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I woke up to extreme dizziness (room was literally spinning), I felt nauseous, and had a hard time walking to the bathroom. Since my mid 30s I've had issues with hearing loss and ringing in the ears but didn't think much about it until today. Any advice on what triggers these attacks? Does cannabis help or hinder attacks? I take ADHD meds (low dose) and wonder if that could have caused it? I'm also about to get my period so wonder if water retention due to pms triggered the attack? I know everyones bodies are different but am curious what causes your attacks or is it random? Not sure what to expect and never want to have one of these attacks again.

I've been plagues by this issue for YEARS, and I have never found a solution, it seems so beyond me at this point.
The gist of it is, programs (typically games) have been regularly crashing on me for seemingly no reason, for years. My PC is custom-built, and otherwise I've had no issues. Programs included are Minecraft (Java,) Team Fortress 2, and (unfortunately) Genshin Impact. Recently, Discord has also been experiencing random crashes. As far as I can tell, none of these crashes have a trigger that isn't in some way behinds the scenes, where I can't see it. Game reinstallations have not fixed any of them. Both trying newedifferent versions and reinstalling Java has not fixed crashes for any Java-based games. Minecraft exit codes are also entirely inconclusive, as looking them up usually nets zero explanation.
Another issue I have experienced in recent months is some inconsistency with internet connectivity. My current setup is a 2.4/5ghz router setup with one satellite. The satellite is just outside the room my PC is within, and switching between 2.4/5ghz has not remedied anything, which makes me fairly certain distance is not an issue. My connection method is a PCIe card, with the most recent drivers dating back to 2020. To be more detailed, the issue appears to be my upload and download latency. When I perform speedtests, my ping is typically sub 30, but latency up and down spikes into the 150-250 range over and over. In games, it causes my ping to spike (display as 70 or greater values before resting at ~30-50 for a few seconds.) TF2 has very frequent rubberbanding/random teleporting, making the game unplayable. It seems like the down/up latency is causing the server to stop recieving my live inputs and continue holding the last recieved inputs, making me move in straight lines.
Google searches for my problems have been mostly inconclusive. I update my drivers regularly, at least the commonly known ones. Windows is updated to the latest version at the time of writing. My network card is a TP-Link Archer T6E v2, and my motherboard chipset is B550m. Down/Up speeds sit at around 220+ and 12 respectively, in Mbps.
I know this might be a bit much to unpack, but any help would be greatly appreciated.

Do Jesse and Jordan and Esteemed embarrassed Guests ultimately intend to include Boogie Nights, or are they going to only watch Burt’s pieces of garbage circa now onwards? Also, intent to watch Evening Shade the sitcom?

Hey yall I just got off the waitlist at UCSD! I am still unsure if I want to switch but I was wondering the chance of getting a single dorm room for John Muir!

Our boy, a 140lb St.Bernard was having some issues with stubbornness and annoyance at us when we made him go into his kennel at night, after our move. With consistent games, treats, reinforcement, it just got worse over a couple weeks. He would bark, bare his teeth, run around the house like CRAZY, until we discovered a trick.
The INSTANT he shows us signs of aggression or annoyance that leads him to disobey, everybody in the room drops what they’re doing and goes to another room, shutting the door behind us. He gets SO SAD that we stopped paying attention to him, coming to the door and crying. Since learning that trick, all of our nighttime problems have magically disappeared
Keep in mind that quality time is a positive reinforcement for your dog, and they want to make you happy in the longrun. I almost cried when it worked out so well the first time

In the weight room specifically. I assume I'm looking for explosiveness?
I'm around 20', looking to add a few over the next couple months.
Any and all tips appreciated! 🤙

ElidiMoon

Looking to tell cool stories with cool people
Pronouns: She/her
Age: 25+1d4
Timezone: BST

EXPERIENCE

3 years GMing & playing 5e, PbtA, OSR and more.

SKILLS

Creating Driven & Grounded Characters, Engaging with the Setting, Sharing the Spotlight, Creating Character Playlists.

