search for both the 'HK' (for the 416/417 series) and 'H&K' (for the MP5, MP7, the imaginary G80, etc.) strings. So what's preferred?
~
On a mild tangent, I'm curious as to whether the HK416 is really necessary, and this is coming from a nerd who normally always wants MOAR GUNZ. It's not commonly issued in the US Army and the Marines instead use the M27 IAR, a heavy 16" barrel version of the HK416 and which is also in the game. The HK416 & M27's in-game stats, are nearly identical. Their volume in particular is identical which leads me to believe the HK416's stats are also based on the 16" barrel model.
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The PR mentioned in the title changes the names of the HK416/417 rifles to the H&K416, H&K417, etc. The PR says this is for consistency and to correct "typos".
There's a bit of a problem here: the original names (HK416, HK417) weren't typos. Those were their actual model names. The full name of the 416 is "Heckler & Koch HK416", or if you prefer "H & K HK416". Silly, I know, but I'm not a German marketing guy.
So if the goal is accuracy to real-life objects PR 2896 doesn't do that, it actually does the exact opposite. But if the goal is consistency for gamey purposes or dev purposes it works quite well: for my own curiosity purposes digging through the code or through debug item lists I've certainly noticed the mild annoyance of having to search for both the 'HK' (for the 416/417 series) and 'H&K' (for the MP5, MP7, the imaginary G80, etc.) strings. So what's preferred?
~
On a mild tangent, I'm curious as to whether the HK416 is really necessary, and this is coming from a nerd who normally always wants MOAR GUNZ. It's not commonly issued in the US Army and the Marines instead use the M27 IAR, a heavy 16" barrel version of the HK416 and which is also in the game. The HK416 & M27's in-game stats, are nearly identical. Their volume in particular is identical which leads me to believe the HK416's stats are also based on the 16" barrel model.
2023.05.29 23:00 SixFootThreeMystery How in the seven rings of Hell do I kill this f****** thing?!
 | So I was just trying to make my way through the story and I came across this absolute asswipe: submitted by SixFootThreeMystery to shadowofmordor [link] [comments] https://preview.redd.it/ztjca9dlkv2b1.jpg?width=1920&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=487bdfb657f1838879763f48054eec075cf70b11 He is invulnerable to pretty much every form of aggression, does not seem to get hurt by anything I have, can kill every monster I can mount within seconds, nearly one-shots me with a single attack (whether it's ranged or melee), cannot be cheese-killed (e.g. throwing off a ledge, one huge grog explosion, etc) and, best of all, no Last Chances against him. I have been trying for the past three hours to kill this thing with no avail. PLEASE HELP! |
2023.05.29 23:00 Hadeys High Fantasy World Building
Hey, here's a little about me before anything - I live in CET Timezone. I work 7 days a week albeit on my own schedule but irl takes priority, I'll communicate it if I have to be away. I've nearly 8 years of experience across various platforms and games. I normally write multi para (discord limit more or less). I'm a HUGE fan of world building especially with reference images. And I do enjoy good OOC banter once in awhile.
Onto business - I'm currently looking for a long term rp partner, someone I can build a world with from scratch preferably in a fantasy medieval setting (settings like GoT, Witcher, World of Warcraft, LoTR etc) with different cities, towns, fantasy races, creatures, perhaps even our own deities to even much grander scales. I'm looking to write a story, not a one time scene. Themes I'm expecting to be involved can range from very light hearted SOL to potentially dark, so we'll tread with what we both are comfortable with. In terms of what kind of plot I'm looking for, I'd love to discuss this with you when we get to talking, something we both agree, but to help out with that, here are some ideas that could get our brain juices flowing:
Revenge arc
Insurrection / Rebellion
Zero to Hero
Enemies to lovers
Forbidden Fruit
Rise and fall
Enemies to lovers
I'm very very open to discussion, feel free to come with ideas anytime.
I'm very willing to play multiple characters like npc's and such alongside my OC(s), while I would prefer if you could do that, it's not a requirement. I also write in 3rd person (and you have to too). I'm 22 years old and I'd prefer to rp with someone around my age, 18+ only.
That's kind of that for now I guess? Thanks for reading through, I'd love to get in touch with you if this piques your interest. Send me a DM with a short intro about yourself and your favorite snack so I know you've read everything, see you there!
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Onto business - I'm currently looking for a long term rp partner, someone I can build a world with from scratch preferably in a fantasy medieval setting (settings like GoT, Witcher, World of Warcraft, LoTR etc) with different cities, towns, fantasy races, creatures, perhaps even our own deities to even much grander scales. I'm looking to write a story, not a one time scene. Themes I'm expecting to be involved can range from very light hearted SOL to potentially dark, so we'll tread with what we both are comfortable with. In terms of what kind of plot I'm looking for, I'd love to discuss this with you when we get to talking, something we both agree, but to help out with that, here are some ideas that could get our brain juices flowing:
Revenge arc
Insurrection / Rebellion
Zero to Hero
Enemies to lovers
Forbidden Fruit
Rise and fall
Enemies to lovers
I'm very very open to discussion, feel free to come with ideas anytime.
I'm very willing to play multiple characters like npc's and such alongside my OC(s), while I would prefer if you could do that, it's not a requirement. I also write in 3rd person (and you have to too). I'm 22 years old and I'd prefer to rp with someone around my age, 18+ only.
