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Welcome to the official subreddit for the rif is fun (formerly reddit is fun) Android app!

2012.06.07 03:45 kmyeRI Ingredients

For the discussion of ingredients on food labels, how they change over time and/or geography and if they meet certain dietary requirements. Product names and legible scans/pictures are encouraged; as are date of purchase and general location, manually typing out the list is optional. This subreddit is open to discussions about dietary restrictions, i.e., whether Isinglass is vegan or not (it's not); it's also open to what things like Isinglass are ("a kind of gelatin obtained from fish").

2022.05.31 08:37 charlotteRain randomactsofphone

Just a place where you can ask someone call a place and ask them a question for you!

2023.06.08 20:51 Top-Strength-8838 The Urge to Text and Drive

Before you tell me, yes I know it’s illegal to text and drive. I’m well aware. But I imagine I’m not the only one in this subreddit community who knows the frustration of having something pop into your head while driving.
I am a notorious notetaker when it comes to my phone. It’s the only reason I’m able to remember a good 75% of what I am supposed to do in a given day.
The problem is when I’m driving by myself and an important reminder comes into my brain, I don’t always have time to pull over and write it down.
I’m open to suggestions on how to do this more safely from anyone else who struggles with this problem.
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2023.06.08 20:51 Comrade9174 How can I copy the settings in the generator file in this video with the current version of the mod? I opened the file and noRingVoid and swapOverworldToEnd aren't there, and there are settings that aren't there in the file in the video.

How can I copy the settings in the generator file in this video with the current version of the mod? I opened the file and noRingVoid and swapOverworldToEnd aren't there, and there are settings that aren't there in the file in the video. submitted by Comrade9174 to feedthebeast [link] [comments]

2023.06.08 20:51 yun-harla We support the API protest, but we’ll remain open June 12-14.

By now, you’ve probably heard about how Reddit is choking off API access, which will destroy third-party apps and probably take many critical third-party moderation tools down too. Please read the linked post to learn more. What it means for our community in particular is that many of the tools we use to ensure our sub remains safe from trolls, spammers, and other bad actors might disappear, and we have very little reason to believe Reddit will replace these tools adequately (if at all).
We strongly encourage users to join the protest and stay off Reddit from June 12-14. However, as a child abuse support sub, we have an obligation to keep the lights on for people in crisis. That means if you need support or want to support your fellow RBBs, this sub will remain open. We expect a lot less traffic on these days due to the protest, so please be prepared for anything you post to get less engagement than usual — but you will be able to post, and the mod team will be available as well.
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2023.06.08 20:51 szupresszor 20[M4F] Romania/Anywhere - Trying my luck again to find someone special and form a serious relationship.

Hello there. I am a 20 years old guy from Romania, Europe. Lately I felt lonely and I decided to try my shot here trying to find someone truly special to share my days with. Currently I am working a full time job and I live alone in my own appartment. I am looking for someone to starts things slowly, not rushing it. I would like to talk about our daily routine, work/school, share our days about what happened or how we feel or any random topic we have in our mind. I am open to a long distance relationship. I enjoy videocalls and voicecalls aswell.
Some infos about my personality:
I am an introverted, shy and emotional. As a person I am caring, loving and protective and I give all my attention to the loved ones to make sure they feel good.
My appearance is the next:
Slim body type, 190 cm tall (6'2), 80 kg (176 lbs), blondish hair and blue eyes. I am open to exchange pictures too.
My hobbies and interests include the followings:
- Learning about new cultures and languages. Currently I speak two languages on native level which include Hungarian and Romanian and I would like to learn about other languages and cultures.
- History. My favorite topic of history would be the middle age (Eastern European) and the two World Wars.
- Geography. All the mountains, seas, rivers, lakes which are surrounding us are so beautiful. Since I live in a mountain city I used to hike too on smaller mountains.
- Sports. Mostly I enjoy playing and watching football which I used to practice too before, but now only as a hobby. Other sports which I like are handball and waterpolo.
- Music. I like to listen mostly to everything related to rock music and rap music. But I am open to other music genres too and I would like to hear about your music taste too.
- Gaming. In my free time when I am off from work I play games on my PC on Steam. Maybe we could play some games too together if you are up for it.
- Movies and series. I don't watch them that much, but if it's a good movie or serie I would not turn it down.
- Youtube. I like to watch travelling videos mostly. I like travel videos because one day I would like to travel too around the World if I have the opportunity.
If you are considering to send me a DM, make a small introduction. Mostly I use Discord to chat, if you are ok we can move there, but Reddit chat is fine too.
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2023.06.08 20:51 LichtMaschineri University won't allow films that make them look bad...but somehow it's impossible to make them look good??!