INTERESTS

Roleplaying, Gaming, Comedy, Music, Writing.
Are you tired of prepping world-shattering events and reality-bending plots? Sick of high-level PCs stomping through your encounters? Look no further!
I'm an experienced roleplayer who loves both sincere drama and silly goofs, and I'm looking for a game that is less epic heroism and more slice-of-life adventures. This doesn't mean I don't still love a good lore doc, as I like to invest in the world I'm playing in. This can be 5e or any other system you want to run, I'm always open to trying something new!
If you have a group already and think I would be a good fit, great! Otherwise, I am happy to do all the admin of finding players and putting together a table so all you have to do is worry about the game.
What I'm looking for:

• Open communication and shared commitment.
• Room for humour and sincerity.
• A friendly environment and no bigotry.
• Discord preferred, webcams optional, VTT optional (theatre of the mind is fine!)
• A weekday afternoon/evening (GMT+1)

So if you're interested, please fill out this brief form and I'll speak to you soon!

ElidiMoon

Looking to tell cool stories with cool people
Pronouns: She/her
Age: 25+1d4
Timezone: BST

EXPERIENCE

3 years GMing & playing 5e, PbtA, OSR and more.

SKILLS

Creating Driven & Grounded Characters, Engaging with the Setting, Sharing the Spotlight, Creating Character Playlists.

INTERESTS

Roleplaying, Gaming, Comedy, Music, Writing.
Are you tired of prepping world-shattering events and reality-bending plots? Sick of high-level PCs stomping through your encounters? Look no further!
I'm an experienced roleplayer who loves both sincere drama and silly goofs, and I'm looking for a game that is less epic heroism and more slice-of-life adventures. This doesn't mean I don't still love a good lore doc, as I like to invest in the world I'm playing in. This can be 5e or any other system you want to run, I'm always open to trying something new!
If you have a group already and think I would be a good fit, great! Otherwise, I am happy to do all the admin of finding players and putting together a table so all you have to do is worry about the game.
What I'm looking for:

• Open communication and shared commitment.
• Room for humour and sincerity.
• A friendly environment and no bigotry.
• Discord preferred, webcams optional, VTT optional (theatre of the mind is fine!)
• A weekday afternoon/evening (GMT+1)

So if you're interested, please fill out this brief form and I'll speak to you soon!

Hi! I’ve tried out a few house cleaners using KSL and they all end up being extremely expensive. I feel like they tend to do a deep clean and things like putting new sheets on the bed and like wiping our window shades down and that’s just way more than I’m looking for.
Anyone have a reasonably priced cleaner they can recommend that just does the basic vacuum, mopping, wiping surfaces and cleaning bathrooms? We have a 3 bed 2 bath in the sugar house area.
Any rec’s are appreciated!

I initiate a phone call from my watch (via my airpods, which are connected to my watch). Then the call always transfers to my phone, even though my phone is usually far away (e.g. bottom of my backpack across the room). The call still shows up on my watch, and confusingly my watch says it's still the device paired to my airpods. But the only control I have over the call at that point from my watch is to hang up.
If I want to adjust the call volume on my airpods, say, or enter a number on the keypad, I have to stand up, walk across the room, and dig to the bottom of my backpack to pull out my phone to do it. I can't do it from the watch.
How do I stop this from happening? What setting am I missing?

If you want to play the game… - Was once breifly a millionaire (lost it all by the morning) - I have a tattoo of two koi fish on my leg - A fox once tried to eat me
Good conversationalists are actively encouraged! Hey is for horses, not conversation openers. Hit my up with a random or deeply intimate question, or a photo of a pet, or your favourite quote.
Bonus points if you attach a photo of yourself so I know you aren’t 🐈🎣-ing me.
Always thought people get along better based on mutual values rather than mutual interests, but heres my ever growing list of hobbies anyway:

• Gardening
• Kayaking
• Running
• Cycling
• Hiking and the great outdoors
• Nature
• Climbing/bouldering
• Reading (currently on Dune)
• Bullet journalling
• And other things I’m probably missing

Happy to chat on here, Discord, IG.
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I (16 f) have a cat named bean and she is a normal cat with normal cat behaviors like jumping on counters and tables. And my mom has told me that she is going to sell her because of that even though we have another cat that does the exact same thing and when I tried to explain to her that zuse (the other cat) does that too she started to yell at me saying "no he dosent you are just trying to keep that stupid cat" so I just went to my room and went to sleep but today I asked my mom if she was going to give bean away and she said "I don't want to talk about the cat right now" and so I said "just tell me if your going to give her away" then she said "go to your room" so I said "why are you being so mean" so she said "why are you being such a baby" I lashed out at her "why are you such a bitch first you sell my dog now your tring to sell my cat" "what is wrong with you" she said so in response I said "you are not going to sell me cat" "it's not up to you" my mom said "you sell my cat I sell you" so she sent me to my room. So can someone please tell me what to do or say

I need to keep the trash can because it isn't mine (I can't just throw it away) It's a small room trash can and There is some random trash in it so I can't just dump it into the drain or the toilet. Might seem dumb but I genuinely don't know the best way to get rid of the contents without making myself sick again. It's seriously disgusting and I don't know what to do with it. Please help!!