That's kind of that for now I guess? Thanks for reading through, I'd love to get in touch with you if this piques your interest. Send me a DM with a short intro about yourself and your favorite snack so I know you've read everything, see you there!
2023.05.29 22:59 Hadeys High Fantasy World Building
Hey, here's a little about me before anything - I live in CET Timezone. I work 7 days a week albeit on my own schedule but irl takes priority, I'll communicate it if I have to be away. I've nearly 8 years of experience across various platforms and games. I normally write multi para (discord limit more or less). I'm a HUGE fan of world building especially with reference images. And I do enjoy good OOC banter once in awhile.
Onto business - I'm currently looking for a long term rp partner, someone I can build a world with from scratch preferably in a fantasy medieval setting (settings like GoT, Witcher, World of Warcraft, LoTR etc) with different cities, towns, fantasy races, creatures, perhaps even our own deities to even much grander scales. I'm looking to write a story, not a one time scene. Themes I'm expecting to be involved can range from very light hearted SOL to potentially dark, so we'll tread with what we both are comfortable with. In terms of what kind of plot I'm looking for, I'd love to discuss this with you when we get to talking, something we both agree, but to help out with that, here are some ideas that could get our brain juices flowing:
Revenge arc
Insurrection / Rebellion
Zero to Hero
Enemies to lovers
Forbidden Fruit
Rise and fall
Enemies to lovers
I'm very very open to discussion, feel free to come with ideas anytime.
I'm very willing to play multiple characters like npc's and such alongside my OC(s), while I would prefer if you could do that, it's not a requirement. I also write in 3rd person (and you have to too). I'm 22 years old and I'd prefer to rp with someone around my age, 18+ only.
That's kind of that for now I guess? Thanks for reading through, I'd love to get in touch with you if this piques your interest. Send me a DM with a short intro about yourself and your favorite snack so I know you've read everything, see you there!
submitted by Hadeys to RoleplayPartnerSearch [link] [comments]
Onto business - I'm currently looking for a long term rp partner, someone I can build a world with from scratch preferably in a fantasy medieval setting (settings like GoT, Witcher, World of Warcraft, LoTR etc) with different cities, towns, fantasy races, creatures, perhaps even our own deities to even much grander scales. I'm looking to write a story, not a one time scene. Themes I'm expecting to be involved can range from very light hearted SOL to potentially dark, so we'll tread with what we both are comfortable with. In terms of what kind of plot I'm looking for, I'd love to discuss this with you when we get to talking, something we both agree, but to help out with that, here are some ideas that could get our brain juices flowing:
Revenge arc
Insurrection / Rebellion
Zero to Hero
Enemies to lovers
Forbidden Fruit
Rise and fall
Enemies to lovers
I'm very very open to discussion, feel free to come with ideas anytime.
I'm very willing to play multiple characters like npc's and such alongside my OC(s), while I would prefer if you could do that, it's not a requirement. I also write in 3rd person (and you have to too). I'm 22 years old and I'd prefer to rp with someone around my age, 18+ only.
That's kind of that for now I guess? Thanks for reading through, I'd love to get in touch with you if this piques your interest. Send me a DM with a short intro about yourself and your favorite snack so I know you've read everything, see you there!
2023.05.29 22:59 tylercoder Which are the best most resilient button switches for a M570?
Tired of buying new ones because of ghost doubleclicks and besides my last one its practically new, I swear every year logi puts even crappier switches. I have used nobrand mice with better buttons than my last M570.
I can't solder and looking for someone near me that can replace all the switches on my M570s, but first I need to know which switches are the best, that is the most reliable and less likely to fail since I don't want to have to go thru this for a while.
I was going to use the Omron ones but I seen users here choosing other brands and models, which one is better for reliability?
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I can't solder and looking for someone near me that can replace all the switches on my M570s, but first I need to know which switches are the best, that is the most reliable and less likely to fail since I don't want to have to go thru this for a while.
I was going to use the Omron ones but I seen users here choosing other brands and models, which one is better for reliability?
2023.05.29 22:59 Telemarketeer What to expect from desktop support role?
I have a year experience as level 1 help desk at an MSP.
I interviewed for a desktop support position and was hired. The person interviewing me did not ask any technical questions at all.
I am replacing the last guy who worked this position and I would be the only “IT guy” on staff. It seems like they have one guy doing everything for the company. They have a server room and I’m scared to even go near it as I have no experience.
I can troubleshoot hardware and software issues. I have basic experience creating and managing users, groups, permissions on AD. Basic experience managing email accounts on Microsoft 365. I have never deployed a workstation as that wasn’t part of my job at the last place.
What should my biggest fears be, so I know what to start teaching myself?
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I interviewed for a desktop support position and was hired. The person interviewing me did not ask any technical questions at all.
I am replacing the last guy who worked this position and I would be the only “IT guy” on staff. It seems like they have one guy doing everything for the company. They have a server room and I’m scared to even go near it as I have no experience.
I can troubleshoot hardware and software issues. I have basic experience creating and managing users, groups, permissions on AD. Basic experience managing email accounts on Microsoft 365. I have never deployed a workstation as that wasn’t part of my job at the last place.
What should my biggest fears be, so I know what to start teaching myself?