So this is dumb. Basically, I'm in the college film club of our university. Recently, a buddy of mine wanted to show off his movie at a film festival. This festival only allowed the showing with a confirmation by our college, as parts of the movie were filmed in there. The college direction basically said "We're very supportive and fine with it. But the movie can't make the university look bad" -not going into detail what they really mean.
Now, here's my problem:k Like my buddy, my movie (our next project) is held primarily on college grounds. I had no problems not-slandering the university...until I actually went location scouting. For context: Our college is split into two areas, with me being in the art department. The location scouting took mainly place in the technical/IT department. The reason why it's important is that college sadly plays an important part in the idea & might ensure potential funding.
Wherever you looked, something was broken: Exposed wires hanging from the ceiling. Broken escalators and lifts not fixed for months/years. Furniture from 50years ago (and looking the part), and random rooms full of just...trash. Hell, we even found a form of attic. Or, to be more precise: The door to the attic, which was half-open and dangling out parts of a rusty staircase, just about to fall some poor lad on the head one day.
Now, I'm not trying to be a rebel here. But for fuck's sake- this place makes itself look bad without any help! Even worse: The more I work the locations into the script, the more I get the urge to slip in jokes about it. Of course, I can hold these back, but the first thing is still very worrisome to me.
How would you solve the issue?
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2023.06.08 20:51 Alex_tepa Question not sure this is the right subreddit for this but I need help

Question not sure this is the right subreddit for this but I need help
I was wondering does anybody know how to open where these film super 8
I know it's video but it's film Not sure how to open it I was reading it manually came with it cannot figure it out
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2023.06.08 20:50 Haw-thorn Need help troubleshooting as I been trying to fix this problem for a while now.

Need help troubleshooting as I been trying to fix this problem for a while now.
I have been fighting this problem for about a month now without achiving any real progress in how to fix it. I am suffering from various problems with my printer, mostly looking like under extrusion. clicking estruder. Most my prints for about a month ago have looked like this, (some havent but this is the most recent) I looked on a vast amount of youtube videos on the problem and tried them out but nothing bites so now I am trying here.
My printer: CR10S (like 4-5ish years old)
Things I tried:
  1. Clean the nozzle from clogg, (Used various needles, wires, coldpull and other many more ways.) Might have had a slight positive effect on the print quality.
  2. Changed the nozzle ("seems" or might have some positive effect for the first maybe 1-3 hours of test prints. Most test prints I do come out perfectly right after I changed the nozzle but the print after looks like in the picture)
  3. changed the PLA filament spole and brand (Tried various new PLA spoles I had expensive brands and cheaper ones.)
  4. tried various 3d models from the internet and also onces I made.
  5. Checked the filaments for twist and knots. (Probably opened 6 new spoles by now.)
  6. changed the printing temperature (tested pretty much all the recommended settings for pla 195 up to 220)
  7. checked and tested the extruder looks fine spring looks fine pushes filament.
  8. cut the bowden tube (It looked slightly deformed, I tried this twice but no real effect.)
  9. releveled the priting bed. (I done this 1000 times before)
  10. calibrated the x axis (it was quite bad)
  11. "kindof" cleaned the inside of the hotend/ heating block when cleaning the nozzle.
  12. Probably done alot more just cant remember them all as I tried almost anything.
  13. Trow the printer out the window. (Have not done yet but if things done change I probably will haha)
I done all these points and more between each "good print" and bad prints.
How the printing quality was right after doing more or less all points and changing the nozzle to a new one.
The second print I tried Printed in PLA, 205 degrees celsius with normal supports 100% infill. This print is missing maybe 5mms of layers on the top because the printer decided to start printing in the air.

third print I tried right after the second one without doing anything to see if it was the 3d model It started to print in the air without filament extruding and the extruder clicking like crazy.

I had the same failed print laying around from like a week ago and it seemed to fail at the same place? I noticed this in other 3d models I done that they fail or missing layer at this particular spot or close to it atleast.