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Please help me! (Idk if this belongs here but this would improve my life lol)
My family and I don’t even own any pets. We have stray cats roaming around my neighborhood (and they make kittens every once in awhile). Our neighbor across the street for whatever reason keeps feeding these stray cats.
These cats like to jump into our backyard, find ways to get into our garage and chill by our house. Now, they’ve been bringing along fleas with them.
They’re in our house… everywhere!
I’ve cleaned my room (we have carpet) so I could vacuum there and the living room. We’ve also vacuumed the bathrooms and other bedrooms. They’re just so small, we can’t get everyone of them.
We can’t exactly get these cats to stop coming around our house (they jump over the walls/gates and somehow manage to get on our roof).
I’m so sick of having to check if there are fleas on my socks/ankles every few minutes. I’ve killed maybe between 6-9 fleas from catching them and squishing them with my nails but I can’t catch all of them since they hop away. My ankles are all bitten up now.
What are easy ways to get rid of fleas?
Thanks in advance!

Hey folks! On the hunt for something stylish and ultra-comfortable armchair-wise. No $3000+ recs, please! Really just looking for something that I can sink into for hours without getting uncomfortable. I'm tall, so some back support would be great. Who's got the goods?
So far, the best option I've found is this chair from West Elm. It's part of their contract-grade line-up, so probably sturdier, but still would prefer to order elsewhere if possible.

In regards to the recent anti- trans laws passed I decided to write a poem. I don’t really know it can be considered a poem because it doesn’t have what it seen as the structure of a poem, really. So I don’t know what you would call it in particular. But I wanted to write something and came up with this. ( lol) I didn’t know where I should I put it, but wanted to share it. So I thought it might be a nice place to start. It’s called “The binary!” I hope you enjoy! (Sorry for the grammar)
THE BINARY I hate being trans sometimes But not in the way you think, I hate constantly being excluded in conversation, As it is like my existence is astray I am never even acknowledged, As my entire life is reduced to two options, One or the other, Black or white, To the parts that lie down below, To my presentation, My voice, My Hair, My body, Society, Social norms, Never recognizing intersectionality, Because of course it was how you were born, Because the binary always proceeds No less than two, no more, Because the binary always proceeds It fits us in tiny little cute boxes with a pink or blue bow. But for the ones who don’t fit exactly You better fit, You better fit, You better fit, You BETTER FIT, I hate being trans sometimes, But not in the way you think, I hate how I’m only an extension for one to spread their political views, I hate how I am the victim of one’s infatuation, I hate how I am the butt after every joke for the man to regurgitate from our sight, I hate how I have to make a mark to be recognized, As I’m the only one who has pronouns, a name and a body, But of course my Genitals are what you're more concerned with, not who I am, But as class is in session they split into two groups on either side, I was confused, wary, in a daze, Because no child should have to ask the question what about me?, Why I’m I not included, Why does everyone ignore my existence, Because no child should be told that their identity is a phase, That they are confused, crazy, or just gay, That they deserve less opportunities, to stay silent, and it will go away, Have no access to pay, or health care, No child should have to ask, Why am I different from everyone else, Is there something wrong with me because of the way I am, But You made yourself clear You don’t want us in your bathrooms , You don’t want us in your spaces, You don’t want us in your schools, Restaurants, stores, businesses, houses, streets, parks, You don’t WANT US TO EXIST Because the binary always persists, Forces us into a room one blue the other pink, And if you don’t fit exactly You better fit, Your better fit, You better fit, You better fit, You better fit, YOU BETTER FIT, My life decided by what lies in my pants, Called predators and groomers to children, Rights taken away by your command, Yet you stand, as finely packed lies lie about your fridge, But of course it just about the Children, What about the suicide and murder of trans kids, The lack of rights, Empathy, Reduction of space, Lack of safeness, Lack of acceptance, The homeless rate, But we’re the ones that should be ashamed, But there you stand in your bubble of hate, You made yourself clear with your silly laws and cognitive dissonance, As we lie fault to our own detriment, as we’re supposed to sit as willing participants, But you made you truth evident, You don’t want us in your rooms , grocery stores, clubs, schools, movies, relationships, sports games, businesses, in positions of power, ads, parades, concerts, award shows, YOU DON'T WANT US TO EXIST, BUT THE BINARY ALWAYS PERSISTS Forces us to choice what we’re assigned, Stuffing us tightly and if we don’t fit exactly, You better fit, Your better fit, You better fit, You better fit, You better fit, You better fit, YOU BETTER FIT, I hate being trans sometimes, Not because I hate myself, Because everyone hates me for being trans.
( Edit: I thought this would be nice to also post this in non-binary but I don’t know 100% for sure. So it anyone has any thoughts or feels I should it there also, or that you feel it doesn’t belong here in this particular subreddit, feel free to let me know!)