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Dengeki Daisy 1-7, 9, 12-16: $200
Jojo's P1 (1-3) + P2 (1-2) + P3 (1) + P4 (1-2) + P5 (1): $110
Murcielago 1-10: $100 new
Boruto 1-15: $85 new
Komi Can't Communicate 1-13: $75
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SMALL/CHEAP SETS (these are priced cheaper and can only be purchased in an order totaling atleast $75)
Attack on Titan 1-12: $50
Hellsing Singles 1-7: $50
Gigant 1-6: $50
Blue Flag 1-7: $50
Crimson Spell 1-6: $50
Whisper Me a Love Song 1-5: $40
Kaiju Girl Carmelise 1-5: $40
Black Torch 1-5 COMPLETE: $33
School Frozen in Time 1-4 COMPLETE: $33
Vinland Saga 1,2: $24
Spy x Family 1-4: $24
Citrus 1-3 (singles): $15
How Do We Relationship 1-4: $20
Attack on Titan Before the Fall 1-5: $20
FMA Omni 1-2 (vol 1-6): $15
My Hero Academia 1-4: $15
Claymore 1,3: $10
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SINGLES (These are priced cheaper and can only be purchased in an order totaling atleast $75)
Dog Ningen Uncensored 1: $20
$8
Ultraman 1 / Hell's Paradise 1 / Shaman Warrior 1 / Kingdom of the Gods / A Girl on the Shore /
$4
Kaguya-Sama 1 / Bakuman 1 / Black Clover 1 / Samurai 8 1 / Kakegurui Twin 4 / Black Butler 16 /
I also have Demon Slayer mini figures, Soul Eater Liz Funko, Lucario Funko, AOT/Fairy Tail Anime Expo Bags if anyone is interested
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If you are interested in anything, feel free to ask for more photos or details.
I will prioritize making larger sales.
I will only add the smaller sets/singles to a larger purchase.
Please comment and PM any interest.
THANK YOU!
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Please comment if interested in anything, some prices are negotiable, feel free to offer!
I would consider shipping international
Most volumes are in great condition, will specify if not
All orders shipped the same day or next
Some volumes shown in photos have been sold in previous listings, only volumes listed below are available
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COMPLETE SETS
Flame of Recca 1-33 COMPLETE: $800
Jojo's Parts 1,2,3 COMPLETE (17 books): $230
Fullmetal Alchemist 3-in-1 Omnibus 1-27 COMPLETE: $110
Promised Neverland 1-20 + Beyond COMPLETE: $110
Junji Ito Lot (7 series): $100
Perfect World 1-12 COMPLETE: $90
After The Rain 1-5 COMPLETE: $60
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LARGE SETS
Dengeki Daisy 1-7, 9, 12-16: $200
Jojo's P1 (1-3) + P2 (1-2) + P3 (1) + P4 (1-2) + P5 (1): $110
Murcielago 1-10: $100 new
Boruto 1-15: $85 new
Komi Can't Communicate 1-13: $75
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SMALL/CHEAP SETS (these are priced cheaper and can only be purchased in an order totaling atleast $75)
Attack on Titan 1-12: $50
Hellsing Singles 1-7: $50
Gigant 1-6: $50
Blue Flag 1-7: $50
Crimson Spell 1-6: $50
Whisper Me a Love Song 1-5: $40
Kaiju Girl Carmelise 1-5: $40
Black Torch 1-5 COMPLETE: $33
School Frozen in Time 1-4 COMPLETE: $33
Vinland Saga 1,2: $24
Spy x Family 1-4: $24
Citrus 1-3 (singles): $15
How Do We Relationship 1-4: $20
Attack on Titan Before the Fall 1-5: $20
FMA Omni 1-2 (vol 1-6): $15
My Hero Academia 1-4: $15
Claymore 1,3: $10
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SINGLES (These are priced cheaper and can only be purchased in an order totaling atleast $75)
Dog Ningen Uncensored 1: $20
$8
Ultraman 1 / Hell's Paradise 1 / Shaman Warrior 1 / Kingdom of the Gods / A Girl on the Shore /
$4
Kaguya-Sama 1 / Bakuman 1 / Black Clover 1 / Samurai 8 1 / Kakegurui Twin 4 / Black Butler 16 /
I also have Demon Slayer mini figures, Soul Eater Liz Funko, Lucario Funko, AOT/Fairy Tail Anime Expo Bags if anyone is interested
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If you are interested in anything, feel free to ask for more photos or details.
I will prioritize making larger sales.
I will only add the smaller sets/singles to a larger purchase.
Please comment and PM any interest.
THANK YOU!
2023.05.29 22:58 Hadeys [M4F] High Fantasy World Building
Hey, here's a little about me before anything - I live in CET Timezone. I work 7 days a week albeit on my own schedule but irl takes priority, I'll communicate it if I have to be away. I've nearly 8 years of experience across various platforms and games. I normally write multi para (discord limit more or less). I'm a HUGE fan of world building especially with reference images. And I do enjoy good OOC banter once in awhile.