This goes in a circle I try to fix the printer, the printer seems to work. and printer stops working.
Thanks in advance for all the help.
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2023.06.08 20:50 SaltBoysenberry3224 Blue bottles driving me bonkers

Help please?
I’m not sure what they are called in other countries but here in Ireland we call them bluebottles. Larger than a regular fly they enter your house regularly during summer months when doors are open(we don’t have screens, I wish we did).
The buzz noises from two bluebottles that are flying around my room is almost painful, it’s getting under my skin and irritating my ears. On top of that my son is playing a game upstairs on his computer and I can hear the clacking sounds of keyboard through the ceiling.
I went to the garden to calm it down but all the birds are chattering away, which I usually love, but right now it’s a bit too shrill/too much.
All the noise is making my brain bounce. I don’t think I’ve ever felt this overstimulated ever before. If that’s what this feeling is?? How can I stop it? I have earplugs that I was going to try but then I won’t be able to hear a thing.
Tld Any useful tips for calming down when you are overstimulated by constant irritating noises? Thank you all 🙏
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2023.06.08 20:50 wonderingafew888 Boss said "if they disagree, they should just leave"...I left instead.

First time posting here - not totally sure it applies - ha - but an earlier post reminded me of this situation I was in a few years back, so thought I'd share.
I was a 20+ employee for an organization with religious ties, in leadership, and the key point person for a lot of things, and pretty good at what I did. There were parts of the organization's religious group's identity that I didn't personally identify with, but felt as though I was making a difference there, generally enjoyed the work, and knew plenty of other like-minded (read "what the org would have called 'liberal') employees there, so I was content.
In my state, this organization's religious ties make them exempt from several laws - most relevant to this story, they are legally allowed to make hiring decisions based on/considering sexuality/sexual identity. While the organization had many constituents who were a part of the LBGTQIA+ community, and supported those constituents, they did not openly hire members of the LBGTQIA+ community. For years, I felt like a part of my reason for being there was to be a support to those members of the LBGTQIA+ community who were constituents in what was not always a positive environment for them.
I had an employee who was an outstanding performer - really, she was my BEST employee, if I'm being honest. She was a standard-setter in every way - an absolute peak performer. I had no plans to leave, but if I had plans to leave, I would have recommended her as a successor immediately. The work she did was important and wide-spread - it impacted every constituent in the org in one way or another. She was closeted when hired, and through a series of life events, came out after several years working for me. I was actually surprised at the community response - there were some skeptical folks and people who did the common religious "praying for you" thing, but many people were supportive of her.
We lived in that bubble for a couple of years, and then I took a plan to the supervisor of my direct supervisor (she made the salary/title decisions) to promote this employee for her exemplary work. The conversation started off poorly, and ended with " we really want to encourage her to stay here?" and "She knew the type of environment she was working in when she took the job - if she disagrees now, she should leave."
I knew, in that moment, that boss's boss was inadvertently speaking to me - I don't agree...I should leave.
I started the job hunt with one main criteria, found a place that was openly affirming with work that I was eager to learn, and took the job. It's ended up being an incredible fit for me - I love the work, love the people, and - surprise - members of the LBGTQIA+ community can both work here AND be promoted. I also ended up with a 20% pay increase during my first year, which was wild.
While my departure certainly didn't ruin anyone's life, everyone was pretty surprised with my departure, I definitely got my share of panicked "how did you complete this task?!" or "what was this procedure?!" calls, and they haven't been able to fill the role since.
Anyway - cheers to finding a workplace that's in alignment with your soul!!
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2023.06.08 20:50 bunnybise feeling a little behind at my tech writing job and feeling nervous

i just want to vent a bit. i started this job around march and i feel completely lost. i’m fresh out of college since may so i feel like when i accepted the job offer i think i bit a little more than i can chew trying to juggle finals and working full time. i know it’s typical to feel lost up until almost a year (from what i hear from my coworkers and my bf who also works in defense at a diff company) but idk i already feel so overwhelmed and i feel like i may not be progressing.
i’m a technical writer for a small defense company. i feel like the way how they do things around here is a bit unorganized and i feel like everyone knows this. my coworkers have complained to one another that there needs to be some sort of formal training and one on one at this job since there is so much complicated jargon to pick up on and there’s a lot to learn overall for the military. i’m working on this one manual and i’m apparently the third person to work on it. i’ve had to get with the engineer to discuss how each part works for the graphics I have to ask from the graphics team and i still was extremely confused coming out of it.
today i just had a quick meeting with the assistant PM and PM about my progress and they feel like I’m a bit behind. the deadline for this project is in like 2 months and my manual is almost done and all i have to do is insert the graphics images? i guess they saw i didn’t have much activity today (because i didn’t message/reply to anything in the group on teams?? i’m rather confused on that..) and that they were going to put me in a more structured team/training where i can get more one on one because the team i’m currently in right now, isn’t as structured as that one. i’m already discouraged from the company due to it’s benefits but hearing this leaves me a bit more discouraged?
i’m just starting to think that working in military/defense isnt really my forte, unless this company in particular isn’t great itself either. tech writers here at this company have a high turnover rate anyways and i feel like i shouldn’t beat myself up too much.
anyways just kinda curious if anybody else has been in the same position before and how they overcame the issue. im kind of tempted to leave eventually since i don’t see myself in this company for long. i feel like it could be something as simple as that the company isnt the right fit for me
tldr; new tech writer at somewhat unorganized small defense company for 3 months and feeling discouraged and can’t really grasp anything. being put in a different team for more training and one on one
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2023.06.08 20:50 Queenbreha Season 6 Episode 16 Bridesmaids Revisited