Spending time with my spouse's family. We are both introverted, but have learned to 'fake it til we make it', primarily in the work force. The trip is only for a few days, so we are staying in their home. They are absolutely wonderful, loving, caring, and genuine. I've always had levels of social anxiety that progress around my time of the month which is now, of course.
I am very different culture and appearance wise from everyone else here. I also do not speak the same language. For thus reason, I often feel this massive irrational feeling that I am constantly being observed, noticed, or judged by my looks, personality, lifestyle etc. I also understand these feelings are very much my own internal manifestations. They've given me no reason to think otherwise.
Because I feel like this unconsciously at times, I tried a bit harder than usual to spend time, be conversive, and try and form as many positive connections that I can. Both for myself and my spouse.
My spouse loves exercising and wants to do it with their sibling (running 7 miles in the middle of the afternoon, because he didnt want to wake up early). Which I absolutely support, but i feel my feelings of being left alone werent considered. We had discussed me being a but uncomfortable before coming and without prompting he genuinrly told me he would not leave me alone. We did not even have a discussion about the working out or when, or how long, however.
I do not want to be the butthole, but i feel overwhelmed, exhausted, like I do not have space (although I am in a private bedroom right next to the family room), but also like a selfish brat for even feeling this way. Its only a few days.
I have currently been away in a room for a good 2 hours or so and worry what people think so much i cried and got red eyes. Now my eyes are too red to leave. I love his family. They are truly wonderful people who did everything they couod to make me feel like family. I feel the main concern I have is, I want to be understanding and do this for my spouse and family, but I also feel like my feelings were not being considered. Should they even mayter?
Am I being unreasonable? I even typed an angry text to my spouse while he left (but did not send, only vented in it to myself). I did a little box breathing to calm myself down. I'm proud of myself for not impulse texting. I plan to rewrote my feelings with a calm demeanor and discuss this briefly with him when I can.
But is it even worth it and if so, when?