Onto business - I'm currently looking for a long term rp partner, someone I can build a world with from scratch preferably in a fantasy medieval setting (settings like GoT, Witcher, World of Warcraft, LoTR etc) with different cities, towns, fantasy races, creatures, perhaps even our own deities to even much grander scales. I'm looking to write a story, not a one time scene. Themes I'm expecting to be involved can range from very light hearted SOL to potentially dark, so we'll tread with what we both are comfortable with. In terms of what kind of plot I'm looking for, I'd love to discuss this with you when we get to talking, something we both agree, but to help out with that, here are some ideas that could get our brain juices flowing:
Revenge arc
Insurrection / Rebellion
Zero to Hero
Enemies to lovers
Forbidden Fruit
Rise and fall
Enemies to lovers
I'm very very open to discussion, feel free to come with ideas anytime.
I'm very willing to play multiple characters like npc's and such alongside my OC(s), while I would prefer if you could do that, it's not a requirement. I also write in 3rd person (and you have to too). I'm 22 years old and I'd prefer to rp with someone around my age, 18+ only.
That's kind of that for now I guess? Thanks for reading through, I'd love to get in touch with you if this piques your interest. Send me a DM with a short intro about yourself and your favorite snack so I know you've read everything, see you there!
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Onto business - I'm currently looking for a long term rp partner, someone I can build a world with from scratch preferably in a fantasy medieval setting (settings like GoT, Witcher, World of Warcraft, LoTR etc) with different cities, towns, fantasy races, creatures, perhaps even our own deities to even much grander scales. I'm looking to write a story, not a one time scene. Themes I'm expecting to be involved can range from very light hearted SOL to potentially dark, so we'll tread with what we both are comfortable with. In terms of what kind of plot I'm looking for, I'd love to discuss this with you when we get to talking, something we both agree, but to help out with that, here are some ideas that could get our brain juices flowing:
Revenge arc
Insurrection / Rebellion
Zero to Hero
Enemies to lovers
Forbidden Fruit
Rise and fall
Enemies to lovers
I'm very very open to discussion, feel free to come with ideas anytime.
I'm very willing to play multiple characters like npc's and such alongside my OC(s), while I would prefer if you could do that, it's not a requirement. I also write in 3rd person (and you have to too). I'm 22 years old and I'd prefer to rp with someone around my age, 18+ only.
That's kind of that for now I guess? Thanks for reading through, I'd love to get in touch with you if this piques your interest. Send me a DM with a short intro about yourself and your favorite snack so I know you've read everything, see you there!
2023.05.29 22:58 FandomFeminist I just watch all of Lower Decks in two days
This series was so good! I loved nearly every minute of it. I couldn’t stop watching. This is the type of Star Trek show for me.
Don’t get me wrong I liked other Star Trek shows like TNG and DS9, but they never clicked for me. It took me from the beginning of 2020 to just a few weeks ago to watch from the beginning or TNG to the end of DS9. I just could not bring myself to watch more than 2 or 3 episodes a week. I just felt a little bored at times. Don’t get me wrong, I liked the shows. I thought most of the characters were really well written most of the time. I just don’t think those shows were made for me.
But Lower Decks is the perfect Star Trek show for me. I absolutely adore this show. I love all the characters. I love their camaraderie and friendship the main 4 have. I love the look at Starfleet though a different lens. I love the animation. It’s just so good! I can’t wait for the next season!
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Don’t get me wrong I liked other Star Trek shows like TNG and DS9, but they never clicked for me. It took me from the beginning of 2020 to just a few weeks ago to watch from the beginning or TNG to the end of DS9. I just could not bring myself to watch more than 2 or 3 episodes a week. I just felt a little bored at times. Don’t get me wrong, I liked the shows. I thought most of the characters were really well written most of the time. I just don’t think those shows were made for me.
But Lower Decks is the perfect Star Trek show for me. I absolutely adore this show. I love all the characters. I love their camaraderie and friendship the main 4 have. I love the look at Starfleet though a different lens. I love the animation. It’s just so good! I can’t wait for the next season!
2023.05.29 22:58 luscious_me02 This is why ghosting is still a thing...
So, I put an ad out and got a pretty decent response. I know this sounds like the best possibility...but it's also very overwhelming. Trying to have a conversation with multiple people can be draining. At some point in time, you have to weed people out. It's just what happens, right?
Numerous times, when I've tried to be respectful and say, "Hey, I enjoyed chatting with you, but...{you're too young, you're too old, we're located too far away from each other, the timezones don't match, you're not my type, etc.}. I wish you the best in finding what you're looking for."
They then respond with some smart-ass comment and block me. For what reason? You can't ask us to not ghost and then get offended when we want to end things. You can't have both.
I know not everyone handles things this way, but I just needed to vent for a second.
I understand it's not my job to make people happy all the time. It's my job to stick to my morals, which include being authentic and upfront. But this is why people ghost. Because it's the internet and some people are not mature and ruin it for the rest of us.
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Numerous times, when I've tried to be respectful and say, "Hey, I enjoyed chatting with you, but...{you're too young, you're too old, we're located too far away from each other, the timezones don't match, you're not my type, etc.}. I wish you the best in finding what you're looking for."
They then respond with some smart-ass comment and block me. For what reason? You can't ask us to not ghost and then get offended when we want to end things. You can't have both.
I know not everyone handles things this way, but I just needed to vent for a second.
I understand it's not my job to make people happy all the time. It's my job to stick to my morals, which include being authentic and upfront. But this is why people ghost. Because it's the internet and some people are not mature and ruin it for the rest of us.