We open in the diner because Luke has fired his meat guy and Lorelai is listing all the reasons he shouldn't. Kirk is on a juicefast and thinks Lorelai smells like nougat. Rory is on the young voices of journalism panel, Lorelai tells Luke that Chris will be there. Lane is looking for a new band Lorelai is jealous that Lane knows April really well and lists all the games they play together. Scrabble, Monopoly and she reads all the rules first. Rory is a good editor, Paris is still angry at being outsted. Doyle is being quiet to try to avoid the wrath of Paris. Rory offers a suggestion to baby Paris and Doyle doesn't think it's best for the paper. Lane goes in the music shop and sees Zach playing banjo. Zach reads the ad and crumples it up.

Rory is getting dressed for her panel and Logan is getting ready for Honor's wedding. He is a groomsman and is bored already.
Rory greets her parents before the panel. There are several Ivy League college editors. Rory says she they have limited experience and don't know what they would do if the Federal Govt was applying pressure. She was the star of the panel along with Princeton guy. Chris has gone through four nannies and he can't get her in private school. Lorelai suggests public school which is ridiculous considering she knows how Chris grew up.

Zach goes to a Bat Mitzvah that Brian and Gil are playing at. Zach talks to the guys during their break. He is trying to impress Brian with his game skills and complimenting them on their playing. He says he wants to fix things. The boys say they will come back if Lane agrees.

Rory comes with Logan to the wedding. and Honor invites her to hang out with the bridesmaids. We learn Honor went to Brearley which is in NYC.
Chris brings GG to Lorelai's to babysit. All GG does is scream NO Lorelai found some of Rory's games. GG has turned the TV on and is watching Full House.

I do like Honor's hair and dress. The girls are talking about the guys who are handsy. Honor goes for pictures and the bridesmaids are talking about hooking up. They are talking about the groomsmen and hooking up and they all talk about when they all hooked up Logan before and recently.

GG is using permanent marker on Lorelai's floors and has made a mess of the house. She is letting out ear curdling screams. Lorelai bribes her to shut up.

Rory sits out the wedding because she is hurt that Logan slept with all the bridesmaids when they were broken up. Logan is uncomfortable that Rory found out but he didn't cheat because they were broken up. Rory thinks they were just on a break (A break means you are broken up) Logan is right that those girls shouldn't have kept talking about it after they found out she was Logan's girlfriend.

Zach goes to the diner and is telling Lane how upset he is and then he proposes. He even has a ring. She accepts. She is so excited she is giving wrong orders and toasters.
Chris shows up at Lorelai and says he had a good day with his mother. Lorelai tells him how out of control GG's behavior is. Lorelai is telling Chris she is spoiled that she needs more discipline. Chris is annoyed and Lorelai throws the nannies and the pre-school interviews in his face. She's right but she shouldn't throw it in his face.

Rory is getting drunk in a bar and Rory has a fit about the waitress trying to take her napkins. She doesn't want people touching her stuff. Doyle is also getting drunk, because Paris threw him out. Rory says she has to move out of Logan's because he had many blondes for Thanksgiving. Rory is out of drinking money because she took a cab from New York (Rory there is this invention called Amtrak and it can get you to Hartford.) Doyle is so drunk he is nuzzling Rory's neck.

Christopher calls Lorelai to apologize and offer to have the floor fixed. Chris feels guilty because GG doesn't have a mother. Lorelai says he hasn't ruined GG. He can turn it around and just needs to be a little tougher.

Rory goes to Paris's apartment because she has nowhere else to go. She tells her she came because she heard she and Doyle broke up and then admits that she broke up with Logan. She tells Paris Logan cheated with an entire wedding party. Paris says she can stay Rory calls Lorelai to tell her she has a new address.
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2023.06.08 20:50 Badd-reclpa- On-Command Segment Detachment?