Hey, I hope it's okay if I talk about it here, but I really need an advice. I'm 14, soon 15, girl. My almost whole life, I've been Christian, Catholic. I went to church, took religious classes, etc. But around 12, I started to question my religion. I didn't feel like a Christian. At that time, I tried to be. But around turning 14 in June 2022, I was pretty sure I'm atheist. It just confirmed during next months. But I haven't told anyone. I kept it as a secret to not ruin my relationships with my family. Especially my mother. My father doesn't care about this stuff, he even doesn't go to church (which will be important later), my brother is mentally handicapped, and I also live in the same house as my grandparents from my mother. They're both very religious. But my mother is very religious and I think I can call her narcissistic. Maybe she's a good mother, just not for me. But last December, 2022, there's something called (holy) confession going on (or at least in my country), which is basically that you go to church, tell the priest your sins (that are just bizarre) and he tells you you've been bad and tells you to pray and let's you go. I always hated it. Didn't see the meaning behind it, didn't make sense to me. In December 2021, I was supposed to go with my grandparents, but before I could've gone there, I think I almost got a panic attack. I got headache, bad breathing, I couldn't stand etc. When I told my mother, who stayed at home with my brother, I couldn't do this, she yelled at me, told me I'm joking (I'm not, I couldn't even speak when it happened) and I'm just lazy and don't want to do it. I cried and told her I didn't, yet she didn't believe me and told me that next day, she's going to city close to us to get a confession there, and I'm going with her. Fortunately, I did it, but the priest was mad about things like "I didn't go to church every Sunday", which just seemed bizarre to me, and I didn't even pray as he told me. At Easter 2022, which is the second time we're supposed to go to confession, Christmas and Easter, I was seriously ill whole week this was happening, so I couldn't go (yay!). Well, Christmas 2022 came and one Friday before going to school, my mother told me that the next day, Saturday, we're going to confession. I told her "no" and she said I'm going and "she doesn't see any reason why I shouldn't go". I spent the whole day worrying and thinking what I'm going to say, but I just knew I have to tell her. I came home and told her I'm not going anywhere tomorrow, and she again asked why. I told her everything. That I'm atheist, but I respect her religion as much as possible, and I couldn't care less if she'd be Muslim, Christian or Jew, anything, even pastafarian, I.don't.care. But her response... scared me? I can't tell. She told me "but I'm scared you might be Muslim or something like that." Excuse me? Why should you be scared? I won't punish you for that. We barely talked the whole weekend after that, but I haven't gone to the confession. I haven't gone there even at Easter 2023, but my mother made me go the grave, which is just a statue of Chesus laying in the grave, and to pray. She told me to pray and when she asked me if I did, I was very naughty and lied and said I did pray (didn't even think about that).
The thing is she most likely wants me to be Christian again. She makes me do these things - go to church and pray, even though I really don't feel comfortable with it. When I told her about an annoying girl in my class and said that if she won't stop annoying me, I'll do anything to stop her, she said "no you won't because you're a nice Christian girl-" and at that moment I yelled "I'm not Christian!" And she just rolled her eyes and acted annoyed. Do I call her atheist girl just out of sudden because I'm atheist? I asked her to respect me since I respect her. I don't make her be also atheist, I just live my own atheist life and let her live her Christian one. Well, she responded with something like "you don't respect me and my religion, respecting it would mean going to church etc.!" E-excuse me? That's the exact opposite of respect. But if this is what respect means for her, we'll see how my respecting her will go (don't plan on doing it btw). And also, I respect people like Muslims and Jews and Buddhists, does it mean, according to her, that I should celebrate Hanukkah (that is an amazing tradition btw - putting a candle on the window so others get light too - I love you), go to Mekka or get my daily dose of meditation? Also, all the time she says something like "but you want to go to heaven so you'll do this" I want to f-ing die and done. I don't want to meet your favourite oc (that's not very oc). A Also, I stopped taking religious classes in 2021 when I was 12, and only after I promised I'll go to church instead, and that's very weird. But I didn't, covid quarantine saved me hehe. I got out with it also because the teacher was and still is very annoying. But like 5 mins ago, I heard her talking to my father about it and she said that the next time the priest (on my village we have one) will be asking her why I don't take religious classes anymore, she'll say because of the teacher, and that if she wouldn't be there, I'd still be going there. How about letting me decide? Also, when I told her I'm atheist, she had to tell my father and asked him "are you Christian?" and he said yes, even though according to her he isn't since the last time he was in church was like 5 years ago. She also used this as some "he is Christian I'm Christian so you should be too" okay, I'm woman, you're woman, my father should be too, now you realise how stupid it is? I also have two uncles, my mother's brothers, that I guess are also atheists. They go to church for like Christmas etc., but they don't go and do these things otherwise just because they moved out. I know I'll go to hell but e n v y. Also, ~month ago, she was watching the news and I just entered the living room and the reporter said something about LGBT, and she asked "well but what it is?" So I explained: L=lesbian, G=gay, B=bi, T=trans. She just knocked at her head which is a sign of pointing at something stupid in case someone doesn't know and asked for her letter, as "N, for normal!" She also says that she accepts normal (sigh), lesbians and gays. As a person that has been wondering about this some time and is thinking if I'm bi or not, this didn't make me happy. Also, some time ago, like year and a half, she told my cousin she'd accept her if she'd be anything, mentioning even bi. But my mother and my cousins is a whole different series.
Not so long ago, I told my Christian friend that has a bit of a problem to accept people different than her, and she was like "oh, I didn't know" and we joked about it. The whole time we laughed at our stupid jokes about it, I just wished my mother was like that. At least in the religion thing. Now, me and my friend talk like if nothing happened, because nothing happened.
I really need an advice. I don't know how long I can take this. She constantly laughs at people who are trans/bi/etc. and shoves her religion into my mouth. I don't know if my grandmother knows about me being atheist, but if she knows, she took it somehow lightly. Her fanatism is a whole different level. As I said, I don't know how long I can take this. My emotions are like a roller coaster, I'm sensitive and can get angry easily. I'm trying to do something about it but it's not getting much better (that's why I adore the Buddhist mindset). If anyone knows what to do, I'm opened to your suggestions. I'm 14 and can't move out, I wouldn't even got out with it if I tried. Thanks. Oh, and sorry for possible grammatical errors, English isn't my first language. Thanks again.