2023.05.29 22:56 DevilBlade69 The cost for trains is taking the fucking piss
I (17) am trying to get to London Dungeon with my 13 yr old brother but my dad can't drive us by car because the parking is too expensive. I am trying to get the train but most of them cost nearly 30 FUCKING POUNDS!!!!!! ( Even going from Earley to London Waterloo since I live in Lower Earley.) I don't even know how to get there. And fuck me the trains system in this country is so fucked up now.
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2023.05.29 22:55 The-hippy_hobbit Are charter schools worth it?
I’ll be receiving my credential next month and have been trying to apply to schools. Having a bit of a hard time finding openings near me apart from charter schools. While I don’t know a whole lot about them I have heard that they may not be worth it due to sometimes lower pay, no unions, etc. As a first year teacher should I avoid trying to apply for charter schools?
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2023.05.29 22:55 INFINITEBLOWER What. The. Fuck.
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2023.05.29 22:54 BaDeyy How moist is your ash/your weed?
So, I've been taking a THC break for about 2 months now. However, I recently got some CBD for the first time because I wanted to try it out. I immediately noticed how dry the weed was when I unpacked it, and it wasn't sticky at all.
Unfortunately, while smoking (via joint), I got a bit of ash on my white hoodie. When cleaning it up, I realized that the ash didn't smear at all and left almost no traces. That always has happened to me with my usual (THC-containing) weed. So, it made me wonder: Is my weed usually too moist and poorly cured?
The "dry" CBD actually felt dry when in my hand, but smoking it was quite pleasant and didn't cause any irritation or scratching.
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Unfortunately, while smoking (via joint), I got a bit of ash on my white hoodie. When cleaning it up, I realized that the ash didn't smear at all and left almost no traces. That always has happened to me with my usual (THC-containing) weed. So, it made me wonder: Is my weed usually too moist and poorly cured?
The "dry" CBD actually felt dry when in my hand, but smoking it was quite pleasant and didn't cause any irritation or scratching.
2023.05.29 22:54 External_Rock9422 I'm (37m) confused in my wife (34f) and I's marriage.
I'll keep it is brief as I can for a 15 year relationship. A small bit of background: i come from a broken home - parents divorced when I was around 4, both remarried and divorced again as I grew into adulthood. Wife's parents have been married since before she was born, middle class upbringing, some family trauma with close relatives. We both suffer from varying degrees of depression, and she also has a clinically diagnosed anxiety disorder.
The last several (≈5 years) have been tough. Early on in our relationship I was unfaithful in that I had sought out other women online and had several conversations that were not in line with our monogamous relationship terms. I broke the trust and I live with that fact daily. Fast forward to 2018 - my wife befriended a woman who is married to a family friend. I've known this woman's husband since we were kids, and he's a good guy overall IMHO. His wife, my wife's new friend, is quite flirty with anyone in her life from what I had seen. I had to leave town for about a month for a work project (construction). I noticed my wife was tagged/tagging herself with this woman on FB nearly every day I was gone . I asked her point blank via phone if there was anything going on with their relationship, to which she said no. I trust my wife, as she has never shown signs of being unfaithful and is usually a brutally honest person.
I came back from my work trip and something felt off. For the first time in all of the years we had been together, I was compelled to look at her phone. I found screenshots of my wife and this woman's Snapchat conversation, very descriptively detailing their sexual interaction, and my wife confessing how much she enjoyed the experience. At this point I woke up my wife and confronted her about it - pretty much no response, then a solemn "I fucked up" was all she could say.
We have been in and out of marital therapy throughout our relationship. I suggested we find a counselor to help us with the situation, and she begrudgingly agreed. First counselor was a man who happened to be a sex counselor as well (not why I chose him, but a point that my wife latched onto), and she was standoffish and not motivated to put in the work that our counselor was asking us to to. His therapy largely revolved around Gottman's principles, which made sense to me. We went to him for the better part of a year, in which we made some progress but nothing that really healed our relationship.
We have been back in therapy for the better part of a year now, this time with a counselor or her choice. I am 100% committed to our relationship, and am consciously putting in the work to try and prove that I'm here for her. I am the primary bread winner for our family, and recently found out that she had almost $20k in credit card debt from last summer - we separated at her request for approximately 4 months. I did not want to separate, but she did so after much back and forth, I moved into a relatives extra room for the summer. My wife had the house, and we rotated the kids on a schedule that worked for us. With me being the primary income source, I wasn't going to just bend over and let her spend my income however she chose, so I changed all of our auto payments onto a card in my name and told her that groceries would be paid for. I agreed to budget 300 a month for fuel to get the kids to/from their things, and anything additional she needed to come up with. I paid for the car payment, insurance, kids items and activities, her gym membership, etc. My income pays for our commitments with nothing substantial left over, so there was no personal gain for me. I really don't care what the charges are for, so once I found out about the debt, I transferred most of it to an interest free card to be able to make payments reducing the balance without incurring interest charges.
Since coming back together, it's just tumultuous most of the time. It seems like anything I do, it's always wrong. If I clean a bathroom, I should have cleaned the kitchen and she is furious that I don't automatically know what I should be prioritizing. If I give the kids instructions and she doesn't agree, she will outright call the suggestion stupid and tell the kids to do something of her choosing. I've been called a narcissist by her more times than I can count; so much so that I had to ask my own counselor if I would be considered one to which she says 'absolutely not'.