My main vehicle is an armored motorcycle. It has some weaponry, but I’ve experimented with a detachable drone for added firepower.
I know of using batteries to delay a segment detachment. However, I’m looking for a “switch” method, where I can control when it triggers. Perhaps something with springs, similar to how I use springs to decide when to open my cockpit. Maybe something with electricity switches?
Does anyone have a suggestion I can experiment with?
EDIT: An alternative could be finding a way to make my tank enter autopilot. Maybe use a spring to lower a homing cart below my tires so it determines movement?
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2023.06.08 20:49 xcrowsx 💡 Product Tips: Build in the Open, CTA in Email Signature, and Autofocus

Some product tips on the importance of building your product in the open; how to grab the attention of your users by adding a CTA to your email signature; and how the HTML autofocus feature can increase the UX of your product.
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2023.06.08 20:49 interesting_alien I'm scared that in the end, I'll actually give in to death.

I've been going to therapy for almost two years and I've been taking anti depressants to 'ease the pain'. In front of others, they usually see that I have been handling my depression well but in reality I haven't. It was all a pretend and I haven't changed a lot since I started getting professional help. If I told my family and friends about this, they'll probably give up on me. My mother did during my last attempt and it was heart breaking to see that. I couldn't completely vent to anyone about what I'm feeling.
I often think about things like what would've happen if I didn't have depression. When I was a child, I didn't really understood the world that was given to me. The constant of being able to run outside and feel the warm breeze are the only things I cared about. I was so young and innocent. I didn't care what others think of me. Throughout the years, many hated me for no reason. I was bullied because I didn't see the same world as other people. I was treated differently. My family was the worst one out of all of them. I was a child and I expected them to protect me from any harm but they didn't. Most of them left me battle the world without any advices and the only thing I can do was constantly protect myself. I was alone and lonely. All I needed was love and support but I got nothing. When I found out I was adopted, I pretend to accept it. It made me even more isolated and I felt more different than others. Nobody never taught me how to love so when somebody actually wanted to give me their love, I destroyed it. Many people told me it wasn't my fault but saying that tells me the opposite. Others told me to move on but it was hard battle and I was already tired when I started it.
Now I lay stuck in my bed surrounded by my messy room. I managed to graduate from college but I have a degree of another person's dream. I look at people with anxious because I always think they hated me. Most of people in my lifetime either hated me for no reason or gave up on me. I wake up at the same time, 10 am to take my medicine and if I have the energy to clean my room I would. My government insurance will expire by the end of December, just in time to celebrate my birthday and I don't think I can pay extra for therapy and my medicines. I rarely step outside and talk to my parents because they always trigger me with their big expectations. I've been wasting my time and time usually don't wait for nobody. I'm afraid that in the future I'll probably snap and continue with the plans I've been delaying since I was young. Each year I grow close to it. I'm tired from fighting.
What is my purpose in life? I used to believe in a God while I was struggling with my life hoping that they would save me. However now, I always wished that they would end me. Is there even a higher being up there? or was I just a pawn of their entertainment? Was the devil also a part of their schemes? this horrible life. Did I do something wrong in my past life that I have to suffer this way? Why am I one of the people who just can’t get lucky? Can’t just take a break? Death is around the corner, nobody really knows when they will meet it. In my situation It feels like death is knocking on my door, waiting for me to open it.
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2023.06.08 20:49 AggravatingHippo570 Issues Scheduling with MichMed Specialists

Since I moved here I've had issues establishing care with Michigan Medicine doctors (even with a primary care physician, which I still don't technically have). I see a specialist and I was informed she was leaving and that I needed to schedule with another doctor, this message had names of equivalent practitioners. I'm being told I can't schedule with any of them - despite needing a new doctor because mine left. They won't open spots for people already seeing a doctor when that doctor leaves? We just have to start the process all over again? How is this an acceptable practice? Why are none of their doctors ever accepting new patients?
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2023.06.08 20:49 gapotskie I (18F) need some advice with my bf (18M), should my boyfriend know everything about me?

My boyfriend (who I've been dating for 2 years now( seemed down and I asked what's bothering him but he keeps saying that it's okay and that he's just tired after a long day at school (This happened while texting). We're both classmates so we spent the whole day together. We have other classmates who are very annoying to be with but we just keep it neutral but rant w eachother about how annoying they are when we're alone.
When I got home, I spent a few hours finding clothes for my graduation photoshoot. I had a hard time responding to his msgs since I was busy. When I finally got to talk with him (while texting) I told him the things I did while I was gone (I always do that, i also want to know if thats okay pls send advice.) then we just continued talking. I wanted to open a topic about my classmates who pissed me off during class (he also hates those ppl). Then I just kept on ranting because I was really angry and annoyed. Usually, he will also say things that annoyed him during the day but this time he didn't. He did but not so much.
Like I said, It seemed like he's bothered by something. It took a hard time but when he finally told me, he just said that he's not in the mood all the time to listen to all my rants.
He told me that he's stressin out. Stressin because it seems like he wasn't doing enough to help me everytime I am stressin out about my problems. He also felt like I was waiting for something to be done or said by him everytime I open up about my probs.
Which is not true, sometimes I just want someone to listen. And since he's my boyfriend i thought it's alright to talk to him about everything (things i feel, see, experience, and ofc my personal problems which is mostly abt my family and friends). I am very open to him, I try to be since I thought it's the right thing to do. Is it the right thing to do?
He told me he is not expressive or emotive, whatever you call it. He is the kind of person who always finds a way to solve a problem ( he usually voice out a solution to me everytime i rant, sometimes i just want him tk listen but i know he wants to help me but he doesn't need to). I am a very sensitive person. I am always in my feels. I cry easily. That's why it made me sad to think that he is that kind of person. Not that it's wrong to not be in ur feels all the time. It just made me question our relationship, our compatibility. What should I do. I told him I will adjust because he did so much for me and I know now that I am being a burden to him.
I am considering leaving him because I don't want to burden him anymore, it felt wrong sharing these burden with him. he did not deserve that. I don't deserve him at all. He always try to fill in the shoes of my parents or my friends and takes care of me in the way he thinks I deserve. He gives so much. I think I give too little. It makes me sad but I really feel like I just give him headaches. That's why I think he's better off without me.
But maybe i'm just lost and I just need advice.
I just don't know how I will act in our relationship since we are so different.
I told him I will lessen the burden by not ranting so much anymore but not sharing my thoughts with him seems hard because I've been so comfy with him. I think it became my personality too when it comes to him. He's my boyfriend and my bestfriend.
Can you share some advice? What's the mature thing to do?
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2023.06.08 20:49 moonbeamcandle Starting Therapy; needing advice

Hi there! I'm new to this reddit and would like to briefly introduce us. We go by Bruce and are are a DID system of roughly 30 individuals.
We're starting therapy soon, but not for DID. Our parent is forcing us to go, because we have 'things wrong with us'. We have really awful amnesia and need help for it, but we also live in a rural area filled with 'True Christians'(iykyk) and I don't know if its safe or not. Its mostly CBT and DBT, but I know in some cases these can be medical gaslighting which is scary.
How do I go about this? How will I be able to bring up DID without giving it away? We're not openly a system and its scary to think about. We need help, but are worried for safety. Our parent doesn't think DID exists, so she can't find out.
Forgive me for being scatter brained, if anything doesn't make sense let me know please!
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2023.06.08 20:47 phdlv Landlord from hell:

I’m on mobile so sorry about the quality.
My husband and I live in Texas, (USA) and we found the perfect house to raise our daughter who will be born in a month. We moved in February 2023. This home offers a beautiful 3bed 2bath layout for $1450 a month which isn’t horrible for our area. We were withheld some information when we moved in - the biggest thing - our landlord lives in a studio apartment connected to the house. Now you might ask; how do you not know someone’s living there? We were told it was rented out to someone who stays maybe a week max in the year because they travel for work. Nope, our landlord lives there; full time. Since we moved in, she has complained up and down about EVERYTHING. We are quiet homebodies, every respectful of the space, we have few friends who do occasionally visit.
Complaint #1: she hired a property rental team to rent the house to us; our main point of contact is a wonderful woman named Ana who has been a saint through all of this. Our landlord has sworn since my husband and I moved in that we’re renting a room out of “her house” and that there’s strangers coming and going. It got to the point that she was looking into our windows, trying to open the conjoined door that connects our laundry room to her studio which always remains locked on our side, walking into the back yard when our back door was opened and trying to walk in. This was quickly stopped after we installed cameras inside and outside of our house.
Complaint #2: we have a wonderful dog named Lea, she’s a trained ESA and it is illegal for landlords to refuse rental with proper documentation from doctors regarding. I have submitted all of her paperwork, AND paid a $300 refundable pet deposit fee which I was happy to do so; our backyard is just patio with no grass as grass is uncommon in our area, we have terf in an area in the back that’s cleaned everyday and we’ll maintained. Lea pooped ONCE on the concrete and it was cleaned up within a few hours; but our landlord took photos - sent it to me and said our dog is not trained and we need to get rid of her. Mind you; this is not a shared backyard. Per our lease; the backyard is ours and we can do what we like with it.
Complaint #3: one of our close friends got to our house before us on a Friday when we were running errands. We told him to let himself in and we’d be there in less than 5 minutes. She immediately called me and said someone broke into our house and is throwing things around. She said she called the cops and they were on their way. She claims she doesn’t feel safe when we’re not home because of the strangers going in and out. At this point; I very politely told her to mind her business and to stop watching our home.
Last night was the final straw when she called me and said my dog is barking at all hours of the night outside. My dog sleeps in bed with us through the night; gets let out at 5-7am for 5 minutes to go potty, and comes right back to bed until 9 when I feed her. We do have neighbors with outside dogs that do bark but it’s what dogs do; it certainly isn’t ours though. I told her if she refunded our full deposit and pet deposit we would GLADLY move out as she’s been nothing but stressful through our pregnancy. Our property manager sent us a listing for a home she has that is a little bit more than the one we’re in now but we can take it before she even lists it.
My question is; with all of the evidence of her snooping, complaints, and just absolute horrible behavior - if she fights us getting out of the lease; do I have a strong enough case in small claims court to move out without penalty?
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2023.06.08 20:46 ischeatingalwaysbad I miss you