Our typical interaction is short. She often rolls her eyes and scoffs at anything that I say that she doesn't agree with. Often times our conversations start out ok, then by the end she is making several contemptuous statements like "you always", "all of you" etc. During therapy she is visibly confrontational, often replies with "I don't know" to any number of questions our counselor asks. Our counselor has asked her "do you want to be in this relationship?" To which she replies "yeah if things change", but won't fully explain what needs to change. I could be as nice and sweet and try to do something nice for her, just to be met with a cold shoulder. Other days it's well received and noticed.
I am a very patient person most of the time, but I'm at my wits end. I feel like I'm living a means to an end with someone who doesn't value what we've developed together. I don't know where I stand day to day, I don't know if I should trust her, I don't know if I should give this time or start moving towards ending this. I love my wife, but I can't continue to get treated like a pile of 💩 and still provide everything just to not have anything left over for myself. I'm working a full time 6 figure job, and have a side business that I started just to add some income to help payoff the credit card debt. This leaves me literally 2-3 hours per night to spend with my kids, most of the time consumed with making dinner and getting the kids ready for the next day.
Recommendations? Advice?
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The last several (≈5 years) have been tough. Early on in our relationship I was unfaithful in that I had sought out other women online and had several conversations that were not in line with our monogamous relationship terms. I broke the trust and I live with that fact daily. Fast forward to 2018 - my wife befriended a woman who is married to a family friend. I've known this woman's husband since we were kids, and he's a good guy overall IMHO. His wife, my wife's new friend, is quite flirty with anyone in her life from what I had seen. I had to leave town for about a month for a work project (construction). I noticed my wife was tagged/tagging herself with this woman on FB nearly every day I was gone . I asked her point blank via phone if there was anything going on with their relationship, to which she said no. I trust my wife, as she has never shown signs of being unfaithful and is usually a brutally honest person.
I came back from my work trip and something felt off. For the first time in all of the years we had been together, I was compelled to look at her phone. I found screenshots of my wife and this woman's Snapchat conversation, very descriptively detailing their sexual interaction, and my wife confessing how much she enjoyed the experience. At this point I woke up my wife and confronted her about it - pretty much no response, then a solemn "I fucked up" was all she could say.
We have been in and out of marital therapy throughout our relationship. I suggested we find a counselor to help us with the situation, and she begrudgingly agreed. First counselor was a man who happened to be a sex counselor as well (not why I chose him, but a point that my wife latched onto), and she was standoffish and not motivated to put in the work that our counselor was asking us to to. His therapy largely revolved around Gottman's principles, which made sense to me. We went to him for the better part of a year, in which we made some progress but nothing that really healed our relationship.
We have been back in therapy for the better part of a year now, this time with a counselor or her choice. I am 100% committed to our relationship, and am consciously putting in the work to try and prove that I'm here for her. I am the primary bread winner for our family, and recently found out that she had almost $20k in credit card debt from last summer - we separated at her request for approximately 4 months. I did not want to separate, but she did so after much back and forth, I moved into a relatives extra room for the summer. My wife had the house, and we rotated the kids on a schedule that worked for us. With me being the primary income source, I wasn't going to just bend over and let her spend my income however she chose, so I changed all of our auto payments onto a card in my name and told her that groceries would be paid for. I agreed to budget 300 a month for fuel to get the kids to/from their things, and anything additional she needed to come up with. I paid for the car payment, insurance, kids items and activities, her gym membership, etc. My income pays for our commitments with nothing substantial left over, so there was no personal gain for me. I really don't care what the charges are for, so once I found out about the debt, I transferred most of it to an interest free card to be able to make payments reducing the balance without incurring interest charges.
Since coming back together, it's just tumultuous most of the time. It seems like anything I do, it's always wrong. If I clean a bathroom, I should have cleaned the kitchen and she is furious that I don't automatically know what I should be prioritizing. If I give the kids instructions and she doesn't agree, she will outright call the suggestion stupid and tell the kids to do something of her choosing. I've been called a narcissist by her more times than I can count; so much so that I had to ask my own counselor if I would be considered one to which she says 'absolutely not'.
Our typical interaction is short. She often rolls her eyes and scoffs at anything that I say that she doesn't agree with. Often times our conversations start out ok, then by the end she is making several contemptuous statements like "you always", "all of you" etc. During therapy she is visibly confrontational, often replies with "I don't know" to any number of questions our counselor asks. Our counselor has asked her "do you want to be in this relationship?" To which she replies "yeah if things change", but won't fully explain what needs to change. I could be as nice and sweet and try to do something nice for her, just to be met with a cold shoulder. Other days it's well received and noticed.
I am a very patient person most of the time, but I'm at my wits end. I feel like I'm living a means to an end with someone who doesn't value what we've developed together. I don't know where I stand day to day, I don't know if I should trust her, I don't know if I should give this time or start moving towards ending this. I love my wife, but I can't continue to get treated like a pile of 💩 and still provide everything just to not have anything left over for myself. I'm working a full time 6 figure job, and have a side business that I started just to add some income to help payoff the credit card debt. This leaves me literally 2-3 hours per night to spend with my kids, most of the time consumed with making dinner and getting the kids ready for the next day.