I had forgotten how to smile, and you reminded me. I had forgotten how to laugh, and you made me every single day. I had forgotten how to give and receive love, and you showed me. We never got good at taking compliments from one another, but we did our best. I miss telling you how gorgeous you looked every day and hearing you respond with, "Thank you," or "You're very sweet," and watching your face turn a shade of red. I miss being complimented by you and trying to turn it back around, only to be told, "No, we're talking about you right now. Take the compliment." I miss hiding my face behind my hood when you would. I miss the winter and watching you wrap your scarf around you so I couldn't see you blush. I miss our pool side suite where I would sit in the bathroom and talk to you while you were getting ready, and knowing that you were allowing me to do so even though you said you prefer to be alone during that time. I miss being a sit-on-the-same-side-of-the-booth-when-possible couple. I miss shoving pieces of sushi into your mouth when I didn't know how to respond to your kind words. I miss getting dressed and going out back in the middle of the night to smoke a cigarette, and how you would put on one of my hoodies and sit with me. I miss talking to you during that time about anything and everything as you put your feet on me and I started rubbing them without hesitation. I miss holding you as you fall asleep and your little twitches before you drift off. I miss waking up in the middle of the night, covered in sweat, and having to roll over so I could cool down, only for you to whine in your sleep because you knew I wasn't there. Every time I would quickly, and quietly, put my arms back around you, so that you wouldn't wake up fully. I miss opening doors for you, driving you, and treating you like the queen you absolutely deserve to be treated like. I miss you and everything about you that makes you the wonderful you that you are. I want to be trapped in a car during a hail storm with you and never let my lips leave yours. I want to walk around the city with you and notice all of the people smiling at us. I want to give you my jacket and refuse to admit that I am cold, because I don't want to make you feel guilty for taking it, even though I gave it willingly.
You have now, and always will, the other half of my soul. I miss you. I want you. I need you. I love you.
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2023.06.08 20:46 SevereFlorality Discovering that I’m stupid broke me

I was always considered to be extremely intelligent. I was always ahead of children my age - when I was 6, in kindergarten, I would be reading medical books instead of interacting with children and all adults (except for my parents) always praised me for my intelligence. Even in secondary school my physics teacher started rambling about how intelligent I am in the middle of the class because I got shy when she told me that my project was fantastic (it was absolutely embarrassing I wanted to disappear from the room), even though I had mediocre grades from this subject on that level (all B’s).
(Now, shortly: in my country, you get into highschool based on your points. Points = points from your final exams from secondary school added to your final grades from secondary school and eventual addictional activities/achievements. Classes in our highschools are strictly profiled: for example classes with extended biology-chemistry-maths or maths-physics-english etc.)
I got into the best class in my region. Actually, I was supposed to be in a different class, but you can always write a document to a headmaster, asking whether there is a room for a new student in a different class and they will most likely transfer you and that’s what I did.
Nonetheless, even if I didn’t get into this class, I would still be at the best school in my region. I’m in class with extended biology, chemistry and maths, with additional extended French (DELF course).
Being in here made me realize how insanely stupid I am. Dumb, empty and hopeless. Surrounded by all of these actually talented kids, being probably one of the worst students in the class.
(No I’m not failing anything. My grades are just mediocre. And mediocre is bad in my class, because the other kids have stunning performance)
Because I was smart. Intelligent, whatever. But not in general - I just was that compared to my other peers. And now when I’m faced with the best people from around my region, it opened my eyes.
It makes me feel so bad. Intelligence was the only good thing about me, ever. Because I’m ugly and not very social, and I would rather observe than be a part of something. Which is considered unattractive (in many meanings of that word) by an extremely big group of people.
And yeah, I befriended someone. We clicked so fast, because we’re so similar.
The difference between us, that we’re not similar in?
She is so fucking intelligent and beautiful at the same time.
(And guess who isn’t)
She gets good grades without studying, whereas I could study and still get a bad grade.
And far enough, I’ve had undiagnosed ADHD and just got diagnosed and all, but still. So many people with ADHD have extremely good performances and I’m just… there.
I’m glad that I got faced with this, because I was and always will be scared that I’m living in my own bubble. And I did, with my intelligence. But it just hurts so bad. I also want to be smart, and pretty, and cool and I also want to have good grades and good social life.
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2023.06.08 20:45 LowlySpirited the piggies

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2023.06.08 20:45 phantomroguegalaxy 23 f (US) Good friends make the world go round!

Significant note: ONLY MESSAGE ME IF you're 21+ years old (NO MINORS) and from the U.S (due to the difference in timezones past 3 hours). I'm on Pacific standard timezone so I would like to talk with you if you're from CST, PST, or MST. I'm not interested in NSFW, drugs, alcohol or talking about politics either so DON'T contact me if you like those things
I know I sure am! I hate not having anyone to chat with (aside from my bf, he's got his friends but I STILLL don't got mine!) and share fun things I love! I'd love to have someone to do Spotify sessions with, so that we can use the 'blend' feature and introduce each other to brand new music we've never heard before. Please don't ask me to share playlists, as that's not how I roll. I'd rather us both listen together, it's just better that way imo. I like to play this game on my PC called cyber hunter, it's an addictive and underrated battle royale. I'm not looking for a gaming buddy aside from that game tho! I also would be down to possibly watch things on YouTube or even watch movies or something from time to time. What I'd really like to do is have a few close friends so that we can talk on the phone once we get to know each other for quite a long while. I'd definitely love to talk to others and learn things I never knew before! Which is one of the top reasons why I still throw my hat into the ring on here. Please understand that it takes time to warm up to someone and I do not want to feel forced to doing something. So don't push me to do voice chats right away or I may not respond anymore!
I'm someone who likes to be supportive of their friends and just be there for them. I like being able to recommend things I think would be helpful if someone is in need. I also am open to listening to you vent and giving you advice! I'd just hope this isn't all that we do as there's more to a friendship than constantly talking about our problems. I like to send and receive long, well thought out messages as opposed to short ones. I'm big into having deep and meaningful conversations over small chat any day. I also love hearing stories and even talking about stuff that's happened to me. I respond fairly fast, however reddit is really broken so I don't quite get notifs anymore. I'd be more than happy to move off this app once we've been talking for quite a long while. I don't like moving immediately off the app, so again do not try to pressure me to do things I don't want to do. We gotta respect each other's boundaries and develop trust afterall!
As for what I'm looking for in a friend, I'd hope you could be kind, respectful, communicative, consistent and thoughtful! Of course other things too but these are all key! I'm not really looking to be friends with anyone who isn't open to chatting all throughout the days/nights. I understand that everyone's schedules vary, but I'm more than happy to make time for others. Whether I am busy or not, I always make sure to get back to people I enjoy talking to. So I expect that you also want to do the same with me! I'm also a night owl, so it's very much preferred you're one too as I never have anyone to chat with before I sleep. And I miss having those epic 3 am chats where you both can't stop chatting because the convos are just that good.
Anyways, I'll leave a bit about me then pass it off to you! Please make sure that you put some effort into your messages because... Well, if you don't I most likely won't respond to you. I don't have patience to talk to brick walls and people who expect me to do all the talking. I work best when I can go with the flow of all my conversations, rather than constantly asking back and forth questions. Feel free to check out the other posts on my profile if my interests I list are not enough here!
Some things I'm really into right now: across the spider verse, guardians of the Galaxy 3, squishmallows, thrifting, reading comics, binge watching TV shows and movies, listening to music, going out/going for walks, being in nature/taking nature pictures, playing pool, playing tabletop, playing games on my modded ps vita, PC, and PS5, etc.
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