Recommendations? Advice?
2023.05.29 22:54 shrew_in_a_labcoat Update: Sold car by dealer pretending to be private seller- car dies less than 24hrs later. Won't refund.
So after having the car inspected by a garage, sending the seller the list of faults (which were many and some dangerous), much wrangling and threats of court, the dealer has agreed to a full refund. However he has asked for the car to be returned to him with a signed letter stating I will take no further action against him or his business, only when the car, keys and paper work are in his possession will he credit my account.
I'm nervous to do this as what would stop him from just refusing to refund when the car is on his property? He lives nearly 100 miles away so it's not easy for me to hang around until he payes me.
This was his last email to me:
"I will say again for the last time – The car will be delivered to my car park. The keys/paperwork and paper from you stating no further action. Then and only then, will I refund you the money. If the car is not delivered to me within 14 days from the date of this Mail then the refund offer is retracted.
I will not correspond with you anymore only to confirm your delivery date and time."
I know he cannot legally revoke the refund offer but I'm wondering where I stand with the return issue?
I had said that once the truck arrives and he has the letter of no further action I need the refund in my account before the transport company will unload the truck. Is that unreasonable?
Does he have to have the vehicle on his property before making the refund?
Any advice welcome
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I'm nervous to do this as what would stop him from just refusing to refund when the car is on his property? He lives nearly 100 miles away so it's not easy for me to hang around until he payes me.
This was his last email to me:
"I will say again for the last time – The car will be delivered to my car park. The keys/paperwork and paper from you stating no further action. Then and only then, will I refund you the money. If the car is not delivered to me within 14 days from the date of this Mail then the refund offer is retracted.
I will not correspond with you anymore only to confirm your delivery date and time."
I know he cannot legally revoke the refund offer but I'm wondering where I stand with the return issue?
I had said that once the truck arrives and he has the letter of no further action I need the refund in my account before the transport company will unload the truck. Is that unreasonable?
Does he have to have the vehicle on his property before making the refund?
Any advice welcome
2023.05.29 22:54 notanotherone779 Feeling stupid
It’s nearly been 12 months and I’m further from healing and moving on than I was 6 months ago. It’s been a rollercoaster going up and down for a while now but this is the lowest I’ve been since we’ve split up.
I trust my gut feeling 100% and broke off our relationship based on my gut feel and small pieces of evidence pieced together, but now my gut is telling me he’s seeing someone else and it’s tearing me apart. I see the distance, I feel him moving further away - but I can’t stop speaking to him and seeing him.
I feel so stupid but I still obsess over him, I wanna know what he’s doing, why he’s not replying and I want him to want me back - but I know he’s just filling in the gap I left with someone else because I broke it off. I feel like I can’t be upset, but I’m making zero progress again and just feel like I’m never making it out of this hole. Talking to other men feels like I’m being disloyal so I don’t…
I want to tell him how I’m feeling, but don’t want to leave myself vulnerable? I told him that I couldn’t be around him anymore and he took this as me being rude and cutting him off when I just physically can’t be around him without getting upset.
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I trust my gut feeling 100% and broke off our relationship based on my gut feel and small pieces of evidence pieced together, but now my gut is telling me he’s seeing someone else and it’s tearing me apart. I see the distance, I feel him moving further away - but I can’t stop speaking to him and seeing him.
I feel so stupid but I still obsess over him, I wanna know what he’s doing, why he’s not replying and I want him to want me back - but I know he’s just filling in the gap I left with someone else because I broke it off. I feel like I can’t be upset, but I’m making zero progress again and just feel like I’m never making it out of this hole. Talking to other men feels like I’m being disloyal so I don’t…
I want to tell him how I’m feeling, but don’t want to leave myself vulnerable? I told him that I couldn’t be around him anymore and he took this as me being rude and cutting him off when I just physically can’t be around him without getting upset.
2023.05.29 22:53 dreambeyondthedawn My [23F] mother warned me about my boyfriend [32M] attending dance lessons on his own
We’ve been dating for a bit over a year. Let me preface this by saying I am originally not really concerned. My bf used to attend dancing lessons three years ago, really enjoyed it and was good at it after 4 years of intermittent training.
He has recently taken them up again after a 3 year long hiatus, joined most times by his friend and his sister (who’s a friend of mine). He previously said he would find it fun if I were to join sometime, but more recently, once I mentioned joining next time they went, said that perhaps I wouldn’t be able to keep up with the lesson since I’m just a beginner and they take the basics for granted.
One of my main principles when in a relationship is that it only makes sense as long as there’s complete trust. I would never forbid my partner from doing anything he enjoys due to worrying it may lead to infidelity - to me, loyalty is only valuable if it’s chosen freely. I just would never want to feel like my partner is being faithful only because I’m not allowing him to do certain things. It’s an all or nothing. Once trust is broken it cannot be repaired and anything in between is probably lack of compatibility.
Now, I do feel unavoidable feelings of jealousy sometimes, since I’m human, but any discomfort I may have felt at the thought of him dancing with other women I’ve managed with the aforementioned mantra as well as the acknowledgment that he enjoys dancing for the sake of it and it’s a genuine hobby.
I’ve felt a bit bothered by his apparent change of heart about me tagging along, because although his concern might be legitimate, I would appreciate more encouragement and excitement on his part. It’s also true that he took up the lessons with his single friend initially, so perhaps he feels it would be disrespectful to him to have to mind his gf during the lessons they signed up for together. I can understand all that.
However, my mother asked about him tonight and I told him he’s out dancing with his friend. My mother’s expression suddenly turned serious and said “In all honesty, I wouldn’t like it one bit if my boyfriend was out dancing with strangers without me”.
I don’t know whether I should insist on joining the dancing lessons since I have always been genuinely interested in taking it up as a hobby, or if it’s better to take it as though my bf prefers to keep this hobby separate from our relationship. I also wonder whether there’s an underlying level of jealousy, founded or not, in the discomfort and sadness I feel about him no longer being excited about me joining.
TL;DR: bf used to attend dancing lessons before we started dating, now has recently taken them up again along with a friend of his. He initially encouraged me to join but has since changed his mind on account of the level being too advanced for me. My mother believes I should be concerned and insist on joining him. Trust is a requirement in my relationship so should I just assume there’s nothing wrong despite being hurt he’s not excited about me joining anymore?
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He has recently taken them up again after a 3 year long hiatus, joined most times by his friend and his sister (who’s a friend of mine). He previously said he would find it fun if I were to join sometime, but more recently, once I mentioned joining next time they went, said that perhaps I wouldn’t be able to keep up with the lesson since I’m just a beginner and they take the basics for granted.
One of my main principles when in a relationship is that it only makes sense as long as there’s complete trust. I would never forbid my partner from doing anything he enjoys due to worrying it may lead to infidelity - to me, loyalty is only valuable if it’s chosen freely. I just would never want to feel like my partner is being faithful only because I’m not allowing him to do certain things. It’s an all or nothing. Once trust is broken it cannot be repaired and anything in between is probably lack of compatibility.
Now, I do feel unavoidable feelings of jealousy sometimes, since I’m human, but any discomfort I may have felt at the thought of him dancing with other women I’ve managed with the aforementioned mantra as well as the acknowledgment that he enjoys dancing for the sake of it and it’s a genuine hobby.
I’ve felt a bit bothered by his apparent change of heart about me tagging along, because although his concern might be legitimate, I would appreciate more encouragement and excitement on his part. It’s also true that he took up the lessons with his single friend initially, so perhaps he feels it would be disrespectful to him to have to mind his gf during the lessons they signed up for together. I can understand all that.
However, my mother asked about him tonight and I told him he’s out dancing with his friend. My mother’s expression suddenly turned serious and said “In all honesty, I wouldn’t like it one bit if my boyfriend was out dancing with strangers without me”.
I don’t know whether I should insist on joining the dancing lessons since I have always been genuinely interested in taking it up as a hobby, or if it’s better to take it as though my bf prefers to keep this hobby separate from our relationship. I also wonder whether there’s an underlying level of jealousy, founded or not, in the discomfort and sadness I feel about him no longer being excited about me joining.
TL;DR: bf used to attend dancing lessons before we started dating, now has recently taken them up again along with a friend of his. He initially encouraged me to join but has since changed his mind on account of the level being too advanced for me. My mother believes I should be concerned and insist on joining him. Trust is a requirement in my relationship so should I just assume there’s nothing wrong despite being hurt he’s not excited about me joining anymore?
2023.05.29 22:53 TheStubbornIntrovert 30 may 23 (escape room)
In a place like vadachenmai movie, we family were on 54ip and got looked into escaped room unknowingly and it's near fishing water and forest.
First event table. Someone sits on it and once stands up, he got pulled into hole under seat. On seeing it is seen there is a huge tunnel like going straight down under the home on which these tables are laid.
There is some pattern to escape. All members sits on dinning table. One person stands. Next person if he is not correct person then both falls. Girl was crying. She is sis of yam near home. Her marriage got delayed since her grandfather died. She was crying in a pattern.
It is seen and we followed and one by one diganolly stands and leaves dinner table.
Something like these goes on...
In another thing, group of 3 has to confess who is badass in a particular thing by thorwimg something into that huge hole is ground. Sis, me. And one more person confessed how ...... Least badass gets killed. Once all 3 confessed, person with mask comes from forest hidently which .we noticed. He was going after 3rd person. But we helped him to escape. We were trying to beat the villain.
That guy turned his way and goes to another place and randomly smashes face of another guy and runs into forest since we intervened.
Many scenes were forgotten but
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First event table. Someone sits on it and once stands up, he got pulled into hole under seat. On seeing it is seen there is a huge tunnel like going straight down under the home on which these tables are laid.
There is some pattern to escape. All members sits on dinning table. One person stands. Next person if he is not correct person then both falls. Girl was crying. She is sis of yam near home. Her marriage got delayed since her grandfather died. She was crying in a pattern.
It is seen and we followed and one by one diganolly stands and leaves dinner table.
Something like these goes on...
In another thing, group of 3 has to confess who is badass in a particular thing by thorwimg something into that huge hole is ground. Sis, me. And one more person confessed how ...... Least badass gets killed. Once all 3 confessed, person with mask comes from forest hidently which .we noticed. He was going after 3rd person. But we helped him to escape. We were trying to beat the villain.
That guy turned his way and goes to another place and randomly smashes face of another guy and runs into forest since we intervened.
Many scenes were forgotten but